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Just had my first solid night game pull/lay. This is also my 3rd lay this semester (at the beginning of this year, i had only 3 lifetime lays, so it’s crazy to see how far i’ve come).
I went out to a bar near my campus with a couple of my friends. For some reason, we got there super early. This definitely played a part in helping me ease into the environment and chat up people throughout the night.
I was hanging out at the bar when I notice a girl from these group of girls beside me looking at me. I proceed to open but my girl leaves right as I was about to and I end up opening her cuter friend. Things are really on with this girl and she’s coming on to me pretty strongly. She just had this strong sexy vibe. A couple of minutes into conversation, she tells me I have to buy her a drink before she can introduce me to her friends. Obviously I wasn’t going to do that (not a big fan of buying girls’ drinks especially that early into the night) so i told her maybe later. She gets fake mad and tells me how i’m not a gentleman. I smirk, ask her where her friends were and she just leads me to them directly (i guess she was testing me??) I introduce myself to the group of about 4-5 girls who had just gotten to the bar so they seemed very open to meeting people. I talk to all of them for about 5 minutes and tell them “you know what? my friends are cool. i’ll bring them over to say hey”
My girl brings up the fact that i didn’t buy her a drink again. I responded the same - smirked and went to grab my friends.
It turns out one of my friends already knew my girl so it was super easy for the groups to mix. My girl and i get into conversation and i tease her about being too white (i’m black). She starts qualifying herself saying she’s not like all these other girls and so on. I try to reward this by saying how I love that she’s cool and agreeing with her that she’s a bit different. I then make a joke about how she’s definitely dated a black guy before. At this point, she whispers in my ear - “i’ve fucked a black guy before”, giving me a lot of eye contact while pulling away. I simply smile here and return the eye contact (I felt like I could have done more to reward that, any ideas?)
Anyway, she leaves to talk to another friend and i continue talking with the group. The more I talk with the girls individually, the more I realize that they all seem to be into me which was pretty crazy. Our groups end up splitting and my friends and i go on about our night. At this point, I had made sure to grab my girl’s contact.
We walk around the bar, chatting, trying to talk to some other girls and just having a good time. About an hour later, I see my girl talking to some other guy (it’s night game so i figured this would happen). She’s getting super close to this dude, talking in his ear just like she was with me (spoiler: she did that with 2 other guys after this dude)
After she separates from him, I approach her and we start flirting again. This is when she tells me that her friend told her she liked me. I had talked to this friend earlier and she was pretty cute as well but she didn’t have the energy of my current girl. I tried to ignore what she was saying but it didn’t work so I get kinda pissed at my girl and move on to her friend (we’ll call her girl B)
I start flirting with girl B and she brings up an objection: “I can’t mess with you like that because you’re with my friend” I challenge this by saying “how do you know i’m with her?” and she said we’ve been flirting all night. I respond with “she’s just a super friendly person. look, she’s talking to my friend right now”
Girl B is still not fully sold but I just grab a seat near her telling her: “let’s talk, i like you”
I’ve been experimenting with hooking techniques since I read @Teevster ’s hooking series on GC. I used intrigue to break out the sexual frustration gambit which doesn’t hit fully because of the background noise. However, the gambit gave me a lot of room to start talking about sex. She says all her roommates usually bring home guys and that she’s not like that and hasn’t even been with anyone in college so far. I incorporate some pacing and leading, telling her “I get what you mean. I don’t like sex…I like good sex….” and from there, I transition into a mixture of the good lover gambit and the sexual comfort gambit. It hits super hard especially the sexual comfort one. Here, I start fractionating with some regular, rapport building questions after which we both leave to use the bathroom. After getting back from the bathroom, she tells me her friend (the girl I was initially talking to, who we’ll call girl A) wanted to move the group to another bar. Girl A is the alpha of the group so i’m worried the set is ruined (especially since i’d have to pay to get into the other bar, something I totally didn’t want to do)
However, girl A is super drunk at this point so she just disappears. This gives me an opening to talking to girl B and try to go for a pull. I’ve never pulled from a bar before so i didn’t have much faith in it but decided to try anyway. The pull:
Me: “it’s super loud, we should get out of here. i’ve also got some drinks back at my place”
Her: “It is loud but i can’t leave my friends”
Me: “They’ll be fine. It’s at least 3 of them. I’m sure they can look after each other”
Her: “Idk, I just don’t want to leave them. Also my parents are visiting tomorrow so I have to be up early”
At this point, i kinda give up and go talk to my boys. One of my boys is pretty good with women and i’ve seen him pull from bars multiple times. I just tell him the situation and he agrees that it’s a rough situation but encouraged me to persist anyway.
I go back to my girl and decide to give it a shot. I’ve also been working on my persistence since i’m naturally not a persistent person when it comes to convincing people
Girl B and I start some regular talk. She had mentioned not being close to her parents (something that I relate to) so I asked her about that to see if I could build some comfort. We talked about parents for a bit (albeit not too deeply). I tell her i like talking to her and go for the pull again.
This time, she says: “i’m not that type of girl”
Now, I grab her hand, tell her to look at me and while we’re making deep eye contact, I say: “We won’t do anything you’re not 100% comfortable with. I just want to have some more drinks and chill with you outside of this place”
I had 0 faith that this would work but she does a 180 and says “okay, i’ll come with you.” I honestly still couldn’t believe it so I asked again to confirm. She said yes and I ordered us an uber. Unfortunately, i didn’t realize her friends were right by us the entire time. I assumed they were going to grab her away from me so i figured it was over. However, she just told them “hey guys, im leaving with him” They said okay and hugged her goodbye. That was super surprising to me but we got into the uber and headed back to my place.
