first timers

[Foreveranonymous]

does anyone have tips for Virgins?

 

[jonnywishbone]

I personally got a lot from reading an ebook called The Sex God Method by Dan Rose. Don't know if you can still get it, it was years ago but it really changed my mindset towards sex and improved things a lot for me. However, I think if you've not had sex before probably one of the worst things to do is fill your head with theory and end up over-thinking everything. I suppose sex is a lot like a conversation with a girl - it will be different every time and it's not really something you can rehearse. You just have to go in and enjoy it as much as you can, then reflect on what you could do differently next time.

 

[Jay]

I think if you've not had sex before probably one of the worst things to do is fill your head with theory and end up over-thinking everything. I suppose sex is a lot like a conversation with a girl - it will be different every time and it's not really something you can rehearse. You just have to go in and enjoy it as much as you can, then reflect on what you could do differently next time.

Very true. I would say your first time just try whatever feels right at the moment; generally her physical/vocal response will tell you whether you're barking up the right tree or not and you can quickly switch up what you're doing if she isn't responding well.

 

[Just_Dave]

Learning how to control your orgasms and knowing your body by:

*Learning to relax
*Deep slow breathes
*Living in the moment

Like the others said don't build yourself with theory, it's not necessary. It'd be like trying to do a kick flip on a skateboard before you even learned to ride it. I'm really getting at is knowing your own body and your turn ons. Be confident in the moment!

Don't build the eventual moment to be something huge, most guys blow there loads too quick after that. Let her be marveled at your control as she orgasms again and again. Simply because your not allowing yourself to come soon as some people normally would.