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Sup guys,
I'm a tall russian guy to be blunt , 21 in five months, have been working out at home, push-ups, situps, dumbells, it's not a lot but the results are really noticeable, mostly due to my ridiculous metabolism which leaves me with barely any fat on my body, lucky me. Been in living on Ontario, Richmond Hill since I was 7 so I have no problem's with English, and still speak Russian. I've had some girls attracted to me, could've taken it far with one of them but didn't.
I'm about to finish my 2nd year of University, Guelph-Humber, exams next week. Living with my parents and getting a job this summer to start paying off my student loans, so either going to the girls place or doing it somewhere unconventional will be my main goal, they'll be leaving for about a weeks vacation by which time I hope to be experienced.
Any-ways I went ahead, maybe overloaded my brain but have started to view meeting girls as a new hobby until it becomes natural with my goal being to come back a different person for my 3rd year.
I've pretty much adopted the sexy walk as normal now, still not 100% sure how wide my feet should, at the moment it's 30cm between both feet not sure if it's correct but everything else is good.
Today I was going to visit my Uni and try talking to any girls I found attractive, I prefer asian girls Korean, Chinese, Japanese, I have no idea which one exactly but I wouldn't be surprised if it's all of them, I don't cross out girls with other backgrounds but they don't attract my attention as much. Turns out I had to come tomorrow to the Uni, I was already dressed so after reading some more stuff about guys first time out alone I went ahead and did the same.
First girl I saw was cute, but she had a backpack with some pink outlines, I couldn't really tell her age I thought she might be too young, she was almost a head shorter than me so didn't say anything. I headed towards the mall, walked around some stores mostly, I'm sure I should've just checked out all of them, sigh, other than the ones with only women's clothing/lingerie lol. I went exploring at about 1am, so I think I may have picked a bad time as there weren't a lot of people at all around. I didn't really find any ideal locations, or didn't go inside to make sure, or was just a bad time of the day. I saw some cute girls, but they were employs. I went to another couple of stores, I thought that T&T may be the best place, it's a medium sized grocery store and whatnot more focused on Asian foods but the traffic didn't seem very fast. I also wanted to check out the library but I'd been walking around for almost 2 hours so called it a day, will do that tomorrow.
I was wondering if anyone been in a situation with the girl who seems too young or hard to gauge her age lol. Best course of action for me would've been to simply say something rather than nothing. I can't really understand why, I didn't feel anxious or anything such as my heart beating because I need to make a decision fast, I doubt it was approach anxiety. I dunno, I felt kind of...empty/empty? Tongue tied is another description I suppose, nothing just sprung to mind about what to say so I didn't is how I feel.
This here is just how I stumbled on to Chase's articles about 5 days ago, you may find it funny so read on. "tell girl she's beautiful bus" I literally googled that, I obviously knew it was bad grammar, just didn't know how to phrase it for the best results. I had been on the bus to Uni in the morning, stumbled upon an old friend by chance so we talked before he had to get off, which is when I noticed this beautiful girl sitting, taking nap. One of the best looking girls I've seen in a while, I didn't say anything after getting off. The day went on normally, it was when I had to do my 3 presentations. On the way home, like what the hell are the chances, the same girl gets on the bus I'm on, across and a seat to the left of me. Most of the time I spent glancing at her, which I now know is not the correct way to look lol. She was getting off at her stop 1, before mine and I... didn't do anything. I could feel my heart beating , and wished I would've just gotten off 1 stop early to compliment her and see where it would've went rather than having to regret not doing anything. So not worth it, sigh. I live more so by setting objectives for myself, added "complimenting her" to a secondary one so If I ever see her again, I'll get it off my chest lol, if not then no big deal.
So like I said "tell girl she's beautiful bus" I literally googled that and scrolled down to read one of the results, https://www.girlschase.com/content/meeti ... -airplanes and read about , I don't know enough articles and information to write a full book, if not more. And now I'm here.
