Metomeya,
I understand your kind intentions here, but I really think you're missing the point.
The video is all well and good, I watched it. The fellow makes his point persuasively and with an assertive tone. It's a fair point, as well.
Where I think you're off-base is the pairing of this video with the subject-line of this thread. It seems as if you're not really giving us credit for our intelligence.
Believe it or not, the core market segment of this site is not represented by some self-proclaimed loser who sucks with women and dreams only of finding the "love of his life", but has been brainwashed into thinking that the best way to do that is to find the key to sleeping with 100 other women first, so as to have a repertory to choose among.
That would be a ludicrously high-effort approach to an issue that most people seem to find the solution to sooner or later, in a much more straightforward manner.
I know why I'm here and I know very well indeed from their contributions on this site that many, many others are here for the same reason. Let me tell it to you straight:
We're here because we've already worked out what our life's passion is. Namely, women.
Not one specific woman. Not even one "hypothetical" woman who's "out there somewhere". No, we have a love for the female sex in aggregate, as represented by its most beautiful and classy members.
I don't need the goldmine that is Girls Chase to find the "love of my life". Social dating conventions will do that adequately, in most cases. People seem to manage it every day. In fact, I've already done that, years ago. So have countless others.
I've done it
and I know it's not for me.
Why not? Because it fades. Poetry turns to Prose. What was Romance becomes instead Routine.
If we want Romance to last, we must continually strive to find it. And by internalizing and continually sharpening the priceless methodology that the Girls Chase site is a window to, we can repeat this process
ad infinitum. It is proven. It has been done.
Just read this.
I and thousands of other men have made an intelligent choice, not under duress, nor as a result of a misapprehension, but rather by coolly weighing the facts and learning from experience. We are not laboring under some delusion; we are rational actors and
we know the alternative. The alternative may seem seductive at first, but after 10 years plus, we can say without a trace of bitterness that it becomes mundane.
We know that girls are not there to be sorted through and ruthlessly tossed away in search of the "right one".
There is no right one. They are to be enjoyed and, more importantly, to bestow enjoyment upon, each to her full capability of giving and receiving pleasure, in series or in parallel, it matters not.
We know that the choice of this fellow in the video is not our choice, but we also agree with him on one point—that we must decide on our passion in life. And we have.
It is women.
That is why we are here.
-Marty
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