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Good evening Girls Chase seducer's! Just got home from my day game at the beach and totally enjoyed my learning experience. Gonna dive straight in today, I have two beaches both about 15-20 min. from my house and both on the same island connected by a main road running the stretch between the two. I started off at the beach im less known at to get the first couple approaches under my belt and warm up. I got there and moseyed my way up one end of the beach scouring for sexy women. Unfortunately the beach I started at seems to be composed of mostly family and young people (17 under 
) yet there's usually some girl or group to open. Finally as I finished my walk I thought I noticed two young attractive women tanning. I approached the hotter one, a thick skinned Spanish beauty, knelt down pre opened her upon which rattled her then she sat up and I opened directly with "Are you single?" and immediately noticed she was a MILF sunbathing with her younger daughter! This took me extremely by surprise and threw me off. We talked for a minute about where she was from and our backrounds and the whole time i'm thinking she's getting hit on by a 19 year old dude in front of her 16 year old daughter what a fricken weird situation. She wasn't dismissive yet seemed like she was just politely conversating and I didn't feel comfortable trying to progress the interaction sexually. I would have been down to smash the shit out of her but feel like I need to level up before I go MILF status. Anyway psyched to get the first approach out of the way!
Drove down to the next main beach 15 miles away, luckily the rest of the main beaches are close by. Every main beach where I live has a little wooden walk out leading from the road to the beach and every time I get out of my car I walk (or run) out to the end of it to scope out the women, it's funny because i'm a surfer and every time I check the surf I do the same thing. So I get to the end of the walkout and the only girl I notice is by herself sunbathing right in front of me. Sick, after not shooting first and asking questions later for 2 minutes my feet start moving towards her and open her with a situational opener over my shoulder while standing close to her, all this done with my best sexual undertone and eye contact I can muster. I notice that she has quite a thick accent and comment on her exoticness, turns out she's Italian. I ask if she's single she says she's kinda taken I tell her im not looking for a relationship anyway and proceeded to deep dive for a while and we ask each other questions and I end up getting some deep information but never really produced any great banter. After about 10 minutes she starts getting up to leave I tell her to give me a hand up and comment on how i'm enjoying getting to know her and invite her to have dinner with me tonight which she politely declined and we walked together back to our cars where we parted way. Didn't get a number or date but enjoyed practicing approaching and conversational skills, cool girl to get to know.
Drove to next main beach at the pier and proceeded to walk the beach scouring for women. It was late in the afternoon and hardly any hot girls to speak of mostly families enjoying the day. On my walk back further away from the beach I saw a kinda cute girl sitting on a towel with clothes instead of a bikini on with scrunched body language not looking very approachable. I decided to approach anyway, you never know what will happen right? Opened indirect direct asking her where something obvious was and she missed the humor. Tried to produce some banter upon failing and she ambivalently told me she wasn't in the mood to talk. I believe that because she didn't seem settled in, was very stirred like she didn't know if she belonged there or not, wasn't really diggin her at all anyway. Oh well another weird interaction for the day on to the next!
Drove to next main beach went and checked the scene to find nothing worth checking out. Walking back I noticed a cute short asian girl getting out of her car I should have opened her then and there but a wave of A.A. got me before I took action where she then walked across the road towards wherever she was going. Ahhhh! What am I doing? A.A. after approaching 3 times prior this might be my next girlfriend! I instantly walk across the road and catch up to her pre open and ask if she's single. I stuttered once while saying "are you" but not too bad. She said she was taken and I immediately brushed past it with a compliment and asked what she was up to. She told me she was going to see her sister and started to speed up her pace with dismissive body language. I told her it was awesome getting to know her so well and walked back to the car blithe with contentment for taking action for the day. I was out of beaches to scour and called it a day.
All and all awesome learning experience. I'm curious too if any one that reads this does any beach day game. I find it hard to pre open most girls that are out sunbathing it's just kind of awkward and too me doesn't follow sprezzatura. I guess locking eye contact and looking away with a smile counts but can't be used on every girl. Any beach game advice would be heavily appreciated. Look forward to a new week of self growth starting hope everyone else enjoys theirs.
