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Fooled by a girl's personality.
So I have been struggling with seeming sexual on a date because I did not understand when the girl gets aroused. I've been struggling with seeming like a lover candidate instead of a boyfriend candidate and now I understand what was my problem exactly. And I can understand that because a girl help me to.
There is a 36-year-old woman, very beautiful, as all girls in Russia are. I played my sexual Vibe with her, and she reciprocated very well. She gave me all that Sexual Energy back and now, I believe that on the next date we will just start in my apartment.
the way she heavy sexually flirts with me now over text has finally opened my eyes. Because before that I was not acting sexual because I thought a girl will not reciprocate those feelings, because most girls are not 100% okay with their sexuality, especially young girls so I thought that if she's not actively giving me seductive eyes back, not actively touching me back, not sexually texting with me that she's not interested in having sex.
And because I'm a newbie in a seeming sexual department, I was thrown off by the lack of sexual energy from their side, and I did not increase my own Sexual Energy on a date, which resulted in some very charismatic, very fun dates, where we even ended up in my apartment most of the time, but it did not escalate to sex naturally, because the cafe part of it was not very sexual apart from me touching and hugging her.
The way I am with this woman is the way that I should have been with all of the other girls, regardless of their personalities. I Now understand that I should create sexual tension, I should assume that she wants to fuck me, and Chase me, and she wants to feel my hands on her, and I should put those thoughts in their heads even if it's not obvious that she wants to do it herself.
It's kind of the same deal when you approach a girl, and she's very shy, and you think to yourself, oh, she's not really interested she's not smiling and not laughing with me she's just standing there, agreeing to everything, but not actively engaging
the same, but in the opposite sense, goes with girls who are super charismatic, but in the opposite way. They flirt with you, they touch you, but then don't go on a date, because you kind of were fooled by their openness, and and forgot to do your job as a Seducer, did not deep dive enough and did not flirt enough so she was not actually hooked on the idea of a date with you. So now I will start treating every girl on a date as I treat this 36 year old woman who openly says that she will fuck me as soon as we are on my apartment, and that's why she will not go to my apartment, but we both know that she will.
And I'll start treating every girl regardless of whether or not she shows me how much she wants to fuck me or she seems sexual at all, I will treat them all like they are barely containing themselves
I will tease them about that and I will have more sexual dates, instead of very fun dates
So I have been struggling with seeming sexual on a date because I did not understand when the girl gets aroused. I've been struggling with seeming like a lover candidate instead of a boyfriend candidate and now I understand what was my problem exactly. And I can understand that because a girl help me to.
There is a 36-year-old woman, very beautiful, as all girls in Russia are. I played my sexual Vibe with her, and she reciprocated very well. She gave me all that Sexual Energy back and now, I believe that on the next date we will just start in my apartment.
the way she heavy sexually flirts with me now over text has finally opened my eyes. Because before that I was not acting sexual because I thought a girl will not reciprocate those feelings, because most girls are not 100% okay with their sexuality, especially young girls so I thought that if she's not actively giving me seductive eyes back, not actively touching me back, not sexually texting with me that she's not interested in having sex.
And because I'm a newbie in a seeming sexual department, I was thrown off by the lack of sexual energy from their side, and I did not increase my own Sexual Energy on a date, which resulted in some very charismatic, very fun dates, where we even ended up in my apartment most of the time, but it did not escalate to sex naturally, because the cafe part of it was not very sexual apart from me touching and hugging her.
The way I am with this woman is the way that I should have been with all of the other girls, regardless of their personalities. I Now understand that I should create sexual tension, I should assume that she wants to fuck me, and Chase me, and she wants to feel my hands on her, and I should put those thoughts in their heads even if it's not obvious that she wants to do it herself.
It's kind of the same deal when you approach a girl, and she's very shy, and you think to yourself, oh, she's not really interested she's not smiling and not laughing with me she's just standing there, agreeing to everything, but not actively engaging
the same, but in the opposite sense, goes with girls who are super charismatic, but in the opposite way. They flirt with you, they touch you, but then don't go on a date, because you kind of were fooled by their openness, and and forgot to do your job as a Seducer, did not deep dive enough and did not flirt enough so she was not actually hooked on the idea of a date with you. So now I will start treating every girl on a date as I treat this 36 year old woman who openly says that she will fuck me as soon as we are on my apartment, and that's why she will not go to my apartment, but we both know that she will.
And I'll start treating every girl regardless of whether or not she shows me how much she wants to fuck me or she seems sexual at all, I will treat them all like they are barely containing themselves
I will tease them about that and I will have more sexual dates, instead of very fun dates
