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So I met this 18yo virgin through daygame. She seems to be shy because during the set she was not talking much, but when I texted her she was very receptive, asked me a lot of questions and even texted me first after a couple of days. She's also not very confident about her looks because she was surprised I even opened her and it has nevere happened to her.
I'm thinking about setting up date with her, but the problem is she's form another city. Due to my situation I can only take girls back to their place or a hotel, or rented apartment. Because of that I will have to go to her city to meet her again. My options are to ask her out on a walk and drink some coffee, or offer to meet in a rented room (not in a hotel, but an apartment rented out by a private host) and drink some wine, watch a movie. Now the second option is ballsy and the last time I tried to invite a girl I met on a dating app to my place on a first date didn't go well (she basically said good luck and goodbye
). But in this case I have a feeling this is not a bad move becasue she seems into me and she would probably still go out with me on a "safer date".
My question is: should I risk and offer her the second date option?
And generally do you guys recommed sometimes inviting girls straight to your place on a first date?
Keep in mind I'm from Eastern Europe and girls are more conversvatime in my opinion here. So meeting at the guy's place on a first date might send the wrong signal. But I don't know how it is in other parts of Europe, and like I said, I've only tried that once and immediatlely got rejected hard.
I'm thinking about setting up date with her, but the problem is she's form another city. Due to my situation I can only take girls back to their place or a hotel, or rented apartment. Because of that I will have to go to her city to meet her again. My options are to ask her out on a walk and drink some coffee, or offer to meet in a rented room (not in a hotel, but an apartment rented out by a private host) and drink some wine, watch a movie. Now the second option is ballsy and the last time I tried to invite a girl I met on a dating app to my place on a first date didn't go well (she basically said good luck and goodbye
). But in this case I have a feeling this is not a bad move becasue she seems into me and she would probably still go out with me on a "safer date".My question is: should I risk and offer her the second date option?
And generally do you guys recommed sometimes inviting girls straight to your place on a first date?
Keep in mind I'm from Eastern Europe and girls are more conversvatime in my opinion here. So meeting at the guy's place on a first date might send the wrong signal. But I don't know how it is in other parts of Europe, and like I said, I've only tried that once and immediatlely got rejected hard.
