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Hey guys! I'm new to this site and to dating as well so I have a question regarding a follow-up text to a girl.
I'm trying to date this classmate of mine in law school and over the past 9 months, I only regarded her as a friend. However, I got attracted to her recently so I'm trying to schedule a meet so I can be with her 1-on-1.
I followed all of Chase's instructions on texting including having varying response times. She told me she was busy during this week but told me she can meet up with me in the following week. I told her that I can only meet her before Friday of that week because I was going out of town that time. After 3 hours, she texted me that she replied late because she was sleeping and said that she can push that. I texted back to let me know what day she'll be available and she hasn't replied to me as of yet. I don't want to come across as a needy person and I also didn't want to bug her with the text since she was preoccupied with work this week. Moreover, I can say that I'm a friend of hers who isn't relegated to her "friendzone" so I know that she won't treat me as a mere friend.
My question is whether I'll text her again if she had decided upon the day and time of our meet-up. Given that Chase said that "moving fast" is a strategy in the game, is this a move of persistence or of chasing?
I'm trying to date this classmate of mine in law school and over the past 9 months, I only regarded her as a friend. However, I got attracted to her recently so I'm trying to schedule a meet so I can be with her 1-on-1.
I followed all of Chase's instructions on texting including having varying response times. She told me she was busy during this week but told me she can meet up with me in the following week. I told her that I can only meet her before Friday of that week because I was going out of town that time. After 3 hours, she texted me that she replied late because she was sleeping and said that she can push that. I texted back to let me know what day she'll be available and she hasn't replied to me as of yet. I don't want to come across as a needy person and I also didn't want to bug her with the text since she was preoccupied with work this week. Moreover, I can say that I'm a friend of hers who isn't relegated to her "friendzone" so I know that she won't treat me as a mere friend.
My question is whether I'll text her again if she had decided upon the day and time of our meet-up. Given that Chase said that "moving fast" is a strategy in the game, is this a move of persistence or of chasing?
