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Hello everyone!
I live in India (albeit a rich and a liberal Indian city where females are freer).
I don't drink aswell due to religious reasons.
And i'm a student. I have to balance studies, working out, sleep with socializing. So I'm young.
This causes lot of problems for me. I cannot seem to find a venue to go "daygame" or do sessions. Whenever i go out i usually go out with my friends because i cannot mentally cope going alone just to approach girls. Weird internal fear but i just cannot. There are a lot of cafes, malls, bookstores etc around me. But i do not like approaching directly inside a mall as I feel like the girl might scream at me, call the cops etc and I'll get banned from a mall here. I feel kind of congested in such venues and feel like everyone's watching me. That's why i take a group of friends while going to a mall for plausible deniability. However, i have done approaches inside the mall (though with my friends watching me-mentally soothing) and they all went very well and positively
Basically the venues here are:-
a) One of the Malls- (closed off, fearing getting banned, people looking etc) [I want to be more discreet and socially smooth with these]
b) Bookstores- (Did approaches here in a mall, using indirect opener for cute romantic book recommendations. Went well. But havent come to actual bookstores as I dont really like books.)
c) Festivals-Events (Since i dont go to bars/clubs therefore ive resorted to going to events searching for good ones every weekend. And i make friends and get leads easily here. But im forced to always be on the lookout for an event happening and i have to pay every weekend but its nice)
d) Shopping streets, plaza, idk what daygamers call it smth like that- (Freer and open, has a huge crowd of young students like me especially cute girls, its not congested and no fear of getting security or smth kicking me out idk why i have it. Also there are cafes, and bookstores lined up and i want to check them out.)
I feel like i can go out with the idea of checking out bookstores or the street, then grab food at the cafe and approach women and socialize alongside as i'm not forced to go out JUST to approach which terrifies me. Also makes things more natural?? IDKK
Please give me your thoughts and advice on which venue to go for and any tips or ideas how to game effectively. Thank you! I think i feel like this is just because i havent actually tried a lot and maybe its overthinking. This has forced me to stick with my social circle made at my college. But i have made friends/connections/dates out of cold approach in the past and allowed me not to be limited to my social circle.
I live in India (albeit a rich and a liberal Indian city where females are freer).
I don't drink aswell due to religious reasons.
And i'm a student. I have to balance studies, working out, sleep with socializing. So I'm young.
This causes lot of problems for me. I cannot seem to find a venue to go "daygame" or do sessions. Whenever i go out i usually go out with my friends because i cannot mentally cope going alone just to approach girls. Weird internal fear but i just cannot. There are a lot of cafes, malls, bookstores etc around me. But i do not like approaching directly inside a mall as I feel like the girl might scream at me, call the cops etc and I'll get banned from a mall here. I feel kind of congested in such venues and feel like everyone's watching me. That's why i take a group of friends while going to a mall for plausible deniability. However, i have done approaches inside the mall (though with my friends watching me-mentally soothing) and they all went very well and positively
Basically the venues here are:-
a) One of the Malls- (closed off, fearing getting banned, people looking etc) [I want to be more discreet and socially smooth with these]
b) Bookstores- (Did approaches here in a mall, using indirect opener for cute romantic book recommendations
. Went well. But havent come to actual bookstores as I dont really like books.)c) Festivals-Events (Since i dont go to bars/clubs therefore ive resorted to going to events searching for good ones every weekend. And i make friends and get leads easily here. But im forced to always be on the lookout for an event happening and i have to pay every weekend
but its nice)d) Shopping streets, plaza, idk what daygamers call it smth like that- (Freer and open, has a huge crowd of young students like me especially cute girls
, its not congested and no fear of getting security or smth kicking me out idk why i have it. Also there are cafes, and bookstores lined up and i want to check them out.)I feel like i can go out with the idea of checking out bookstores or the street, then grab food at the cafe and approach women and socialize alongside as i'm not forced to go out JUST to approach which terrifies me. Also makes things more natural?? IDKK
Please give me your thoughts and advice on which venue to go for and any tips or ideas how to game effectively. Thank you! I think i feel like this is just because i havent actually tried a lot and maybe its overthinking. This has forced me to stick with my social circle made at my college. But i have made friends/connections/dates out of cold approach in the past and allowed me not to be limited to my social circle.