Last reason being that I was pretty reserved and chill about a week ago until I had 3 presentations in in the same day, classes about 3 hours each, literally over 12 hours every week on Wednesday with going there and back. I woke up that day and found myself feeling positively energetic? It was weird since I wake up everyday pretty much always tired, but in the past week it's like a switch was put in the ON position. I used to be more outgoing when I was younger, kind of a Jester/Clown back then, not a King yet ,but not a Jester either. Probably neutral seeing as I haven't started much yet. Coupled with some thinking that I'm going to die eventually anyway, I'd rather not spend as much time gaming as I have been nowadays and tell beautiful girls on the bus that they are indeed beautiful haha.
I had read what beginners should do in one of the threads, 14 days If i recall or 15 doing different things each day, I have the sexy walk down so that's 1 less day, I thought that trying out deep diving and making some compliments and just asking women if they're "single" would be so easy but wow, still if I get can just start talking I wouldn't be surprised if everything went smoothly onwards. On the bright-side I at least went out to breath some fresh air, checked out the area some more, I know most of it like the back of my hand, but I'm not too intune with what are the best places to ask girls on a date, something I haven't even gotten to doing yet lol. I know a coffee shop near the T&T though so that is highly ideal for me if I meet a girl around that area.
Essentially cleared day 1 of the beginners guide, I thought I could do like 3 or 5 in the same day. I realize now that this really is more like working out essentially, the more you do it the more results you get. Overall it was better than sitting at home so I'll definitely be doing this more now.
Tomorrow I'll be going to my Uni, I will go to the mall once again and also check out the library, it will be at about 5pm which I hope is a better time. I'm probably going to tell myself to accomplish more then one goal in a single day lol, I'll hopefully manage it.
Some questions,
1. Anyone live in Richmond Hill? It'd be more reassuring I imagine with someone more experienced than me lol, but I'll manage myself either way.
2. What's a good time to practice my day game? I found 1pm - 2pm being in effective.
3. For eye contact, should I just look at everyone and anyone to get better used to it?
4. Lastly, has anyone ever been to Indigo , book store? It's about a 10 min bus ride away, I'll probably end up checking it out tomorrow. Is it a good place to meet girls?
I'm up for any tips or feedback, thanks for reading some if not all of this. I should really be exhausting my brain reading up on my upcoming exams instead of all this lol.
I'm a tall russian guy to be blunt , 21 in five months, have been working out at home, push-ups, situps, dumbells, it's not a lot but the results are really noticeable, mostly due to my ridiculous metabolism which leaves me with barely any fat on my body, lucky me. Been in living on Ontario, Richmond Hill since I was 7 so I have no problem's with English, and still speak Russian. I've had some girls attracted to me, could've taken it far with one of them but didn't.
I'm about to finish my 2nd year of University, Guelph-Humber, exams next week. Living with my parents and getting a job this summer to start paying off my student loans, so either going to the girls place or doing it somewhere unconventional will be my main goal, they'll be leaving for about a weeks vacation by which time I hope to be experienced.
Any-ways I went ahead, maybe overloaded my brain but have started to view meeting girls as a new hobby until it becomes natural with my goal being to come back a different person for my 3rd year.
I've pretty much adopted the sexy walk as normal now, still not 100% sure how wide my feet should, at the moment it's 30cm between both feet not sure if it's correct but everything else is good.
Today I was going to visit my Uni and try talking to any girls I found attractive, I prefer asian girls Korean, Chinese, Japanese, I have no idea which one exactly but I wouldn't be surprised if it's all of them, I don't cross out girls with other backgrounds but they don't attract my attention as much. Turns out I had to come tomorrow to the Uni, I was already dressed so after reading some more stuff about guys first time out alone I went ahead and did the same.
First girl I saw was cute, but she had a backpack with some pink outlines, I couldn't really tell her age I thought she might be too young, she was almost a head shorter than me so didn't say anything. I headed towards the mall, walked around some stores mostly, I'm sure I should've just checked out all of them, sigh, other than the ones with only women's clothing/lingerie lol. I went exploring at about 1am, so I think I may have picked a bad time as there weren't a lot of people at all around. I didn't really find any ideal locations, or didn't go inside to make sure, or was just a bad time of the day. I saw some cute girls, but they were employs. I went to another couple of stores, I thought that T&T may be the best place, it's a medium sized grocery store and whatnot more focused on Asian foods but the traffic didn't seem very fast. I also wanted to check out the library but I'd been walking around for almost 2 hours so called it a day, will do that tomorrow.
