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- May 18, 2017
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The Goal
The goal of running a tight game is aspirational. Can we agree that the goal is to pull hot chicks? I've run across too many aspiring "players" in real life who seem to be content chatting up 5' and 6's.
That is not why I started to go out. I go out because I need the skill to independently add hot new chicks to my life as I please. Sure I've got 3 chicks in rotation but if the changed tomorrow... I might be fucked.
So I decided to go out at least once a week solo or with a wingman. Last night was one these nights.
The Night
I met up with a buddy from jiu jitsu at a bar thats got an older crowd. A dancing bachata crowd. Friendly people but not a good looking group. The few hot prospects were there with men.
I stepped out for a smoke and a thought. Chatted with some strangers about football and spotted the first decent looking gal. Light skinned black chick with a nice ass in a little evil clown halloween get up.
We chat for a few minutes. There was a base level of mutual attraction but she ran off to say hello to group of friends who were leaving. Follow like a puppy dog or bounce? I had to bounce because I wouldn't be caught lingering and waiting my turn. Tried to find her later and she was gone.
Lesson? Understand time constraints in a given interaction. If I knew she was on her way out i would've at least grabbed the number. But i entered the conversation with no real end in mind.
We stay at this venue for a while and I try to convince my friend to join me on Frenchman street. Hes reluctant so I roll solo to the next bar.
I grab my drink and strike up convo with the girl next me on my right. She's not that attractive but I want be in a more sociable mood. We talk and she starts to shit test me like I give a fuck to win her approval. Not so arrogant but I'm out of this girls league. I dismiss her and say nice meeting you and move on.
I walk outside and see some other friends and start chatting them up. It's then that I see a girl with a tremendous ass in only leggings with a fox tail wiggling about. But I'm locked in convo and her back is to me. I'll skip to the end and say that I waited too long for an oppertune moment. by the time I determined to track her down she'd left the venue.
In my course of conversation a group of tremadous young 20 something slutty nurses strut by. Perfect I thought. Finally something I actually want.
They all walk up straight to a car get in and leave. Fuck me.
Older women hit on me and I give them "yeah yeah" and I'm still just looking around for good looking gal. I spotted one with a wedding party but she was with a guy who looked like her boyfriend I couldn't tell. In hindsight shit it could've been her brother. My mistake for not finding out.
I leave and another average looking gal i had talked to is heading in the same direction. We stop and chat for while on the corner and I feel her tension like shes waiting on me to ask her something. I'm not interested so I keep it platonic. This girl had enough guts to offer her number anyway. Good for her.
It's time for me to go home it's 3 AM. I had a decent time with my friends but was consciously disappointed in my game.
My thoughts on what I could better
Go to venues that have women that are actually my type.
Fire away. Don't bother waiting for the perfect time. I've waited and won but I've also waited and lost. Why leave it to chance?
Understand her situation. Where is the night taking her and when? That's when I can set forth a realistic course of action.
Why bother talking to 5's and 6's? But will I sideline myself waiting for a neckbreaker to pass me by?
The goal of running a tight game is aspirational. Can we agree that the goal is to pull hot chicks? I've run across too many aspiring "players" in real life who seem to be content chatting up 5' and 6's.
That is not why I started to go out. I go out because I need the skill to independently add hot new chicks to my life as I please. Sure I've got 3 chicks in rotation but if the changed tomorrow... I might be fucked.
So I decided to go out at least once a week solo or with a wingman. Last night was one these nights.
The Night
I met up with a buddy from jiu jitsu at a bar thats got an older crowd. A dancing bachata crowd. Friendly people but not a good looking group. The few hot prospects were there with men.
I stepped out for a smoke and a thought. Chatted with some strangers about football and spotted the first decent looking gal. Light skinned black chick with a nice ass in a little evil clown halloween get up.
We chat for a few minutes. There was a base level of mutual attraction but she ran off to say hello to group of friends who were leaving. Follow like a puppy dog or bounce? I had to bounce because I wouldn't be caught lingering and waiting my turn. Tried to find her later and she was gone.
Lesson? Understand time constraints in a given interaction. If I knew she was on her way out i would've at least grabbed the number. But i entered the conversation with no real end in mind.
We stay at this venue for a while and I try to convince my friend to join me on Frenchman street. Hes reluctant so I roll solo to the next bar.
I grab my drink and strike up convo with the girl next me on my right. She's not that attractive but I want be in a more sociable mood. We talk and she starts to shit test me like I give a fuck to win her approval. Not so arrogant but I'm out of this girls league. I dismiss her and say nice meeting you and move on.
I walk outside and see some other friends and start chatting them up. It's then that I see a girl with a tremendous ass in only leggings with a fox tail wiggling about. But I'm locked in convo and her back is to me. I'll skip to the end and say that I waited too long for an oppertune moment. by the time I determined to track her down she'd left the venue.
In my course of conversation a group of tremadous young 20 something slutty nurses strut by. Perfect I thought. Finally something I actually want.
They all walk up straight to a car get in and leave. Fuck me.
Older women hit on me and I give them "yeah yeah" and I'm still just looking around for good looking gal. I spotted one with a wedding party but she was with a guy who looked like her boyfriend I couldn't tell. In hindsight shit it could've been her brother. My mistake for not finding out.
I leave and another average looking gal i had talked to is heading in the same direction. We stop and chat for while on the corner and I feel her tension like shes waiting on me to ask her something. I'm not interested so I keep it platonic. This girl had enough guts to offer her number anyway. Good for her.
It's time for me to go home it's 3 AM. I had a decent time with my friends but was consciously disappointed in my game.
My thoughts on what I could better
Go to venues that have women that are actually my type.
Fire away. Don't bother waiting for the perfect time. I've waited and won but I've also waited and lost. Why leave it to chance?
Understand her situation. Where is the night taking her and when? That's when I can set forth a realistic course of action.
Why bother talking to 5's and 6's? But will I sideline myself waiting for a neckbreaker to pass me by?
