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- Mar 27, 2023
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Walked in and went for social momentum right away
Do you know where the bathroom is (legit needed it)
She points and says down there
I ask where again
Another girl smiles with good eye contact and says down there in the corner you will see it
I put my hand on her waist ala Zan Perrion and confirm down there? and she says yeah don't touch me though
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Preopen edge of dance floor, hand on forearm
Ask is this pop music night
Her friend pulls her away
***
Walk past 3 set near bar
Turn head and ask is this pop night. When is goth night I was expecting industrial music.
She tells me and says she's never been that night but wants to. And says she goes to another certain club for that genre in a different nearby city
I tell her I work in that city
We have good zoned in eye contact throughout
Her friend asks if she's ready to go and starts walking
I say ok have fun
She says bye and maintains eye contact as her friend pulls her away
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Went to bathroom stall and searched club openers
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Posted up on wall right at corner of dancefloor and stairs to bathroom (per Chase post up article... Not sure if this is so good for social proof in this particular venue because whole dance floor can see me alone. The club does not have enough rooms so there are only one or two possible post up spots with traffic)
Hot drunk girl looks at me and says something unintelligible and reaches out to touch me. She knocks my drink (water) on the ground and her girl friends pull her away
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Lone wolf on wall watching dance floor drinking red bull
You are having way too much fun over here
She laughs and says yeah she's enjoying the music
Her friend is outside in smoking area with someone
We exchange names and I say that's my little cousin's name (true)
I ask if she's a student and she's a dishwasher
We get into a little convo about the place she works at and I tell her it was in a movie so she's one step from Hollywood
I ask if she wants to move up the stairs to the bar area and she says she's cool where she is
I cheers her and say I'm going to do a loop and it was nice meeting you (her name) she says nice meeting you too (my name) and extends her hand
***
Girl who knocked my drink before comes back later when I was back at post up spot, (circled the place several times throughout the night) after we had made eye contact both walking around a bit. She seemed more sober than I thought but it is hard to know for sure.
I told her I though she was really drunk and she didn't seem it. She said she was. I put my hand on her waist Zan style and she was totally fine with it. I told her it was water and she told two huge guy friends she was with it was water in a relieved way. She was with girls earlier.
I told her she owes me a water now. She gave me a playful push and said go get the water. She looked at her guy friend and said who is this guy. I said come with me and buy me a water (I don't think she understood it was a free (I did tip) soda water though). She yelled shut the fuck up at me. Totally a shit test because she was smiling and I kept smiling. I looked at her guy friends and kind of then a sheepish raised eyebrow smile like amused. They looked a little confused not understanding if it was a problem or friendly but she walked away (maybe shouldn't have disengaged her). She did seem too drunk to engage further based on the yell. If I saw her again it would probably still be open.
***
Ultimately the club got way too loud and I'm not so sure this is the right venue for me.
***
The two ass shaking attention girls kept looking at me throughout the night. A couple really hot girls throughout the night broke eye contact downwards while walking past throughout the night.
And the three hottest girls in the club walked by me a few times. The hottest eyed me every time and the second hottest gave me a real obvious hair flip once. The post up spot was pretty high traffic though so not sure how to stop them. Physically reaching out an arm did not seem like a good idea. Maybe a wave but it was flash and gone. They never made fully direct eye contact and it was way too loud to say anything.
Do you know where the bathroom is (legit needed it)
She points and says down there
I ask where again
Another girl smiles with good eye contact and says down there in the corner you will see it
I put my hand on her waist ala Zan Perrion and confirm down there? and she says yeah don't touch me though
***
Preopen edge of dance floor, hand on forearm
Ask is this pop music night
Her friend pulls her away
***
Walk past 3 set near bar
Turn head and ask is this pop night. When is goth night I was expecting industrial music.
She tells me and says she's never been that night but wants to. And says she goes to another certain club for that genre in a different nearby city
I tell her I work in that city
We have good zoned in eye contact throughout
Her friend asks if she's ready to go and starts walking
I say ok have fun
She says bye and maintains eye contact as her friend pulls her away
***
Went to bathroom stall and searched club openers
***
Posted up on wall right at corner of dancefloor and stairs to bathroom (per Chase post up article... Not sure if this is so good for social proof in this particular venue because whole dance floor can see me alone. The club does not have enough rooms so there are only one or two possible post up spots with traffic)
Hot drunk girl looks at me and says something unintelligible and reaches out to touch me. She knocks my drink (water) on the ground and her girl friends pull her away
***
Lone wolf on wall watching dance floor drinking red bull
You are having way too much fun over here
She laughs and says yeah she's enjoying the music
Her friend is outside in smoking area with someone
We exchange names and I say that's my little cousin's name (true)
I ask if she's a student and she's a dishwasher
We get into a little convo about the place she works at and I tell her it was in a movie so she's one step from Hollywood
I ask if she wants to move up the stairs to the bar area and she says she's cool where she is
I cheers her and say I'm going to do a loop and it was nice meeting you (her name) she says nice meeting you too (my name) and extends her hand
***
Girl who knocked my drink before comes back later when I was back at post up spot, (circled the place several times throughout the night) after we had made eye contact both walking around a bit. She seemed more sober than I thought but it is hard to know for sure.
I told her I though she was really drunk and she didn't seem it. She said she was. I put my hand on her waist Zan style and she was totally fine with it. I told her it was water and she told two huge guy friends she was with it was water in a relieved way. She was with girls earlier.
I told her she owes me a water now. She gave me a playful push and said go get the water. She looked at her guy friend and said who is this guy. I said come with me and buy me a water (I don't think she understood it was a free (I did tip) soda water though). She yelled shut the fuck up at me. Totally a shit test because she was smiling and I kept smiling. I looked at her guy friends and kind of then a sheepish raised eyebrow smile like amused. They looked a little confused not understanding if it was a problem or friendly but she walked away (maybe shouldn't have disengaged her). She did seem too drunk to engage further based on the yell. If I saw her again it would probably still be open.
***
Ultimately the club got way too loud and I'm not so sure this is the right venue for me.
***
The two ass shaking attention girls kept looking at me throughout the night. A couple really hot girls throughout the night broke eye contact downwards while walking past throughout the night.
And the three hottest girls in the club walked by me a few times. The hottest eyed me every time and the second hottest gave me a real obvious hair flip once. The post up spot was pretty high traffic though so not sure how to stop them. Physically reaching out an arm did not seem like a good idea. Maybe a wave but it was flash and gone. They never made fully direct eye contact and it was way too loud to say anything.
