You’re asking very general questions about a competitive place.
There’s no way around it, you have to put in the work.
Everyone wants those flashy girls, so you’ll have to really put in the work.
Are you going out to those clubs and putting in real effort? Making FRs? Because that’s how you’ll get good. Not some magic technique, but instead consistent action, experience, and the tips from here to help you correct mistakes.
Honestly, those flashy girls probably aren’t worth it. You can find easier girls who are just as hot (just not done up with hours of make up and dancing like a freak for maximum attention) in a more receptive mood elsewhere.
But if you’re serious about gaming them, then you better start stepping up, and putting in the work.
-You might want to start a journal. We don't really know much about you, your experience level, your goals, etc.
-You can read up on club game and attention seeking girls on GC's articles
-You should be going out to clubs if that's where you truly want to pick up
-Then come back and make some FRs