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Example of girl opening and logically accepting early sexual frame. Inb4 Skills what year is this.
Her: Hi Francis! What brought you to [city]?
Me: Hello [her name]! The place I was renting is being torn down for condos so I moved closer to work and the excitement.
Me: You are quite cute! It's a shame you seem to be looking for something more serious. I was swiping a little fast without reading!
[LR note: rewarding her opening; screening hard for time wasting against her bio saying looking for "something serious" and "monogamy"]
Her: We've all been guilty of that, no worries. Darn, too bad that we're looking for different things. Best of luck!
Me: Well I've always dated openly - best of both worlds - adventure and connection. You're laser focused? No time to waste
Her: I aim to be laser focused, but not til I find "the one". That is my goal though.
Her: You're quite cute yourself
[LR note any compliment = escalation window]
Me: A worthy goal indeed. Well if you'd like me to divert your focus a little in the meantime, perhaps we should cozy up somewhere private to chat to get to know each other [her name].
Her: Are you not after the same?
Me: Well, perhaps a decade away from starting down that path and maybe make some babies. I've learned in the meantime not to lead anyone on.
Her: Damn, ok. I appreciate your honesty!
Me: Open conversations are always the most interesting, don't you agree?
Her: For sure
Me: And when you're on a little vacation from long term goals especially... You're free to open up without judgment or expectation.
Her: [phone number]
Me: I admire your forwardness, [her name].
-Francis
Her: I don't know about forward, but open minded maybe?
Me: Well I like how you moved things forward. Open to getting together then?
Her: For a drink or something, sure. No promises beyond that.
Me: Comfort and trust are important. There's never a point of no return. We can feel out each moment.
Me: Good morning [her name]. How's your schedule looking? Let's plan getting together
Me: Hi [her name], I hope you had a fun weekend. Still feeling open minded for a chat somewhere? It's ok if not! Just let me know
Her: Hey Francis! I'm sorry, your last text got buried and I forgot to reply, my bad. I would be up for grabbing coffee or a drink sometime this weekend or next--let me know what works for you.
Me: Hey there! Saturday afternoon coffee sounds fun. What part of town are you in [her name]?
Her: Sounds good, weather permitting (we're supposed to get a fair amount of snow Saturday). I'm available after 3 pm. I'm [in area]. Very comfortable downtown, too.
Me: Oh nice. Do you live alone? I could always come by for a coffee and zero expectations chat if it's snowy.
Her: I'm not comfortable with that the first time meeting, sorry.
Me: That's ok! Is it the your place part, or being alone part?
Her: Ummm...both!? Lol, sorry for being difficult, but safety first. That being said, I won't be offended if you change your mind.
Me: For you wanting to feel comfortable trusting me? I want you to invite me to the closest cafe to your place and spend time getting to know each other.
Her: Ok well....for someone who said he wasn't looking for anything serious, you sure are a gentleman. Thank you! This is a good one: [cafe name and address]
Me: In some ways, perhaps. Nice pick [her name].
Me: Hi there. How's your timing today... Thinking 3:30 or 4?
Her: My volunteer shift was cancelled for weather, so I could even do 2:30 or 3.
Me: Sure, let's do 3. Good day to cozy up for a chat
Her: Sounds good, see you at 3
Me: Got her early.. I'm tucked in the corner when you get here
Date was very informational and interview like. I found out early she had plans to eat at her parents' after. She was a little nervous and since there was a solid sexual frame from messaging, we just got to know each other almost platonically. I let silences linger and she would ask more questions about me.
Seeded playing piano together. When we parted she asked if she could hug me.
She is a devout Christian who attends church regularly with her family.
She also volunteers for a Pro Life organization.
Me: Nice chatting with you [her name]. [The market I went to after] was nice. Hope dinner was too. Talk soon
Her: You too, Francis! Glad you were able to check out [market]. Dinner was good, got to visit with my brother for a bit and now just getting home.
(P.S. you are ridiculously good looking
)
[LR note this is not true, and probably attributable to light stubble, button shirt, and underlook expression. I find physical compliments come when a girl is in an aroused state, feeling you are attainable, and signalling an escalation window]
Me: You had me turned on looking at your legs when you were first up at the counter in front of me.
[LR note: rewarding forwardness, screening for solid sexual frame]
Her: Oh yeah?
