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iceberg slim

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Yo, so I'm in Medellin day gaming foreign girls for the first time. First of all, I am low key blown away by the chicks here. Let me just say that I used to think the kind of chicks I really want are rare--and in fact they are rare in my home city. But they are NOT rare in Medellin, let me tell you, which for me is very eye opening and exciting.

Yesterday I did my first session of approaches. Went to a mall to get phone service, and it was swarming with girls so I did 6 approaches there. 4 of them were duds while 2 of them there was a glimmer of interest from the girl (one for me was a solid 8, and worked at a shitty car dealership; how many smokin girls work for a shitty car dealership in the states?). All of my approaches were definitely not smooth. I basically tried to speak to the girl in awful entry level Spanish. I then reread Chase's article on getting foreign girls (ie - not learning the language) and several articles on nonverbal communication. So I think my new approach today is going to be not even trying to speak Spanish, and focusing on my nonverbals.

That's pretty general though. I'm wondering if any seasoned vets have some more specific tips on day time cold approaching girls with little to no English. And anyone have any Medellin specific pointers?

Thanks dudes.


Edit: went to a wild shopping area today and did 8 approaches with more focus on non verbals. I spoke in English while reminding myself they don't understand and to instead communicate through vibe. Got 3 numbers and 2 dates lined up (3rd is also responding). Now the question is how to run a date with a non English speaker.
 
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Yo, so I'm in Medellin day gaming foreign girls for the first time. First of all, I am low key blown away by the chicks here. Let me just say that I used to think the kind of chicks I really want are rare--and in fact they are rare in my home city. But they are NOT rare in Medellin, let me tell you, which for me is very eye opening and exciting.

Yesterday I did my first session of approaches. Went to a mall to get phone service, and it was swarming with girls so I did 6 approaches there. 4 of them were duds while 2 of them there was a glimmer of interest from the girl (one for me was a solid 8, and worked at a shitty car dealership; how many smokin girls work for a shitty car dealership in the states?). All of my approaches were definitely not smooth. I basically tried to speak to the girl in awful entry level Spanish. I then reread Chase's article on getting foreign girls (ie - not learning the language) and several articles on nonverbal communication. So I think my new approach today is going to be not even trying to speak Spanish, and focusing on my nonverbals.

That's pretty general though. I'm wondering if any seasoned vets have some more specific tips on day time cold approaching girls with little to no English. And anyone have any Medellin specific pointers?

Thanks dudes.


Edit: went to a wild shopping area today and did 8 approaches with more focus on non verbals. I spoke in English while reminding myself they don't understand and to instead communicate through vibe. Got 3 numbers and 2 dates lined up (3rd is also responding). Now the question is how to run a date with a non English speaker.

When I was in Medellin, my tactic was basically this -

Walk around, see a hot girl. Stop her, say "do you speak english" if she says yes / a little then i would just run my usual game. It worked.

I also did manage to sleep with a girl who spoke zero english but honestly it was just a hassle man. I just find it frustrating / unenjoyable if there is a big language barrier
 

iceberg slim

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When I was in Medellin, my tactic was basically this -

Walk around, see a hot girl. Stop her, say "do you speak english" if she says yes / a little then i would just run my usual game. It worked.

I also did manage to sleep with a girl who spoke zero english but honestly it was just a hassle man. I just find it frustrating / unenjoyable if there is a big language barrier
Interesting...so you just open with "do you speak English"? And if she says no you just move on immediately?

I did have a date with a milf last night and we communicated using Google translate and it was actually kind of fun, not gonna lie.
 
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That's pretty general though. I'm wondering if any seasoned vets have some more specific tips on day time cold approaching girls with little to no English. And anyone have any Medellin specific pointers?
My biggest piece of advice is go to the areas near universities. Educated girls will almost universally have better English than girls elsewhere in the city. Game the metro stations and malls in the early evening.

Also, there's a Gringo Tuesdays meetup which you should definitely go to. It's ostensibly for language exchange, but it turns into a rave later on in the night - basically a hookup party. I think @alleniverson had some good experiences with that (as did I with the one in Bogota).

Be careful of Scopolamine. It's a big problem in Medellin. If you meet a girl from Tinder, don't go to her place or a place that you didn't decide upon. There are some damn fine girls in Medellin, but stay safe.

There are a couple of other towns in Colombia I really recommend for game, but I will DM you because I don't want to ruin them ;)
 

iceberg slim

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My biggest piece of advice is go to the areas near universities. Educated girls will almost universally have better English than girls elsewhere in the city. Game the metro stations and malls in the early evening.

Also, there's a Gringo Tuesdays meetup which you should definitely go to. It's ostensibly for language exchange, but it turns into a rave later on in the night - basically a hookup party. I think @alleniverson had some good experiences with that (as did I with the one in Bogota).

Be careful of Scopolamine. It's a big problem in Medellin. If you meet a girl from Tinder, don't go to her place or a place that you didn't decide upon. There are some damn fine girls in Medellin, but stay safe.

There are a couple of other towns in Colombia I really recommend for game, but I will DM you because I don't want to ruin them ;)
Just signed up for the meetup. Thanks for the tip!

Excellent suggestion regarding universities and metro stations in the evenings.

I'm not using Tinder so no worries there. I'd probably only go back to mine, given the safety concerns. Date with a chick in about an hour so fingers crossed.
 

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How long will you stay in Medellin? Might come over there or go back to Lima. Would love to wing if you're down.
 

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How long will you stay in Medellin? Might come over there or go back to Lima. Would love to wing if you're down.
One more full week (leaving next Saturday). DM me if you decide to head this way
 
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How long will you stay in Medellin? Might come over there or go back to Lima. Would love to wing if you're down.
Wow youre from Lima? Hows it there for daygaming? I was considering going there at some point since I met some fine Perivian chicks last year...
 
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Wow youre from Lima? Hows it there for daygaming? I was considering going there at some point since I met some fine Perivian chicks last year...
Not from there, I just been flying there a lot recently. Underrated spot though, especially if you're Asian. Great for daygame, though I stuck to OLD and nightgame and got great results. Semi conservative culture.
 
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