Observations Females and scratching

[Tkr]

I had a strange though come through my head when I woke up yesterday, and that was about why girls scratch men.

I know that girls scratch your back when you fuck them really hard, but I also realized that as a young boy girls scratched me too.
Ended up spending the next hour trying to figure this out.

I remember as a boy we would play tag, and when I was it, I went after the cutest girl and tagged her. Instead of running off she scratched me, so I pushed her away and told her now she's it.

Another incident was totally random (don't remember how it started), but the girl scratched me so deep I was in pain the rest of the day. I remember complaining about it in the car to my Dad, but he just told me that's just what girls do sometimes. I saw her later at the place we were going to by coincidence with a huge grin on her face, really happy to see me. That was the only memory I had of the place, and the only time I went.

Now, as an adult, women scratch you during sex out of pleasure - they claim

My theory is that it's a marking your territory thing. Other girls see the scratches on your person and they instinctively know there's competition, and may be more inclined to let you be (though ofc, other girls love competition and go in head-first)

 

[trashKENNUT]

Tkr,

Not really marking territory solely, but you must be careful.

Unfortunately the girls who are aggressive tend to be the ones with a red flag. This is not to say all of them. It's a semi red flag, like girls having one cat at home.

Zac

 

[Chase]

Tkr-

Some guys get off on it. There are men who LOVE being scratched on their backs during sex. Many times women will pick up sex behaviors they've learned from previous partners - e.g., if her last guy loved having his back raked with her finger razors, you're going to get that too.

I think there are also some women who just like doing it anyway, sort of like how when you're really excited on a roller coaster you want to grab onto something and hold it tightly. There aren't really any bars on your body she can grab, but she can sink her nails into you like a chunk of meat instead.

The scratching that some women do on guys' arms playfully in non-sexual situations is usually used as a sign of interest; it's a way of saying, "I like you more than just platonically."

Anyway, when they do it to you during sex, if it's not your cup of tea just stop thrusting as soon as they start doing it and tell them, "Ow! Do NOT scratch my back! Not cool," and then wait a moment before you resume. You can break them of the habit pretty quickly once they learn that scratching his back = abrupt end to the pleasure.

Chase