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Nighttime has arrived and you are heading off to the bars and clubs by yourself and sober after a long day of work. What is your process like?
What is the first thing you do once you enter the club?
How do you push your own buttons?
How do you avoid wallflowering (leaning on a wall or on the bar stool with your drink and waiting for a good opportunity or set to approach) and columning (standing in the middle of the dance floor like a fucking roman column with your dick in your hand) and endless zig-zagging (walking around the club too much looking for appoach opportunities)?
How long do you stay between interactions in average minutes?
How exactly do you minimize time between interactions?
What if your interactions go nowhere? (As in you talk to people but no social alliances were made and people just got back to their friends.)
What is your go-to open for approaching mixed sets?
In loud bars where people can barley hear you do you approach 2-sets and 3-sets by trying to hold court and talk to everyone, or you just talk to the girl you are interested in and eventually acknowledge the friends?
This one is a big one, but it is not being discussed because nobody wants to seem like a FAG:
What are your go-to openers for befriending dudes in the club?
What is the first thing you do once you enter the club?
Do you head of straight to the bar to order a non-alcoholic drink?
Do you talk to the first set you see?
Do you go straight to the bathroom?
etc.
What is your thought process like and more importantly what thought process do you use to stay out of your head?How do you push your own buttons?
How do you avoid wallflowering (leaning on a wall or on the bar stool with your drink and waiting for a good opportunity or set to approach) and columning (standing in the middle of the dance floor like a fucking roman column with your dick in your hand) and endless zig-zagging (walking around the club too much looking for appoach opportunities)?
How long do you stay between interactions in average minutes?
How exactly do you minimize time between interactions?
Do you just spam pre-openers as you walk around the club?
Shotgun open the venue when you first get in? (remember you just got there and you may not be in a super social mood yet)
What if your interactions go nowhere? (As in you talk to people but no social alliances were made and people just got back to their friends.)
What is your go-to open for approaching mixed sets?
In loud bars where people can barley hear you do you approach 2-sets and 3-sets by trying to hold court and talk to everyone, or you just talk to the girl you are interested in and eventually acknowledge the friends?
This one is a big one, but it is not being discussed because nobody wants to seem like a FAG:
What are your go-to openers for befriending dudes in the club?
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