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Don't look at a girl's body when you're trying to approach. Look only at her face. Chase mentions in one article (forgot which one), that most guys go crazy over a girl's body. But if you look at her face, you'll usually find its pretty plain. I experimented with this, and I realized just how right he is. I've noticed several times, especially at the gym when I see a cute girl with a really curvy body or a nice ass, I get that panicky anxious feeling that comes with AA. But when I'm out at night and all I can really see is a girl's face, that feeling is mostly non-existent. There are some exceptions of course (some girls have really cute faces too), but 90% of the time, when you pay attention only to her face, you'll notice that you're a lot less anxious.
Note: If you're still struggling with the approach and you still have so much AA that you can't even open girls yet, this in of itself won't be enough. There are some other mindset changes you might need to make and other actions you need to take. But if you're mostly over AA and it only gets you every once in a while, I think this might be of great use to you. In fact, I'm willing to bet that 90% of the times you choose not to approach, its cause she has a really nice bod and you were looking at it.
Note: If you're still struggling with the approach and you still have so much AA that you can't even open girls yet, this in of itself won't be enough. There are some other mindset changes you might need to make and other actions you need to take. But if you're mostly over AA and it only gets you every once in a while, I think this might be of great use to you. In fact, I'm willing to bet that 90% of the times you choose not to approach, its cause she has a really nice bod and you were looking at it.
