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cruiser

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Hey guys!

so I’ve been hooking up with this one girl regularly and she wants me to bring in another girl sometime.

so the Question here is: how do I find another girl to join.

1) so I read the articles on the site here and deff agree that getting another casual girl and then asking her if she wants to smash with me and the girl is the easiest option.

so I am working on getting another girl through tinder and cold approaching. It’s in the process.

BUT is there another way maybe an online way? I’ve tried Reddit but the girls there are honestly okay....is there an app/website that you guys recommend where you could get an attractive girl, or like maybe a couples tinder, bumble account? I honestly don’t know.

or tell me how you scored your threesome during covid times

it’s on my bucket list so I really wanna knock it out!

the girl just moved here so she doesn’t have many/ at all friends in the area just yet.

anything from y’all to get in the right direction would be amazing! Thanks guys :)
 

Chase

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@cruiser,

OkCupid is generally a popular site for this. There are a lot of lesbians and bisexual chicks on there (often the same thing, for all intents and purposes).

Another angle might be to update your Tinder pictures + profile to be of you and the girl, and simply put on there that you're a couple looking for another girl for some fun. Will take care of a lot of the screening for you right off the bat.

Good luck ;)

Chase
 

cruiser

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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@cruiser,

OkCupid is generally a popular site for this. There are a lot of lesbians and bisexual chicks on there (often the same thing, for all intents and purposes).

Another angle might be to update your Tinder pictures + profile to be of you and the girl, and simply put on there that you're a couple looking for another girl for some fun. Will take care of a lot of the screening for you right off the bat.

Good luck ;)

Chase
Thank you chase I appreciate this advice. Will update when I find another girl!

Also do you just straight up ask them if they want a threesome or more along the lines of

hey you seem pretty interesting let’s all grab drinks and see where it goes type of ordeal

thanks boss!
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Chase

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Don't tell her "let's have a threesome" or even "let's see where it goes", no. She knows from the pictures/bio that's what you're looking for. If she wants to talk about it directly you can let her bring it up.

Just tell her "We should get wine the three of us so we can all meet and get to know one another." She knows where it goes from there.

You basically want to avoid trying to nail down anything specific with women before you meet them, as most women are not going to agree to anything specific (they want to preserve their outs)... and even if they do it's still not guaranteed.

Just screen her with pics/bios/allusions to you and your girl in your messages, and get her out for a meet-n-greet.

Chase
 

cruiser

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Don't tell her "let's have a threesome" or even "let's see where it goes", no. She knows from the pictures/bio that's what you're looking for. If she wants to talk about it directly you can let her bring it up.

Just tell her "We should get wine the three of us so we can all meet and get to know one another." She knows where it goes from there.

You basically want to avoid trying to nail down anything specific with women before you meet them, as most women are not going to agree to anything specific (they want to preserve their outs)... and even if they do it's still not guaranteed.

Just screen her with pics/bios/allusions to you and your girl in your messages, and get her out for a meet-n-greet.

Chase
Perfect, thanks. I think I got it from here will post with updates! :)
 
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