People
Me: 30 y/o Asian Male in Finance, wearing a light grey blazer, button down shirt with top few buttons unbuttoned, and black jeans. It was 96 degrees today, and I was kind of warm in this outfit, but I was also the best dressed guy in the whole venue, and got several compliments from both men and women, so it was probably worth it.
Her: 26 y/o Black Female, visiting USA for a week from London, rail-thin, wearing a bright white very short dress, very pretty. British accent, but Nigerian origin, virgin muslim, getting a phd
Venue
A loud music rooftop bar that charged cover. It was sort of half-way between a bar and a club. Fairly loud music, crowded, but not super crowded. There were places to go to talk a bit more, places to sit, places to get a bit of quiet time
Background
I don't do night game. I'm an introvert, so crowds and loud music really sap my energy away. I went to this event because it was my female friend's birthday party, and I usually only go to 1 or 2 of these per year. I've never successfully pulled a girl from night game, and definitely consider this a weakness of mine that I actively avoid.
Anyway, this was the first time I went to a busy bar/club since taking on Cold Approach seriously. The first thing I noticed was that most of the girls there were honestly not that pretty. Lots of makeup to hide ugly faces, and skimpy dresses to hopefully distract from their not amazing figures.
The Meet
While sitting down, chatting with some friends, I see a pretty black girl hovering around, who is definitely a cut above in appearance from every other girl in the bar. She's also clearly alone, which is sort of rare. I think of some way to approach her, but can't really do it smoothly.
I see her walk to another quieter section of the rooftop, and I follow her there. I sidle next to her, and compliment her on her outfit, but she has airpods on, and literally cannot hear me and doesn't notice me. So I walk away.
5 minutes later, I'm still hanging out in the same area. The black girl randomly gets into conversation with a group of a few Korean guys and a cute asian girl. I'm kind of just standing around, and the alpha Korean guy of the group comes up to me and says "You look straight out of a GQ magazine". We talk a bit, and he straight up introduces me to the black girl, whom he also just met. I turn my attention 100% over to the black girl and start chatting/flirting with her. The Korean guy.... just leaves us alone completely.
Not being familiar with night game, this was new to me. But I wasn't going to let this gift go to waste. My suspicion is that this Korean guy is in a relationship, or doesn't like black girls, or something, and he just felt generous, and straight up cock-enabled a stranger (me).
Bounce
We chatted a bit, conversation was honestly just okay. It was also hard to hear each other. I figured what the hell, and asked her "hey you want to go downstairs and grab a pizza?" (she had mentioned she was planning to get a New York pizza tonight). She agreed, we went down the elevator, and waited for pizza downstairs.
Pull
After pizza, I suggested we take a walk along the river. While sitting on the river bench, I kissed her. I understand that kissing before we're alone at my place can be a release of sexual tension, and therefore bad, but in this case it felt necessary. We were chatting and vibing, but not vibing enough that she was anywhere near ready to go back to my place. So I needed to up the sexual vibe.
Anyway, after kissing and chatting more, I suggested we head to a new building plaza area (near my apartment). She agreed, we walked there, sat down, kissed more.
I suggested "hey, random question, do you want some watermelon? It's a hot day today, and I'm really craving it". I tell her I have watermelon in my fridge, and I'm honestly just craving it, and we don't have to do anything. She agrees, and we walk back to my place. During this time, she's snapping pictures of me and my address, and joking that if I kill her, those photos will be evidence.
Escalation
Back at my place, we listen to music, eat watermelon, and kiss on the couch. After a few periods of escalation, then chatting, I suck her nipples, then finger her G-spot, and she rubs my dick through my pants. But she stops herself and calls an Uber. I probably should have persisted more, but it was 3AM, and getting a virgin muslim was going to be work.
Keys to the Lay
Just being chill, leading, not pressuring her--it was going to take a bit more time for her to be comfortable going back to a stranger guy's house while she's on vacation in a new big city
Although we didn't go all the way, this was pretty satisfying for me for several reasons:
- first sexual interaction with a black girl
- first sexual interaction with a foreign visitor
- first sexual interaction from night game
- first sexual interaction with a muslim
This has inspired me to... maybe checkout night game more? Man, I felt like a completely different person at night game tonight compared to all the massive failure nights from years past. I was clearly the best dressed guy in the bar, and I could clearly see the social ineptitude of most guys in the bar, which made pulling this pretty black girl relatively easy.