I didn’t even get to bring the drinks out of my fridge. I just asked if she wanted water and we watched less than a minute of a show on my laptop before making out and eventually having sex.
I went out to a bar near my campus with a couple of my friends. For some reason, we got there super early. This definitely played a part in helping me ease into the environment and chat up people throughout the night.
I was hanging out at the bar when I notice a girl from these group of girls beside me looking at me. I proceed to open but my girl leaves right as I was about to and I end up opening her cuter friend. Things are really on with this girl and she’s coming on to me pretty strongly. She just had this strong sexy vibe. A couple of minutes into conversation, she tells me I have to buy her a drink before she can introduce me to her friends. Obviously I wasn’t going to do that (not a big fan of buying girls’ drinks especially that early into the night) so i told her maybe later. She gets fake mad and tells me how i’m not a gentleman. I smirk, ask her where her friends were and she just leads me to them directly (i guess she was testing me??) I introduce myself to the group of about 4-5 girls who had just gotten to the bar so they seemed very open to meeting people. I talk to all of them for about 5 minutes and tell them “you know what? my friends are cool. i’ll bring them over to say hey”
My girl brings up the fact that i didn’t buy her a drink again. I responded the same - smirked and went to grab my friends.
It turns out one of my friends already knew my girl so it was super easy for the groups to mix. My girl and i get into conversation and i tease her about being too white (i’m black). She starts qualifying herself saying she’s not like all these other girls and so on. I try to reward this by saying how I love that she’s cool and agreeing with her that she’s a bit different. I then make a joke about how she’s definitely dated a black guy before. At this point, she whispers in my ear - “i’ve fucked a black guy before”, giving me a lot of eye contact while pulling away. I simply smile here and return the eye contact (I felt like I could have done more to reward that, any ideas?)
Anyway, she leaves to talk to another friend and i continue talking with the group. The more I talk with the girls individually, the more I realize that they all seem to be into me which was pretty crazy. Our groups end up splitting and my friends and i go on about our night. At this point, I had made sure to grab my girl’s contact.
We walk around the bar, chatting, trying to talk to some other girls and just having a good time. About an hour later, I see my girl talking to some other guy (it’s night game so i figured this would happen). She’s getting super close to this dude, talking in his ear just like she was with me (spoiler: she did that with 2 other guys after this dude)
After she separates from him, I approach her and we start flirting again. This is when she tells me that her friend told her she liked me. I had talked to this friend earlier and she was pretty cute as well but she didn’t have the energy of my current girl. I tried to ignore what she was saying but it didn’t work so I get kinda pissed at my girl and move on to her friend (we’ll call her girl B)
I start flirting with girl B and she brings up an objection: “I can’t mess with you like that because you’re with my friend” I challenge this by saying “how do you know i’m with her?” and she said we’ve been flirting all night. I respond with “she’s just a super friendly person. look, she’s talking to my friend right now”
Girl B is still not fully sold but I just grab a seat near her telling her: “let’s talk, i like you”
I’ve been experimenting with hooking techniques since I read @Teevster ’s hooking series on GC. I used intrigue to break out the sexual frustration gambit which doesn’t hit fully because of the background noise. However, the gambit gave me a lot of room to start talking about sex. She says all her roommates usually bring home guys and that she’s not like that and hasn’t even been with anyone in college so far. I incorporate some pacing and leading, telling her “I get what you mean. I don’t like sex…I like good sex….” and from there, I transition into a mixture of the good lover gambit and the sexual comfort gambit. It hits super hard especially the sexual comfort one. Here, I start fractionating with some regular, rapport building questions after which we both leave to use the bathroom. After getting back from the bathroom, she tells me her friend (the girl I was initially talking to, who we’ll call girl A) wanted to move the group to another bar. Girl A is the alpha of the group so i’m worried the set is ruined (especially since i’d have to pay to get into the other bar, something I totally didn’t want to do)
However, girl A is super drunk at this point so she just disappears. This gives me an opening to talking to girl B and try to go for a pull. I’ve never pulled from a bar before so i didn’t have much faith in it but decided to try anyway. The pull:
Me: “it’s super loud, we should get out of here. i’ve also got some drinks back at my place”
Her: “It is loud but i can’t leave my friends”
Me: “They’ll be fine. It’s at least 3 of them. I’m sure they can look after each other”
Her: “Idk, I just don’t want to leave them. Also my parents are visiting tomorrow so I have to be up early”
At this point, i kinda give up and go talk to my boys. One of my boys is pretty good with women and i’ve seen him pull from bars multiple times. I just tell him the situation and he agrees that it’s a rough situation but encouraged me to persist anyway.
I go back to my girl and decide to give it a shot. I’ve also been working on my persistence since i’m naturally not a persistent person when it comes to convincing people
Girl B and I start some regular talk. She had mentioned not being close to her parents (something that I relate to) so I asked her about that to see if I could build some comfort. We talked about parents for a bit (albeit not too deeply). I tell her i like talking to her and go for the pull again.
This time, she says: “i’m not that type of girl”
Now, I grab her hand, tell her to look at me and while we’re making deep eye contact, I say: “We won’t do anything you’re not 100% comfortable with. I just want to have some more drinks and chill with you outside of this place”
I had 0 faith that this would work but she does a 180 and says “okay, i’ll come with you.” I honestly still couldn’t believe it so I asked again to confirm. She said yes and I ordered us an uber. Unfortunately, i didn’t realize her friends were right by us the entire time. I assumed they were going to grab her away from me so i figured it was over. However, she just told them “hey guys, im leaving with him” They said okay and hugged her goodbye. That was super surprising to me but we got into the uber and headed back to my place.
I didn’t even get to bring the drinks out of my fridge. I just asked if she wanted water and we watched less than a minute of a show on my laptop before making out and eventually having sex.
