Honestly? This should probably be moved to General. It's an interesting topic, but "requests for threeways" is hardly something most beginners have to deal with.
It was a pretty big deal when, at the end of last semester, I actually got the secret society treatment (without doing anything more than default flirting) from a skinny older girl with a boyfriend whom I thought I was just going to be activity buddies with.
I decided, based on various things, that she was bad news. But it was a very educational, even if it was uncomfortable at times.
And I may have gotten this kind of uninhibited reaction mostly from my looks, not my game.
with the seeming endless ocean of women's sexual nature.
seeming[ly]
But if it really is that way, maybe get yourself a trident (see image below)?
But I simply was not prepared for the new world I've stumbled into.
Lol, I don't think anyone is.
That's awesome!
More seriously, as an experienced guy, can you explain how this phenomenon works? I've been told all women are a little bi. I've also been told (mostly by women who haven't been sexually awakened) that straight girls are as completely straight as straight guys. I'm guessing the truth is somewhere in the middle, but can you explain what that means in the field and how women think and feel about it?
I thought all women do that. It's just that they often keep it in their head. Right?
Desire run rampant to a degree I've never anticipated.
Uninhibited female sexual desire is a fascinating topic. But if Chase isn't going to answer, (and probs some of the other top-tiers aren't old and wise enough to say more than "you just roll with it man")...
YOU should be explaining to
us.
That said, isn't it the fundamental nature of a Man to rule over his surroundings? To direct the forces around him?
(I don't mean this in a redpill way, I'm talking metaphysically and philosophically.)
Sometimes experiencing it feels like all my nightmares about women coming true.
I had a (largely unfounded and theoretical) fear of this sort of thing as a teenager.
Perhaps I'll have to revisit it when I get to your level.
But look, I don't think you're dealing with nymphomaniacal she-demons.
You're dealing with real, mortal humans here. Who happen to feel comfortable enough to truly unleash their inner selves.
(As an aside, you might want to do some deep philosophical analysis about what's
really going on with the New Age -> mainstream idea of "every woman is a sex goddess".)
What are the mindsets and perspectives?
Well, almost all men (of any age) don't allow themselves to be completely uninhibited. Have you tried giving yourself permission to be like them? Not just in terms of behavior, but psychologically.
Earlier, you compared some women's sexuality to a rather large body of water. But inside that metaphor, you're not a puny human either. Are you?
The ocean, by itself, is as calm as glass. It takes an almost unstoppable force to cause things like rogue waves, hurricanes, and tsunamis.
I really can't share the full story except in DMs (esp as it may have only just begun), but quite recently I had an illuminating experience talking to a 40+ woman whom I know, when I got a brief glimpse of the attraction she was feeling in that moment.
It was nothing like the fears my imagination had conjured as a 14-year-old. Sadly, the circumstances really weren't right to take advantage of the situation.
Very often I feel like shit about it.
Why not feel quite the opposite? If these women are willing to submit to you, then you must have something that makes them want to submit, no?
In the right situation, with the right frame, isn't a tigress just a big, strong pussycat?
If you actually can't handle these sorts of women, then maybe you've got the wrong demographic.
But I doubt that's the case.
Bottom line, it sounds like your issue is "just" cognitive dissonance. Maybe you should just keep going onward?