Her: I'm going to bed now, but I look forward to seeing you again soon
Me: You like that mental image? Sweet dreams
Her: Here's an actual image for you. Good night
[She sends a photo with lips and cleavage]
Me: Very nice [her name]. It's going to be hard to control myself next to you on the piano bench
Me (next day): It is literally called the knuckle song
Her: Haha no way! Would never have guessed it was that simple, thanks for solving the mystery
Me: Is heart and soul simple to play? The knuckle song gets complicated
Her: Oh don't back down now! I believe in you. But yeah, heart and soul is fairly simple.
Me: When are you free to show me how it goes?
Her: I could do a weeknight towards the end of this week, or anytime this coming weekend. What's your schedule like?
Me: Ok cool, how about let's do Wednesday if that works
Her: Sounds great
Her: How's your Sunday been?
Me: Morning. Been writing a paper. Looking forward to a break. Yourself?
Her: Ah, I certainly don't miss paper writing. Hope it's going well.
Me: Yeah it's good but definitely looking forward to being done. Almost there
Her: Awesome
Me (next day): Finally finished. Will be good to relax tomorrow. What time are you free for piano recital?
Her: Nice! For the record, it's a piano lesson and/or duet, no recital happening
Is 7:00 ok? I work till 5 and quite frankly just got home/need to do a bit of cleanup before you get here.
Me: Sure, 7 sounds great. No worries, I won't put you on the spot for a performance. It's ok if the playing gets a little messy.
Her: Great. My address is [address]. I'm off to bed now, but looking forward to seeing you tomorrow
Me: Morning! Perfect. I'll give you a heads up on the way. Talk soon
Her: Sounds good!
Me: Hi [her name], I'll be heading soon. See you about 7
Her: Sounds good! [Parking logistics].
I knocked and went in. After some brief how was you day stuff, we sat on the couch and I let silent tension build.
She said "you're going to have to say or do something". I said "you want to break the tension? Come here" and kissed her.
She said "I wasn't planning on doing anything" and "I don't know how far we're going to go tonight". I said "we don't have to" and kept kissing her. She was very into the making out so I suggested we go to her room to have more space.
She said it was too messy in her room, let's lay on the carpet.
Two minutes later, she asked if I had a condom, and I fucked her on the floor.
Her: Hi Francis! What brought you to [city]?
Me: Hello [her name]! The place I was renting is being torn down for condos so I moved closer to work and the excitement.
Me: You are quite cute! It's a shame you seem to be looking for something more serious. I was swiping a little fast without reading!
[LR note: rewarding her opening; screening hard for time wasting against her bio saying looking for "something serious" and "monogamy"]
Her: We've all been guilty of that, no worries. Darn, too bad that we're looking for different things. Best of luck!
Me: Well I've always dated openly - best of both worlds - adventure and connection. You're laser focused? No time to waste
Her: I aim to be laser focused, but not til I find "the one". That is my goal though.
Her: You're quite cute yourself
[LR note any compliment = escalation window]
Me: A worthy goal indeed. Well if you'd like me to divert your focus a little in the meantime, perhaps we should cozy up somewhere private to chat to get to know each other [her name].
Her: Are you not after the same?
Me: Well, perhaps a decade away from starting down that path and maybe make some babies. I've learned in the meantime not to lead anyone on.
Her: Damn, ok. I appreciate your honesty!
Me: Open conversations are always the most interesting, don't you agree?
Her: For sure
Me: And when you're on a little vacation from long term goals especially... You're free to open up without judgment or expectation.
Her: [phone number]
Me: I admire your forwardness, [her name].
-Francis
Her: I don't know about forward, but open minded maybe?
Me: Well I like how you moved things forward. Open to getting together then?
Her: For a drink or something, sure. No promises beyond that.
Me: Comfort and trust are important. There's never a point of no return. We can feel out each moment.
Me: Good morning [her name]. How's your schedule looking? Let's plan getting together
Me: Hi [her name], I hope you had a fun weekend. Still feeling open minded for a chat somewhere? It's ok if not! Just let me know
Her: Hey Francis! I'm sorry, your last text got buried and I forgot to reply, my bad. I would be up for grabbing coffee or a drink sometime this weekend or next--let me know what works for you.
Me: Hey there! Saturday afternoon coffee sounds fun. What part of town are you in [her name]?
