Flirting AFTER a GREAT Reaction to Touch

[Bastian]

I'm talking about "melting-feeling" kinda reaction.
Not just a smile or even play angry/turned on.

How do you keep flirting when it's not possible to keep escalating physically WHEN you're being physical?

For example, we wash hands regularly due to Corona at work. During a hand-washing session I take my soapy hands and smear cleanness over the girl behind me -- we've always had a friendly flirty vibe. Bitch just melts "OMG that feels sooo good"
Chase framing won't work here. It'll just be an awkward mood. Like I'm touching her and her response is 9/10. Not much intrigue right there.

Next I thought about physically escalating. Definitely time for a HUGE step forward in seduction. BUT I'm at work surrounded by cameras, co-workers, and a "no dating" policy... that dumb as hell.

So what are you to do to keep the interaction going forward after such a great reaction?

In my example I gave a half-assed excuse of my father being back home (she knows I'm home alone 8+ hours each day), thinking she's looking to fuck.

In hindsight I could have said:

• "Wow, you seem to love getting soaped up" -- Something I would say, but I was caught off-guard and didn't go with this.
• "Is this how you turn on handsome guys?" -- A good canned line, but took a minute to process the emotion to word soup and now written/spoken beauty
• "You should see what else I can do with these fingers " -- My fave, but again took a little editing to finalize.

However, all three lines LOWER the vibe. She'll laugh, tension will break, and the moment wasn't capitalized-on effectively.

I'm looking to raise the heat or keep moving forward. Which again, is hard when you can't (won't) physically escalate

 

[Fuck This]

Don't start what you can't finish. Don't date coworkers. You can flirt with them for practice but bait and switch will piss them off.

Your actions and canned lines you thought of in hind sight are just asking for a sexual harassment claim.

 

[Bastian]

Don't start what you can't finish. Don't date coworkers. You can flirt with them for practice but bait and switch will piss them off.

Your actions and canned lines you thought of in hind sight are just asking for a sexual harassment claim.

I get where you’re coming from. I‘ve felt mad after projecting “bait and switch” And America seems like a sterile place

In fact I’ve been stupid before and actually upset other co-workers by not following the rules of the game. People who were friendly to us both. First was a guy White Knighting, then another girl after my ass. I finessed an escape

I ignored Mr. WK, then went off on the second chick. Can’t remember what I told them. But basically called her out for being jealous of wanting my attention. And using this as a dirty trick to change my focus to her.

The next day we back to normal, baby!!!

On the ther Hand

I flirt with everybody at work; some more direct than others.

This girl I could have fucked if I wasn’t so fuckboy-ish. Known her for 1.5 years. Ill never forget the time we talked about my lack of serious relationships

“ Its like you haven’t found the right one. Once you’ll find her you’ll...”

Ngl, I panicked at this point and vehemently denied any association or desire for LTRs

She fucking deflated lol

We’ve also joked about wrapping meat before and many other things.
I’ve been called Sweet Dick a few times last week

An experienced guy in his 50s even called a different girl a “black-ass lazy bitch” with the right tone. And she loved him even more.

The Regional Manager almost made him Manager elsewhere before he left

I’m willing to play the risks. Real wild shit stays outside work though

 

[Bastian]

The soap thing is something I semi-regularly do to different people. It’s just the reaction was too good.

An example is today we’re talking about the Corona virus & the six feet rule in an elevator. Just me, guy next to me, and a relatively new chick

Guy says “More like one foot rule”

We laugh

I hold his hand, raise our interlocked fingers and say “Yeah, one foot rule”

We just laugh more

EDIT: I could keep giving examples about me and this chick. As well as my vibe and that of my workplace. We go through cycles of attraction & disinterest. But point is we haven’t kissed or fucked yet and we don’t hangout as friends (she would like that tho)

 

[Toby2030]

I don't recommend fucking with girls from your workspace. However, if you really want to pull from your work, then do it outside of work. Invite her to something outside of work, and escalate.