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DoWhatWorks

Tribal Elder
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TLDR: I'm banning myself from this forum from 17/06/2021 until 17/06/2022 at the earliest to work on other priorities.

Background

As much as I adore game and women my gut is telling me that I've reached a new season in my life and it's time to move on.

I've been ignoring it but I'll be 25 next month and when I look back at the last year - success in life overall has brought me more happiness than new hot lays.

I googled "how to get girls" at 13 to solve a problem that 49 lays later has now been solved. I've reached a fork in the road where I can either double down on game to consistently get the caliber of woman I like or I can double down on improving my fundamentals.

I'm choosing the latter.

Where's this come from?

I've always been ridiculously ambitious. I always knew what I wanted my life to look like but I had no idea how to get there. It's only in the last few years that it has all started to click and not only do I genuinely know what needs to be done but I've got evidence that I have what it takes to achieve it.

New goals

I'm working towards earning 6 figures online by the time I'm 30 while also gaining a top 20% physique.

Those are no easy tasks by themselves let alone combined with a full time job. To achieve it I'll need laser focus. To the point that I'm going to let my rotation fade away and give 12 months of dedication to those 2 priorities and see where I end up.

Massive thank you to this forum. If I actively commented instead of being a passive browser for years I would have comfortably knocked off 6-12 months' off my learning curve.

I'll be posting for 2 more days before going on a self-imposed break. I have an addictive personality so although I killed social media addiction I think this has been a crutch which I'm going to replace with gym and business.

My inspiration(s)

Reading Chase's "end game for a playboy" and the character who stuck out for me was the guy who quit girls to work on his business then came back rusty years later to get a wife... Before enjoying being single so much and carrying on with that lifestyle.

I want to be that guy. Abnormal results require abnormal action.

This forum is about practical advice that works in the real world. If you like this type of content I would recommend you check out the following:

Bull and Bowtie > Formerly Wallstreetplayboys - great advice on navigating high end careers, investing and being set for life by around 35

Revolutionary Lifestyle Design > Great advice on maintaining a happy state while you hit lofty goals. Also very practical like girlschase that rejects MSM

1st Man > Big rising star. Talks about achieving success as a man and addresses woman/ men differences in a straight non-bitter or politically correct way.

Blackdragon 2.0 > Controversial but his material has been great for me. Especially around finance and navigating the Western world

Nomad Capitalist > Youtube channel on gaining multiple passports, lowering taxes etc. A lot more advanced level stuff but I watch it to know where my end game is.

George Gammon > Makes macro-economics not only interesting but hilarious. Helped me understand a lot of complex things.

Kevin Samuels > This is a pure entertainment bonus. Watch a guy hilariously put feminists' in line. Pretty good to observe 10/10 frame control too.


Shout outs

@topcat first guy I met off this forum with ELITE level closing skills. Appreciate those long calls we have and when you finally get your shit together and stop getting distracted by girls sucking your t... nevermind - we'll make a lot of money together ;)

@hey_lover Good genuine guy. Appreciate those voice note back and forth we have. Your last one inspired me to pull the trigger.

@Skills Your feedback is brutal and at times pure trolling lol but there's no doubt in my mind that you walk your talk. Grateful for all the advice you've given me, can tell you love this game and just trying to share the message on. Last of a dying breed for sure.

@Velasco Similar to skills you troll on feedback sometimes ahaha but can tell you mean well.

@West_Indian_Archie Not met you or spoke to you but can tell you're a fellow brother who cleans up. Appreciate all your advice

@Fluxcapacitor Thank you for all your advice man, especially that PM on teaching behaviors

@Will_V Underrated member who should be ranked a lot higher. Really like your perspective on posts man

@Lofty ABSOLUTE BEAST. Especially at your age - find your posts inspiring man

@Bacchus @Teevster - Have to pay homage to you 2. Be blasphemy not to.

I could go on and on. I'm sure there's tons of people I've missed. Thank you everyone and after 17.06.21 - see you in 1 year :)
 
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the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Lofty

Modern Human
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A very understandable hiatus, although the forum will be at a loss without you. But of course, DoWhatYouGottaDo.

Good luck!
 
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Will_V

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All the best @DoWhatWorks! Haven't been here for long, but you come across as someone with a very good mix of instinct and technique, and I'm sure I would have learned a lot from you.
 

FunkMaster69

Space Monkey
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It happens to every man sooner or later. The game is really just a game and everyone gets tired of it eventually. For some it happens at your age, and for others at a later age. No shame in it man.
 
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