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I dont have a lot of ways to meet girls except nightclubs, daygame and sometimes one of my friends introduces me to his female friends.
My friends, throughout my whole life, had similar results with girls, (or should I say lack of results), no relationships, 0 lays, but more importantly no female exposure ( all male schools, sports, and no female friends). I have spent my whole life around guys and men...
I never really wanted to have female friends, instead, I wanted girlfriends and lays...
Sometimes, I have no patience for the shit females do and possibly in the last few months, but maybe even from childhood, I have a slight antagonistic and intolerant attitude towards women. As I grew older, researched, studied, analyzed and experienced, I learned a lot of thing about women nature and I didnt like quite a few things about it. I noticed that my father actually have a similar feeling(of course I think that he is not fully aware of it), but he is a very nice guy and I think that we are just bitter due to negative experiences and lack of understanding/skill.
I wasnt always bitter about this, and I think that when I was at my highest spiritual level, I was completely emphatic and understanding of everything, so I let that bitterness go and it was peaceful.
Last year I stopped meditating and I think this is the biggest reason for this toxic feeling came back.
The thing that I want to ask is what do you think about having female friends, and leveraging them to meet more and more (hotter) girls.
Ive heard this in the past, but to me, it was always a little bit of slick to try to be friends with a girl just for the sake of it. It was dishonest, and one of my biggest life principles is honesty.
Now, I see how many great chances having a lot of female friends can get you, but I feel like I would have to change my personality a bit, to have them.
I feel like, if my goal is to friendzone girls, I would have to try to make them like me, which is a terrible place to be in, and Im not going to do that.
Am I overthinking?
Am I too judgemental?
Am I missing out?
Should I try to make female friends, even this month?
Again, I want to stack chips in my favor, and if making female friends is gonna do that I am going for it.
My friends, throughout my whole life, had similar results with girls, (or should I say lack of results), no relationships, 0 lays, but more importantly no female exposure ( all male schools, sports, and no female friends). I have spent my whole life around guys and men...
I never really wanted to have female friends, instead, I wanted girlfriends and lays...
Sometimes, I have no patience for the shit females do and possibly in the last few months, but maybe even from childhood, I have a slight antagonistic and intolerant attitude towards women. As I grew older, researched, studied, analyzed and experienced, I learned a lot of thing about women nature and I didnt like quite a few things about it. I noticed that my father actually have a similar feeling(of course I think that he is not fully aware of it), but he is a very nice guy and I think that we are just bitter due to negative experiences and lack of understanding/skill.
I wasnt always bitter about this, and I think that when I was at my highest spiritual level, I was completely emphatic and understanding of everything, so I let that bitterness go and it was peaceful.
Last year I stopped meditating and I think this is the biggest reason for this toxic feeling came back.
The thing that I want to ask is what do you think about having female friends, and leveraging them to meet more and more (hotter) girls.
Ive heard this in the past, but to me, it was always a little bit of slick to try to be friends with a girl just for the sake of it. It was dishonest, and one of my biggest life principles is honesty.
Now, I see how many great chances having a lot of female friends can get you, but I feel like I would have to change my personality a bit, to have them.
I feel like, if my goal is to friendzone girls, I would have to try to make them like me, which is a terrible place to be in, and Im not going to do that.
Am I overthinking?
Am I too judgemental?
Am I missing out?
Should I try to make female friends, even this month?
Again, I want to stack chips in my favor, and if making female friends is gonna do that I am going for it.