Happy growing!
) yet there's usually some girl or group to open. Finally as I finished my walk I thought I noticed two young attractive women tanning. I approached the hotter one, a thick skinned Spanish beauty, knelt down pre opened her upon which rattled her then she sat up and I opened directly with "Are you single?" and immediately noticed she was a MILF sunbathing with her younger daughter! This took me extremely by surprise and threw me off. We talked for a minute about where she was from and our backrounds and the whole time i'm thinking she's getting hit on by a 19 year old dude in front of her 16 year old daughter what a fricken weird situation. She wasn't dismissive yet seemed like she was just politely conversating and I didn't feel comfortable trying to progress the interaction sexually. I would have been down to smash the shit out of her but feel like I need to level up before I go MILF status. Anyway psyched to get the first approach out of the way!Drove down to the next main beach 15 miles away, luckily the rest of the main beaches are close by. Every main beach where I live has a little wooden walk out leading from the road to the beach and every time I get out of my car I walk (or run) out to the end of it to scope out the women, it's funny because i'm a surfer and every time I check the surf I do the same thing. So I get to the end of the walkout and the only girl I notice is by herself sunbathing right in front of me. Sick, after not shooting first and asking questions later for 2 minutes my feet start moving towards her and open her with a situational opener over my shoulder while standing close to her, all this done with my best sexual undertone and eye contact I can muster. I notice that she has quite a thick accent and comment on her exoticness, turns out she's Italian. I ask if she's single she says she's kinda taken I tell her im not looking for a relationship anyway and proceeded to deep dive for a while and we ask each other questions and I end up getting some deep information but never really produced any great banter. After about 10 minutes she starts getting up to leave I tell her to give me a hand up and comment on how i'm enjoying getting to know her and invite her to have dinner with me tonight which she politely declined and we walked together back to our cars where we parted way. Didn't get a number or date but enjoyed practicing approaching and conversational skills, cool girl to get to know.
- What to work on
deliberate practice banter
keep flow of conversation going without awkward pauses (getting better!)
Drove to next main beach at the pier and proceeded to walk the beach scouring for women. It was late in the afternoon and hardly any hot girls to speak of mostly families enjoying the day. On my walk back further away from the beach I saw a kinda cute girl sitting on a towel with clothes instead of a bikini on with scrunched body language not looking very approachable. I decided to approach anyway, you never know what will happen right? Opened indirect direct asking her where something obvious was and she missed the humor. Tried to produce some banter upon failing and she ambivalently told me she wasn't in the mood to talk. I believe that because she didn't seem settled in, was very stirred like she didn't know if she belonged there or not, wasn't really diggin her at all anyway. Oh well another weird interaction for the day on to the next!
- What to work on-
being more intent and play full with my opening body language
putting even emotionally stirred women at ease with my charisma
Drove to next main beach went and checked the scene to find nothing worth checking out. Walking back I noticed a cute short asian girl getting out of her car I should have opened her then and there but a wave of A.A. got me before I took action where she then walked across the road towards wherever she was going. Ahhhh! What am I doing? A.A. after approaching 3 times prior this might be my next girlfriend! I instantly walk across the road and catch up to her pre open and ask if she's single. I stuttered once while saying "are you" but not too bad. She said she was taken and I immediately brushed past it with a compliment and asked what she was up to. She told me she was going to see her sister and started to speed up her pace with dismissive body language. I told her it was awesome getting to know her so well and walked back to the car blithe with contentment for taking action for the day. I was out of beaches to scour and called it a day.
- What not to do-
Refrain from stuttering upon opening
deliver with utter certainty
All and all awesome learning experience. I'm curious too if any one that reads this does any beach day game. I find it hard to pre open most girls that are out sunbathing it's just kind of awkward and too me doesn't follow sprezzatura. I guess locking eye contact and looking away with a smile counts but can't be used on every girl. Any beach game advice would be heavily appreciated. Look forward to a new week of self growth starting hope everyone else enjoys theirs.
Happy growing!
