LR Fate Intervenes

[Kvothe]

So I was walking to meet a more experienced guy, and I saw this girl walking. I just told her I thought she was cute. We walked a couple of blocks, and she had four visible tattoos. One was of a cupcake (this is relevant for later), and I asked her the story, and she said it was too hard to tell in english (she was from Spain). I try to get her logistics, and I find out she's in this city for shopping, and her flight leaves tomorrow. She's leaving to go to the suburbs later at night to meet some friends, so I assume nothing might happen.

But I want to try leading and using yes ladders. So I ask her if she'd rather stay out in the city-she says yes. I ask her the same question again, phrased differently-same answer. I ask her if she'd like to grab a coffee with me, and stay in the city-she hesitantly says yes, so I grab her number. While we're walking, she tells me how this place's culture is so different than Spain, apparently 3 guys had tried to talk to her before me to get her to come out and grab a coffee or see their place. I ask her whether I'm cooler than them, and she says yes

So we part ways, and I meet the experienced guy, and I learn a lot from our conversation. I had texted Spaniard letting her know that I'd text her around 8 and we'd see if we were both free.

I text her, and she essentially says that she needs to go to leave, so she can't meet, so I'm reply "For sure-have a safe journey back home" (don't get bitter, it won't end well).

This is where fate intervenes in the most amazing way.

I'm walking home around 8:30, and I'm nearby my apartment. It starts raining, and I open my umbrella, and lo and behold, guess who's walking in front of me, on whose arm I can see a cupcake tattoo. I'm just say "Hey, Spaniard", and reopen her. I make a deal out of how big a coincidence it is that in a city of millions of people, we can run into each other. I ask her if she's free to grab a coffee, and she says she needs to meet a friend. I say okay sure, but she's still walking and talking with me, so I just lead her, and tell her that her friends won't go anywhere, and that we need to keep hanging out, since it was basically destiny.

I ask her if she's more of a wine or coffee girl, and she says wine. I suggest we grab some wine. She seems very alarmed, because I'm leading her towards my apartment, and it becomes very clear to me that if I try to take her to my place without building comfort, she's going to bounce. She's worried that since she doesn't know me, she doesn't know whether I'm dangerous. When she pulls out her phone in a way that tells me that she's about to pretend to "have to leave", I suggest we go into the first bar I see. It's a Japanese bar. I ask her if she feels more comfortable now that we're getting drinks in a public setting, and she is I order us two lychee soju's (like wine, but tastier). I sit next to her, and she's super comfortable with me at this point, so I'm basically having my hands all over her legs and touching her. I'm deep diving pretty well.

An interesting bit of conversation happens here: she tells me that she had a rough adolescence for some mysterious reason. I ask her, in a very kind voice, what happened, and if she wasn't okay with telling me, then that's okay too. She told me that it was in the past, and that she didn't want to talk about it. But it got very deep, and I did a good job about bringing us back up for air.

I've been working on being more sexual, and I think I did fairly well at innuendo tonight. I ask Spaniard if she really thinks I would attack her, and she says yes. I tell her that if no one were here, I would attack her completely, and be all over her. I say this with some sexy eye contact (my attempt at it anyway), and a slight smirk. She keeps commenting on how my lips seem very pursed all the time, so I know she's paying a lot of attention to my lips. I set a bunch of chase frames that I don't remember.

She asked me how old I was, and I gave some standard replies: "I'm young enough to make you a cougar", and "Being young means I have more stamina". She can't believe my age. She thought I might be 30 She's apparently 28, which is the oldest girl I've gone after, but she looks 25-26. I tell her I'm still in college, and she just says a bunch of stuff in spanish. A little later, I make a joke about my age-and she says, "don't mention your age again" with some sexy eye contact-I think she says it so that she can pretend that I'm older than I am.

I'm playful, and she thinks I'm funny, I get her to call me cute, and she starts saying it on her own. I play with her hair, and get her to play with mine. I notice that our drinks are basically done (at this point her suburb friends are basically forgotten ). I tell her, "let's get out of here", and she says okay.

I lead her back to my place, and she asks me where we're going, and I tell her. She keeps saying this never happens, but this time I just stay silent, and mainly ignore her protests, because I don't feel that she's being as serious this time around. So we go upstairs, and I ask her to take her shoes off. I take her to my window, and put my hands around her waist. She's not putting her hands on my shoulders, so I put them there myself (there's a way to do it that's very smooth, which I figured out today-put your hands on her waist, and just slide them up, and eventually move them to her wrists and bring them to your neck). I go for a kiss-she kind of leans back, but I pull her forward and just give her a light peck. I just want to break the lip barrier. I walk a little away, and she comes to me, and we make out a little bit, but I always pull away first. We chill in my hammock for a little bit, and I suggest we get out some wine, to which she agrees. I bring her to my bedroom to drink, and we talk for a few minutes while sipping wine (I barely poured an eighth of a glass). I start making out hard, and take off her clothes-there's no resistance at this point, and the rest of her clothes come off easy.

