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I catch some reviews by Lynn Saxon's "Sex at Dawn" and "Sex at Dusk". The book has stirred up comments.
One noted that the author is dishonest, one that cherry picks and promote sexual agenda. Another claims that everything is true, and that monogamy is today's society is failing. There's another who noted that he has three biological children and that his family took turns to take care of the child even they didn't know who that child father is.
Brings me to Girlschase and my perception.
Well i am "right" and that Chase has teach me "correct" things and how the world is, I should be well aware of such biasness towards my own knowledge and play it down by opening to what and how others see the world, when they are constructive and not bitter. Such counter balance by the world makes you know why you believe your own stuff (in essence here, i believe in what Chase writes and the things i continuously experience as i grow) and also makes you know yourself, and how the world thinks.
If you really think about it, you shouldn't feel sad when people criticize you of what you believe, BECAUSE it MAKES THEM TO YOU THAT THEY AN IDIOT ANYWAY, BUT what you believe must serve you, whether it's right or wrong. i think i come to terms in this universe that this place is based on a few things.
1) Focus = Whatever you focus, right or wrong, the universe doesn't care, it shows more of it.
2) Choice = IT has become more evident that in today's world, there's more distinct, you is you and me is me mentality. Even in religions like Islam and Christianity, i see people have their own groups, IT astounds me, because everyone suddenly drops everybody else and find people who want to believe in their own stuff (whether true or not) and join together. There's things like "Muslim Atheist" and people who accepts a religion but not following certain criteria and rules. I am like wow by all of this.
Zac
One noted that the author is dishonest, one that cherry picks and promote sexual agenda. Another claims that everything is true, and that monogamy is today's society is failing. There's another who noted that he has three biological children and that his family took turns to take care of the child even they didn't know who that child father is.
Brings me to Girlschase and my perception.
Well i am "right" and that Chase has teach me "correct" things and how the world is, I should be well aware of such biasness towards my own knowledge and play it down by opening to what and how others see the world, when they are constructive and not bitter. Such counter balance by the world makes you know why you believe your own stuff (in essence here, i believe in what Chase writes and the things i continuously experience as i grow) and also makes you know yourself, and how the world thinks.
If you really think about it, you shouldn't feel sad when people criticize you of what you believe, BECAUSE it MAKES THEM TO YOU THAT THEY AN IDIOT ANYWAY, BUT what you believe must serve you, whether it's right or wrong. i think i come to terms in this universe that this place is based on a few things.
1) Focus = Whatever you focus, right or wrong, the universe doesn't care, it shows more of it.
2) Choice = IT has become more evident that in today's world, there's more distinct, you is you and me is me mentality. Even in religions like Islam and Christianity, i see people have their own groups, IT astounds me, because everyone suddenly drops everybody else and find people who want to believe in their own stuff (whether true or not) and join together. There's things like "Muslim Atheist" and people who accepts a religion but not following certain criteria and rules. I am like wow by all of this.
Zac
