Female friends vs Sexual relationships

[leverage]

Most of Chase's advice revolves around sleeping with a girl as soon as possible. However he has an article on making and finding female friends where you aim for a non-sexual close friend or potential mate.

Since these are mutually exclusive outcomes, there would have to be a decision making process when you meet a girl whether you want to "sleep with her on the first date", or class her into female friends zone.

Any advice on the thought process for this? Are there certain personalities or characteristics that would automatically classify a girl into friendzone? Social circle perhaps? Or any other reasons you would friendzone a cute girl rather than trying to sleep with her straight away?

 

[Light]

Its all preference... Its what YOU feel comfortable with.

If you're not sexually attracted to the girl you meet, then you just stay friends.
If however you think about her in your bed, thats when you just go for it.

Only you can decide for yourself what you want.

I know many really beautiful and hot girls, but some of them are just so cool, I choose to remain as their friends, even if they are interested in me.

 

[leverage]

I know many really beautiful and hot girls, but some of them are just so cool, I choose to remain as their friends, even if they are interested in me.

Any examples of what would be classified as "so cool" would be helpful?

Are there any reasons or benefits where you would want to friend-zone a girl even if you really want to sleep with her? Perhaps she always invites you to various events, or maybe your social circles overlap such that any it could be awkward especially if things don't work out? Or any other possible reasons and scenarios?

Thanks!

 

[NarrowJ]

Yeah... I don't know about this one. If I like a girl, I'm going to do everything and anything I can to throw some dick in her. Lol.

 

[Light]

I know many really beautiful and hot girls, but some of them are just so cool, I choose to remain as their friends, even if they are interested in me.

Any examples of what would be classified as "so cool" would be helpful?

Are there any reasons or benefits where you would want to friend-zone a girl even if you really want to sleep with her? Perhaps she always invites you to various events, or maybe your social circles overlap such that any it could be awkward especially if things don't work out? Or any other possible reasons and scenarios?

Thanks!

You need to be weighing your reward vs risk.
You also need to be paying attentions to the pros and cons in making her a friend or lover.

Once you have mastered this mindset of "Abundance", you will begin to realise that not only are girls not so much of a big deal anymore.. you will also realise that HOT girls are not so much of a big deal either. They are every where.
Therefore, you become the one who has the power of "Choice". You now have options. You become the one who decides whether she becomes a lover or not, and no longer will any girls have that power over you in that sense.

An example would be:
If I meet this hot girl, but she is has a a huge network of friends, then I'm very likely to stay friends with her, as I may want access to her network.
Or if she is a potential business partner, or if I simply can see that she may be far more suitable for a close friend I may know.
You do not need to eat every apple that comes your way.. but like I said, if you just simply can't stop thinking about her being in your bed, then by all means take her.

At the end of the day, its all down to personal preference, and remember that it is YOU who has the choice.