She says I'm the first Indian guy she's been with, and that she's mostly been with black guys before, so I joke that she must like big dicks.

She's wet as fuck. I ask her, "do you want me to fuck you?" She nods and says, "with a condom". So of course I oblige. I'm not able to finish, but that's okay, because I've had some to drink. I ask if she came, but she said no-but she also said that she can't come unless she makes herself come, so I tell her that it would be sexy to watch. So she starts masturbating in my bed, and I'm making out. She cums, and we cuddle a bit before she leaves for the suburb. There's still a stain on my blanket XD.

Overall, I think I played this really well. I think I could have been better in the bedroom, but that's just going to take practice.

She had a nipple piercing and a belly button piercing-which was super hot. Amazing body too, with nice boobs

So first same day lay, and second time having sex overall. I'm excited for this school year, but also sad to leave this place. Glad to have ended it on a high note.

 

[Grand Pooba]

Nice going, Kvothe! Sounds like a great time

Overall you accomplished this by leading her properly every step of the way and following your intuition at the tricky moments to make decisive decisions on her behalf. Excellent stuff - this is how it's done!

But I want to try leading and using yes ladders. So I ask her if she'd rather stay out in the city-she says yes. I ask her the same question again, phrased differently-same answer. I ask her if she'd like to grab a coffee with me, and stay in the city-she hesitantly says yes, so I grab her number. While we're walking, she tells me how NYC culture is so different than Spain, apparently 3 guys had tried to talk to her before me to get her to come out and grab a coffee or see their place. I ask her whether I'm cooler than them, and she says yes

Good use of the Yes ladder here - particularly in the end, where you basically raised your value relative to the other guys.

I'm walking home around 8:30, and I hit times square. It starts raining, and I open my umbrella, and lo and behold, guess who's walking in front of me, on whose arm I can see a cupcake tattoo. I'm just say "Hey, Spaniard", and reopen her. I make a deal out of how big a coincidence it is that in a city of millions of people, we can run into each other. I ask her if she's free to grab a coffee, and she says she needs to meet a friend. I say okay sure, but she's still walking and talking with me, so I just lead her, and tell her that her friends won't go anywhere, and that we need to keep hanging out, since it was basically destiny.

Awesome instinct here. The "fate" card tends to be rare but when it happens can be very, very powerful when handled in the right way - which you actually did here simply by taking charge and making her aware of it. Women want to be led by a strong man (even when they say they don't, lol) so the way you did this was actually perfect - acknowledge her resistance but lead her anyway just to see if she follows you. If she follows - like she did here - then she's acknowledging your leadership despite her verbal commitments. In the event that you turned out to be a loser, or didn't lead her well, she can also default to "hanging out with her friend" as a way of leaving the situation in a socially acceptable way. In this case, she was intrigued enough to follow your lead.

I've been working on being more sexual, and I think I did fairly well at innuendo tonight. I ask Spaniard if she really thinks I would attack her, and she says yes. I tell her that if no one were here, I would attack her completely, and be all over her. I say this with some sexy eye contact (my attempt at it anyway), and a slight smirk. She keeps commenting on how my lips seem very pursed all the time, so I know she's paying a lot of attention to my lips. I set a bunch of chase frames that I don't remember.

This was good - sexualizing the interaction. Looks like you did JUST enough to get her really curious about you, and didn't go overboard where it could be creepy or needy.

ask her if she's more of a wine or coffee girl, and she says wine. I suggest we grab some wine. She seems very alarmed, because I'm leading her towards my apartment, and it becomes very clear to me that if I try to take her to my place without building comfort, she's going to bounce. She's worried that since she doesn't know me, she doesn't know whether I'm dangerous. When she pulls out her phone in a way that tells me that she's about to pretend to "have to leave", I suggest we go into the first bar I see. It's a Japanese bar.

Excellent instinct here. You could have lost her and it seemed like she was also getting slightly impatient. So again, you led well and listened to your intuition!

She asked me how old I was, and I gave some standard replies: "I'm young enough to make you a cougar", and "Being young means I have more stamina". She can't believe I'm 21. She thought I might be 30 She's apparently 28, which is the oldest girl I've gone after, but she looks 25-26. I tell her I'm still in college, and she just says a bunch of stuff in spanish. A little later, I make a joke about my age-and she says, "don't mention your age again" with some sexy eye contact-I think she says it so that she can pretend that I'm older than I am.

Good framing on your age. You didn't have to make the last joke about your age, however she also helped you along here by telling you not to mention it again. Basically she's saying it's not something she wants to think about, nor does she care about it for what's about to happen - so she's telling you not to mention things that could make her reconsider her attraction to you.

I ask if she came, but she said no-but she also said that she can't come unless she makes herself come, so I tell her that it would be sexy to watch. So she starts masturbating in my bed, and I'm making out. She cums, and we cuddle a bit before she leaves for New Jersey.

Sounds hot! Definitely a very experienced and sexual girl.