Her: Sounds good, weather permitting (we're supposed to get a fair amount of snow Saturday). I'm available after 3 pm. I'm [in area]. Very comfortable downtown, too.
Me: Oh nice. Do you live alone? I could always come by for a coffee and zero expectations chat if it's snowy.
Her: I'm not comfortable with that the first time meeting, sorry.
Me: That's ok! Is it the your place part, or being alone part?
Her: Ummm...both!? Lol, sorry for being difficult, but safety first. That being said, I won't be offended if you change your mind.
Me: For you wanting to feel comfortable trusting me? I want you to invite me to the closest cafe to your place and spend time getting to know each other.
Her: Ok well....for someone who said he wasn't looking for anything serious, you sure are a gentleman. Thank you! This is a good one: [cafe name and address]
Me: In some ways, perhaps. Nice pick [her name].
Me: Hi there. How's your timing today... Thinking 3:30 or 4?
Her: My volunteer shift was cancelled for weather, so I could even do 2:30 or 3.
Me: Sure, let's do 3. Good day to cozy up for a chat
Her: Sounds good, see you at 3
Me: Got her early.. I'm tucked in the corner when you get here
Date was very informational and interview like. I found out early she had plans to eat at her parents' after. She was a little nervous and since there was a solid sexual frame from messaging, we just got to know each other almost platonically. I let silences linger and she would ask more questions about me.
Seeded playing piano together. When we parted she asked if she could hug me.
She is a devout Christian who attends church regularly with her family.
She also volunteers for a Pro Life organization.
Me: Nice chatting with you [her name]. [The market I went to after] was nice. Hope dinner was too. Talk soon
Her: You too, Francis! Glad you were able to check out [market]. Dinner was good, got to visit with my brother for a bit and now just getting home.
(P.S. you are ridiculously good looking
)[LR note this is not true, and probably attributable to light stubble, button shirt, and underlook expression. I find physical compliments come when a girl is in an aroused state, feeling you are attainable, and signalling an escalation window]
Me: You had me turned on looking at your legs when you were first up at the counter in front of me.
[LR note: rewarding forwardness, screening for solid sexual frame]
Her: Oh yeah?
Her: I'm going to bed now, but I look forward to seeing you again soon
Me: You like that mental image? Sweet dreams
Her: Here's an actual image for you. Good night
[She sends a photo with lips and cleavage]
Me: Very nice [her name]. It's going to be hard to control myself next to you on the piano bench
Me (next day): It is literally called the knuckle song
Her: Haha no way! Would never have guessed it was that simple, thanks for solving the mystery
Me: Is heart and soul simple to play? The knuckle song gets complicated
Her: Oh don't back down now! I believe in you. But yeah, heart and soul is fairly simple.
Me: When are you free to show me how it goes?
Her: I could do a weeknight towards the end of this week, or anytime this coming weekend. What's your schedule like?
Me: Ok cool, how about let's do Wednesday if that works
Her: Sounds great
Her: How's your Sunday been?
Me: Morning. Been writing a paper. Looking forward to a break. Yourself?
Her: Ah, I certainly don't miss paper writing. Hope it's going well.
Me: Yeah it's good but definitely looking forward to being done. Almost there
Her: Awesome
Me (next day): Finally finished. Will be good to relax tomorrow. What time are you free for piano recital?
Her: Nice! For the record, it's a piano lesson and/or duet, no recital happening
Is 7:00 ok? I work till 5 and quite frankly just got home/need to do a bit of cleanup before you get here.Me: Sure, 7 sounds great. No worries, I won't put you on the spot for a performance. It's ok if the playing gets a little messy.
Her: Great. My address is [address]. I'm off to bed now, but looking forward to seeing you tomorrow
Me: Morning! Perfect. I'll give you a heads up on the way. Talk soon
Her: Sounds good!
Me: Hi [her name], I'll be heading soon. See you about 7
Her: Sounds good! [Parking logistics].
I knocked and went in. After some brief how was you day stuff, we sat on the couch and I let silent tension build.
She said "you're going to have to say or do something". I said "you want to break the tension? Come here" and kissed her.
She said "I wasn't planning on doing anything" and "I don't know how far we're going to go tonight". I said "we don't have to" and kept kissing her. She was very into the making out so I suggested we go to her room to have more space.
She said it was too messy in her room, let's lay on the carpet.
Two minutes later, she asked if I had a condom, and I fucked her on the floor.
