Facebook Game

[Play_Boy101]

I've recently been using facebook as a way.to pick up women, & my pictures are great I have 50+ likes on most of my photos from girls! But its like when we talk it will go smooth & we'll relate really well but the all of a sudden they stop messaging me! Or sometimes I'll go in with a direct & never get a response the majority of the time! I switched up my strategy & tried situational opener usually saying something relating to a post they shared! That upped my responses but now it seems i'm back to square one for some odd reason & that's barely getting responses! Someone please help i'm very confused, is facebook game the right way to go would I have higher chances of success with going out to meet women? Or is there something i'm totally missing?


Sincerely,

Play Boy

 

[Howell]

I've recently been using facebook as a way.to pick up women, & my pictures are great I have 50+ likes on most of my photos from girls! But its like when we talk it will go smooth & we'll relate really well but the all of a sudden they stop messaging me! Or sometimes I'll go in with a direct & never get a response the majority of the time! I switched up my strategy & tried situational opener usually saying something relating to a post they shared! That upped my responses but now it seems i'm back to square one for some odd reason & that's barely getting responses! Someone please help i'm very confused, is facebook game the right way to go would I have higher chances of success with going out to meet women? Or is there something i'm totally missing?


Sincerely,

Play Boy

Hey there, you probably should share more details for us to be able to answer your question about what you're doing wrong. Perhaps provide a few examples of exchanges you've gotten in. You would certainly have better chances going outside to meet women though -- it's not even a question. Yet you can use FB to arrange logistics and build compliance and intrigue (though most guys set it up in a way that it totally kills their intrigue). However, you probably won't have much success if you are trying to meet new girls on there who you've never met in real life before, and you of course can't move very far if things just stay online. That's why online game should be focused on moving quickly into getting an in-person meet-up, otherwise things will most likely go nowhere and you're wasting your time (though, you can use FB as a way to practice aspects of your text game, if you are so predisposed to do so).

Howell

 

[Eternity]

I've recently been using facebook as a way.to pick up women, & my pictures are great I have 50+ likes on most of my photos from girls! But its like when we talk it will go smooth & we'll relate really well but the all of a sudden they stop messaging me! Or sometimes I'll go in with a direct & never get a response the majority of the time! I switched up my strategy & tried situational opener usually saying something relating to a post they shared! That upped my responses but now it seems i'm back to square one for some odd reason & that's barely getting responses! Someone please help i'm very confused, is facebook game the right way to go would I have higher chances of success with going out to meet women? Or is there something i'm totally missing?


Sincerely,

Play Boy

Them likes are from random girls or social circle girls? I got a Facebook to give Tinder a try but am wondering if you message random chicks or hit up girls you knew and their reaction to you hitting them up after years of not talking/staying in touch. Tried it with one but got my friend request denied, even though I personally knew this chick from high school and shit, guess she's still stuck up as always...

P.S Dig the username, If I was you I'd shorten it to Play_Boy...

 

[Play_Boy101]

Yea its 90% of the time random girls I talk to & who like my pic, some of the time I get them to wanna see me in person with good enough game but then they end up flaking on me. Do you think it's a fear of meeting someone new? I just don't think some girls realize that sometimes their closest relationships are with the ones they didn't know?

 

[Eternity]

Explain your process in detail, curious to see how it works...

 

[Bboy100]

Try using Tinder if you're not already doing that. You'll probably be 10x ad successful.

 

[Eternity]

^Me or the OP?
10x ad successful? What do you mean by that?

 

[Bboy100]

I was talking to OP. And I meant 10x as successful*
Reason being is that if you have good pictures (sounds like you do), Tinder is 10x easier because the girls on there expect you to message them and are actually looking to meet guys off the app. Whereas messaging random girls on FB sounds very hit and miss. Also kind of blindsides them (i.e. they think "who is this guy, and why does he want to date me?...how did he even find my profile?"). I'm not saying FB dating doesn't work. But it just seems like an ineffective strategy given the other similar tools available to us at this day and age.

 

[Eternity]

^Need a lot of friends and activity on your Facebook for it to work best or it just comes down to yo pictures?

 

[Bboy100]

Tinder is about pics. That's 90% of it. Facebook activity doesn't show on Tinder.

 

[Play_Boy101]

Very useful response bboy101!