For guys who use indirect or situational openers, should you see it as a sign of compliance if she really puts in the effort to look for an answer?

[DaVinciMatrixStyle]

First, I favor indirect openers.

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Second, I go direct if she tends to go direct on me.

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So for guys who use indirect openers, or have experience using indirect openers. I have 2 questions for you from my recent experiences. When you go indirect and she seems really committed to whatever you ask, is it safe to see this as a form of compliance or interest? I ask this because depending on how she responds, I usually go direct or continue the convo.

I was traveling all day yesterday and noticed these small gaps of windows to initiate a conversation with a girl. Examples like switching trains, or getting covid tests waiting line, whatever. These were like 10 minute windows at max.

When I notice a girl, I instinctively ask like "Do you know which train to take for me to get to X?" or "What test is needed for X?"

Sometimes I genuinely do need it cause I'm flying to new countries or just to see how receptive she is.
Well yesterday, both times I did this, both girls were REAL serious about helping me.

A girl proceeded to look up on her phone for like 5-10 minutes to see what test I need and even though I kept telling her 'it's okay its okay I'll just ask' she kept looking it up until she found the answer. But when I tried to continue the convo and she was answering, she seemed to reply short until we actually had to get the test. (It was short time window like maybe 4 minutes)

Another girl I ask about which train to take to get to X and same response. She proceeds to be really committed to finding the answer for me and whatever.

Although I really did need help for the train, I found myself kind of dearing to see how much they were committed to helping me and both times we had to get moving due to unexpected results.

This is just a simple question but for guys who use indirect, did you find that girls were showing 'compliance' if you ask her for help? I attempted to escalate both times but when I continued either we had to get moving cause the train was arriving or because shot was getting involved.

I hope to continue experimenting with this style and asking for others' experiences.

 

[Zoro]

I'd say not really. Some girls are OCD and people pleasers.

The real test is compliance and escalation. No way to really know otherwise.

 

[DarkKnight]

In your case I also would say not really.. because you are asking for help and they are trying to be helpful.. can b3 just genuinely nice people.

If you had meant thst they are trying to continue convo and just help build the chemistey I would call that compliance.

 

[Zoro]

Here's a useful tip for indirect. Look out for approach invitations. If you see an invitation, that's a good sign. If you open and you also get a good response, another good sign. Ask for more compliance, more good signs and so on.

There's not really ONE sign that you can reliably say she's into you. Maybe if she's sucking your dick enthusiastically.