Eye contact and pupils

[Anonymous]

Out of sheer curiosity, how many of you take note of women's pupils dilating when you talk to them? A particular number of women I've met and talked with whose pupils were dilating interestingly also showed much more prominent signals indicating they were attracted to me.

Of course, not every woman who reciprocated my romantic interest had dilating pupils, but a surprisingly large number of them have shown this tendency... I'm just wondering how accurate/reliable this really is. And how this compares to women whose pupils remain relatively stable... I don't want to place too much importance on this minute detail, more out of interest in everyone's experience while eye gazing...

 

[trashKENNUT]

J.J,

Out of sheer curiosity, how many of you take note of women's pupils dilating when you talk to them? A particular number of women I've met and talked with whose pupils were dilating interestingly also showed much more prominent signals indicating they were attracted to me.

I think when you not used to see a girl eye to eye, you tend to skip all this together. But have to agree, girls whose pupils were dilating are showing much more interest.

Zac

 

[Altimeter]

That's the number one thing I look for, the starry anime eyes.
That's the biggest indicator of interest for me, you got that, then it's all green light.

Same with girls getting all excited when you call them, I love that.

 

[Flames]

I find I can't do it, that is to say when it happens (and I'm sure it does a lot) Im not in a state where I say to myself 'oh look her pupils dilated' as I'm too busy doing other things. So consciously I don't notice it all but sub-consciously I'm pretty sure it happens a lot, it's not for the want of trying to notice though.

In other words I notice something has occurred but I don't know what it is, but I suspect that is what is happening.

Hope that makes sense.

 

[Altimeter]

Its not gonna look like this

But you know, it's like how women's eyes would be when they get all excited when you call (love it when they do that...)
You know the puppy in love look..

 

[diegoC]

I guess if many people here look at the bridge of the nose so they don't jump from eye to eye they won't be able see the pupils.

Particularly, I hate looking at the bridge of the nose. I look into one eye and just don't jump to the other. I've been able to see the pupils but I really don't pay attention to this at all.

I think if she is happy with you, there will be other non-verbal signs that are more easily spotted than looking at her pupils.

Cheers!

 

[Estate]

Out of sheer curiosity, how many of you take note of women's pupils dilating when you talk to them? A particular number of women I've met and talked with whose pupils were dilating interestingly also showed much more prominent signals indicating they were attracted to me.

Of course, not every woman who reciprocated my romantic interest had dilating pupils, but a surprisingly large number of them have shown this tendency... I'm just wondering how accurate/reliable this really is. And how this compares to women whose pupils remain relatively stable... I don't want to place too much importance on this minute detail, more out of interest in everyone's experience while eye gazing...

This is only my opinion but I don't really pay attention to this sort of stuff.
It's really unreliable... if they don't dialate, it doesn't mean she doesn't like you and vice versa... they could dialate for any reason.

It's not that reliable and these sort of things sound very hokey to me.

I think to really read it you have to be an expert on this sort of stuff and again, even then, it's not reliable.

Like a girl accused me of going red when she said something cute to me last weekend... I think I might have been a little red but I was actually roasting hot in the bar that night... she only noticed when she said what she said... because it was only then she was looking for it and read into it... she probably saw what she was looking for but not for the reasons she was looking for it.