Me: 30 y/o Asian Male in Finance, wearing a light grey blazer, button down shirt with top few buttons unbuttoned, and black jeans. It was 96 degrees today, and I was kind of warm in this outfit, but I was also the best dressed guy in the whole venue, and got several compliments from both men and women, so it was probably worth it.
Her: 26 y/o Black Female, visiting USA for a week from London, rail-thin, wearing a bright white very short dress, very pretty. British accent, but Nigerian origin, virgin muslim, getting a phd
Venue
A loud music rooftop bar that charged cover. It was sort of half-way between a bar and a club. Fairly loud music, crowded, but not super crowded. There were places to go to talk a bit more, places to sit, places to get a bit of quiet time
Background
I don't do night game. I'm an introvert, so crowds and loud music really sap my energy away. I went to this event because it was my female friend's birthday party, and I usually only go to 1 or 2 of these per year. I've never successfully pulled a girl from night game, and definitely consider this a weakness of mine that I actively avoid.
Anyway, this was the first time I went to a busy bar/club since taking on Cold Approach seriously. The first thing I noticed was that most of the girls there were honestly not that pretty. Lots of makeup to hide ugly faces, and skimpy dresses to hopefully distract from their not amazing figures.
The Meet
While sitting down, chatting with some friends, I see a pretty black girl hovering around, who is definitely a cut above in appearance from every other girl in the bar. She's also clearly alone, which is sort of rare. I think of some way to approach her, but can't really do it smoothly.
I see her walk to another quieter section of the rooftop, and I follow her there. I sidle next to her, and compliment her on her outfit, but she has airpods on, and literally cannot hear me and doesn't notice me. So I walk away.
5 minutes later, I'm still hanging out in the same area. The black girl randomly gets into conversation with a group of a few Korean guys and a cute asian girl. I'm kind of just standing around, and the alpha Korean guy of the group comes up to me and says "You look straight out of a GQ magazine". We talk a bit, and he straight up introduces me to the black girl, whom he also just met. I turn my attention 100% over to the black girl and start chatting/flirting with her. The Korean guy.... just leaves us alone completely.
Not being familiar with night game, this was new to me. But I wasn't going to let this gift go to waste. My suspicion is that this Korean guy is in a relationship, or doesn't like black girls, or something, and he just felt generous, and straight up cock-enabled a stranger (me).
Bounce
We chatted a bit, conversation was honestly just okay. It was also hard to hear each other. I figured what the hell, and asked her "hey you want to go downstairs and grab a pizza?" (she had mentioned she was planning to get a New York pizza tonight). She agreed, we went down the elevator, and waited for pizza downstairs.
Pull
After pizza, I suggested we take a walk along the river. While sitting on the river bench, I kissed her. I understand that kissing before we're alone at my place can be a release of sexual tension, and therefore bad, but in this case it felt necessary. We were chatting and vibing, but not vibing enough that she was anywhere near ready to go back to my place. So I needed to up the sexual vibe.
Anyway, after kissing and chatting more, I suggested we head to a new building plaza area (near my apartment). She agreed, we walked there, sat down, kissed more.
I suggested "hey, random question, do you want some watermelon? It's a hot day today, and I'm really craving it". I tell her I have watermelon in my fridge, and I'm honestly just craving it, and we don't have to do anything. She agrees, and we walk back to my place. During this time, she's snapping pictures of me and my address, and joking that if I kill her, those photos will be evidence.
Escalation
Back at my place, we listen to music, eat watermelon, and kiss on the couch. After a few periods of escalation, then chatting, I suck her nipples, then finger her G-spot, and she rubs my dick through my pants. But she stops herself and calls an Uber. I probably should have persisted more, but it was 3AM, and getting a virgin muslim was going to be work.
Keys to the Lay
Just being chill, leading, not pressuring her--it was going to take a bit more time for her to be comfortable going back to a stranger guy's house while she's on vacation in a new big city
Although we didn't go all the way, this was pretty satisfying for me for several reasons:
- first sexual interaction with a black girl
- first sexual interaction with a foreign visitor
- first sexual interaction from night game
- first sexual interaction with a muslim
This has inspired me to... maybe checkout night game more? Man, I felt like a completely different person at night game tonight compared to all the massive failure nights from years past. I was clearly the best dressed guy in the bar, and I could clearly see the social ineptitude of most guys in the bar, which made pulling this pretty black girl relatively easy.
