I've been back at school for 3 weeks now. I am not a beginner, more of a technician as GirlsChase would say and can read signals, pick up on interest, etc. In the past three weeks I've had a lot of interactions that vary from day game pickup to party pickup to friends I've ended up hooking up with. However NONE of these resulted in sex (neither oral or actual sex). There's definitely a flaw in my game I'm trying to fix and cannot put my finger on it. However once I do I'm hoping my success rate to sex increases. Below I’ll go through the main interactions I've had and maybe one of the more advanced guys can help me out with my game. I personally feel my biggest flaw is realizing signals after interactions such as realizing a girl wanted to have sex, or hook up, but after everything had commenced.
Girl #1: Had a previous friendly relationship but never pursued her, she implied over summer she wanted to hook up. We get back to school and on the first night of partying (before parties start) she says let's meet after the party. (Fucked up here, should've never went on her terms or set up a date where we were sober). Anyways we go back to her dorm, make out, I'm kissing her body, but she keeps saying she's very drunk and says she's on her period. Doesn't want to blow me or anything, I didn't want to force her to do anything while intoxicated so I don't catch a charge or something. I decide to leave, and she tells me she ended up vomiting after I left. I try to set up another date, TWICE, and do not succeed. Got hit with the ‘I’m busy’ excuse twice.
Girl #2: Was friend zoned multiple times, we went out partying one night and she crashed at my apartment after. She threw herself on my bed with her ass out and we were about to make out until my roommate cockblocked me. Later on in the night she was sitting on the sofa and I started massaging her legs and laying on her. My roommate cockblocks again, but then leaves. We kiss, but she's a horrible kisser. I try to get her to sleep with me and she doesn't want to she keeps saying “can I just chill here”, etc etc. I couldn't get past resistance to escalate. We kiss next morning but she leaves without wanting to escalate.
Girl #3: We met on the bus, I got her number, and set up a date for the next day. On the date she mentions she's young, doesn't have much experience with guys (I was able to read it). We go back to my apartment, make out for maybe a minute, and she says she's a virgin. Date went well and she came to my apartment. I texted her 2 days later, she was cold and didn't seem interested anymore even though she was interested on date.
Girl #4: Met her through a mutual friend. We were at a laid-back party, she had 2 cockblocking friends with her, one who was especially aggressive at doing so. Was able to build rapport/connection, but she was from out of town with her 2 friends and they all had to get home. Couldn't bring her back to apartment. She texts me a few days later saying she was back at my school but I wasn't on campus that day. I feel I missed my opportunity to close due to not being there, whatever. We set up a date that she agreed to. Throughout the week we were meeting she’s text message flirting/showing interest. The day comes around and she says she's studying and would let me know when she's done so we can meet up. Doesn't hit me back up.
So there you have it, 4 different interactions all of which in my opinion I messed up. Also there was another time I was walking a girl I had just met back to her car and she gave me the signal that she wanted to escalate but I missed it. That was a one shot opportunity I missed. I have no approach anxiety and get numbers easily, but once I get the number everything else seems to go to shit. I feel like there isn't even a point in getting numbers.
Girl #1: Had a previous friendly relationship but never pursued her, she implied over summer she wanted to hook up. We get back to school and on the first night of partying (before parties start) she says let's meet after the party. (Fucked up here, should've never went on her terms or set up a date where we were sober). Anyways we go back to her dorm, make out, I'm kissing her body, but she keeps saying she's very drunk and says she's on her period. Doesn't want to blow me or anything, I didn't want to force her to do anything while intoxicated so I don't catch a charge or something. I decide to leave, and she tells me she ended up vomiting after I left. I try to set up another date, TWICE, and do not succeed. Got hit with the ‘I’m busy’ excuse twice.
Girl #2: Was friend zoned multiple times, we went out partying one night and she crashed at my apartment after. She threw herself on my bed with her ass out and we were about to make out until my roommate cockblocked me. Later on in the night she was sitting on the sofa and I started massaging her legs and laying on her. My roommate cockblocks again, but then leaves. We kiss, but she's a horrible kisser. I try to get her to sleep with me and she doesn't want to she keeps saying “can I just chill here”, etc etc. I couldn't get past resistance to escalate. We kiss next morning but she leaves without wanting to escalate.
Girl #3: We met on the bus, I got her number, and set up a date for the next day. On the date she mentions she's young, doesn't have much experience with guys (I was able to read it). We go back to my apartment, make out for maybe a minute, and she says she's a virgin. Date went well and she came to my apartment. I texted her 2 days later, she was cold and didn't seem interested anymore even though she was interested on date.
Girl #4: Met her through a mutual friend. We were at a laid-back party, she had 2 cockblocking friends with her, one who was especially aggressive at doing so. Was able to build rapport/connection, but she was from out of town with her 2 friends and they all had to get home. Couldn't bring her back to apartment. She texts me a few days later saying she was back at my school but I wasn't on campus that day. I feel I missed my opportunity to close due to not being there, whatever. We set up a date that she agreed to. Throughout the week we were meeting she’s text message flirting/showing interest. The day comes around and she says she's studying and would let me know when she's done so we can meet up. Doesn't hit me back up.
So there you have it, 4 different interactions all of which in my opinion I messed up. Also there was another time I was walking a girl I had just met back to her car and she gave me the signal that she wanted to escalate but I missed it. That was a one shot opportunity I missed. I have no approach anxiety and get numbers easily, but once I get the number everything else seems to go to shit. I feel like there isn't even a point in getting numbers.
