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HoofHearted

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Hi team,

Apart from cold approach during the day, I am also trying to get numbers from social hobbies at night.

I keep seeing a certain outcome-- the women love interacting with me, seek me out in the venue, hang with me, pull me around, show off to me etc ("watch me dance!"). So we have good vibes.

But i go to pull the number and i get responses like

"I'm actually in a strange place right now..."

or

"Well, if I ever see you again, maybe then you can get my number..."

And stuff of that ilk.

I am interpeting this as considerate rejections. I'm a lil unattractive rn physically (its getting better, takes times).

If/when i see these women again, they seek me out for interaction, but i just assume they like other things about me?

Is this a useful/realistic perspective?


Thanks
 

Will_V

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Hi team,

Apart from cold approach during the day, I am also trying to get numbers from social hobbies at night.

I keep seeing a certain outcome-- the women love interacting with me, seek me out in the venue, hang with me, pull me around, show off to me etc ("watch me dance!"). So we have good vibes.

But i go to pull the number and i get responses like

"I'm actually in a strange place right now..."

or

"Well, if I ever see you again, maybe then you can get my number..."

And stuff of that ilk.

I am interpeting this as considerate rejections. I'm a lil unattractive rn physically (its getting better, takes times).

If/when i see these women again, they seek me out for interaction, but i just assume they like other things about me?

Is this a useful/realistic perspective?


Thanks

This post seems to apply: https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...ething-new-guys-often-miss.26733/#post-153510

I would suggest being more polarizing - make more sexual inuendo, touch her more, tease her more, demand more compliance etc
 
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