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First Cold Approach

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Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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16.12.2017

So, this is the dayy courage won over my inhibitions against cold approaching. I was parked with a friend when we saw two young girls walking across the street. He looked at me for guidance, and I just told him: fuck it!

A well of courage sprung up inside of me and I jumped out of the car, ran across the street, and stopped in front of the girls.

"Hey, I was waiting over there, and I had to say you have the most beautiful legs I've seen all day," I say. It was night and slightly snowing, so I hadn't seen anything else of her really, so I went on a compliment on that.

I then introduced myself, and we held hands. While my friend arrived, I kept holding her hand, and she made no move to remove it. I finally let go of her hand to introduce myself to her friend.

After that, I tried to banter a little, and escalated physically on my girl, who was very compliant. I then told her we should do something together, and she asked how old I thought she was - she was rather young. I deliberately guessed a bit older, and then she revealed her age.

All while I kept spinning her around, holding her close to me, etc.

When I asked for her phone number, she said she barely knew me. After that, I permaturely decided to bail.


LESSONS LEARNED:

1) She said she didn't know me, and so at first thought I should have deep dived more.

On second thoughts, I could have most likely made out with her then and there, with her following my lead and touch and even putting her head on my shoulder at one point.

--> LOOK AT WHAT GIRLS DO, NOT WHAT THEY SAY!!!
-->For less compliant girls, banter and then DEEP DIVE.

All in all, I'm very proud of myself for having done it, and I firmly believe it will be the start of an amazing and fulfilling journy on the way to Mastery.
 

Mike&Ikes

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Nice job! I’d say that’s a very successful first cold approach. That’s what’s nice about hitting the books then practicing, you start off way ahead of the game, and you have less frustration.
Congrats
-Micah
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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