I was wondering if anyone been in a situation with the girl who seems too young or hard to gauge her age lol. Best course of action for me would've been to simply say something rather than nothing. I can't really understand why, I didn't feel anxious or anything such as my heart beating because I need to make a decision fast, I doubt it was approach anxiety. I dunno, I felt kind of...empty/empty? Tongue tied is another description I suppose, nothing just sprung to mind about what to say so I didn't is how I feel.
This here is just how I stumbled on to Chase's articles about 5 days ago, you may find it funny so read on. "tell girl she's beautiful bus" I literally googled that, I obviously knew it was bad grammar, just didn't know how to phrase it for the best results. I had been on the bus to Uni in the morning, stumbled upon an old friend by chance so we talked before he had to get off, which is when I noticed this beautiful girl sitting, taking nap. One of the best looking girls I've seen in a while, I didn't say anything after getting off. The day went on normally, it was when I had to do my 3 presentations. On the way home, like what the hell are the chances, the same girl gets on the bus I'm on, across and a seat to the left of me. Most of the time I spent glancing at her, which I now know is not the correct way to look lol. She was getting off at her stop 1, before mine and I... didn't do anything. I could feel my heart beating , and wished I would've just gotten off 1 stop early to compliment her and see where it would've went rather than having to regret not doing anything. So not worth it, sigh. I live more so by setting objectives for myself, added "complimenting her" to a secondary one so If I ever see her again, I'll get it off my chest lol, if not then no big deal.
So like I said "tell girl she's beautiful bus" I literally googled that and scrolled down to read one of the results, https://www.girlschase.com/content/meeti ... -airplanes and read about , I don't know enough articles and information to write a full book, if not more. And now I'm here.
Last reason being that I was pretty reserved and chill about a week ago until I had 3 presentations in in the same day, classes about 3 hours each, literally over 12 hours every week on Wednesday with going there and back. I woke up that day and found myself feeling positively energetic? It was weird since I wake up everyday pretty much always tired, but in the past week it's like a switch was put in the ON position. I used to be more outgoing when I was younger, kind of a Jester/Clown back then, not a King yet ,but not a Jester either. Probably neutral seeing as I haven't started much yet. Coupled with some thinking that I'm going to die eventually anyway, I'd rather not spend as much time gaming as I have been nowadays and tell beautiful girls on the bus that they are indeed beautiful haha.
I had read what beginners should do in one of the threads, 14 days If i recall or 15 doing different things each day, I have the sexy walk down so that's 1 less day, I thought that trying out deep diving and making some compliments and just asking women if they're "single" would be so easy but wow, still if I get can just start talking I wouldn't be surprised if everything went smoothly onwards. On the bright-side I at least went out to breath some fresh air, checked out the area some more, I know most of it like the back of my hand, but I'm not too intune with what are the best places to ask girls on a date, something I haven't even gotten to doing yet lol. I know a coffee shop near the T&T though so that is highly ideal for me if I meet a girl around that area.
Essentially cleared day 1 of the beginners guide, I thought I could do like 3 or 5 in the same day. I realize now that this really is more like working out essentially, the more you do it the more results you get. Overall it was better than sitting at home so I'll definitely be doing this more now.
Tomorrow I'll be going to my Uni, I will go to the mall once again and also check out the library, it will be at about 5pm which I hope is a better time. I'm probably going to tell myself to accomplish more then one goal in a single day lol, I'll hopefully manage it.
Some questions,
1. Anyone live in Richmond Hill? It'd be more reassuring I imagine with someone more experienced than me lol, but I'll manage myself either way.
2. What's a good time to practice my day game? I found 1pm - 2pm being in effective.
3. For eye contact, should I just look at everyone and anyone to get better used to it?
4. Lastly, has anyone ever been to Indigo , book store? It's about a 10 min bus ride away, I'll probably end up checking it out tomorrow. Is it a good place to meet girls?
I'm up for any tips or feedback, thanks for reading some if not all of this. I should really be exhausting my brain reading up on my upcoming exams instead of all this lol.
