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So my parents took me to the Florida Keys. Key West has a melting pot of different visiting and local ethnic mixes from all over the world and is quite diverse. For some reason there's an abundance of Chinese women. Not men, though there are a few Chinese men, but women. I don't know why this is it just happens to be what the deal is. Btw Anatman if you're reading this, this is what you inspired. It happened the day after I read your report, just been too lazy to put it up.
The island I'm staying on is really fucking boring so I decided to catch a bus to the more upbeat and happening Key West which is the southernmost island in the Keys and also the southernmost point in the continental U.S. By the way this interaction took place over 3 hours so I'm just going to highlight the key areas for me to look back at.
NOTE: This is a long FR and somewhat boring I'm just writing this for me to look back on for personal reference. All you really need to know is I met a Chinese girl that liked me enough to follow my lead and let me escalate slowly but surely until we were passionately making out and in need of a seduction spot. Unfortunately neither of us had a place so the only options were to escalate in a bathroom or get a room. When I brought up us getting a room, playfully mind you, she wasn't down at all and kinda freaked a little (she was pretty conservative). So I lead her around, unbeknown to her, looking for a bathroom suitable to escalate in.
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So I get off the bus and literally the first girl I see is a pale, somewhat curvy (though not big breasted), Chinese girl in a nice dress who's looking down at a map looking helplessly lost. I go chat her up and find out that she's by herself and has nothing to do for the rest of the day and needs help getting to where she wants to go. We make friends fairly quickly and enjoy one another's company and I take the lead pretty quick and get her semi invested. We just walk and talk where I lead her by the small of her back and take her hand in key points of transition. We decide that it would be nice to go to the beach and relax in the sun so I take her down to where that is (a good 30-45 minute walk).
Half way there we get close to the "Southernmost Point In U.S.", a big tourist stop for everyone down here to take pictures at, and she requests that we go there to take pictures. I don't particularly wish to stand in line for 15 min. to get my picture taken at some tourist location but figure "wtf I'm just building a connection with this girl so why not talk while we're in line. So she's asking to go to this tourist location and I teach her the word "please". And then teach her the best way to ask for something in America "can we go to the tourist trap please Robert!" ... "good girl and yes we can
". We go to the tourist trap and I take her hand on the way and tell her "i'm the romantic type" and ask her what her views on romance are. We chat in line for a bit and give each other messages while we wait in line. She likes holding my hand.
We take picture and then go get coconuts to drink from the store. I feel a bit mischievous and decided it would be fun to sneak into a hotel resort and use their facilities to hang out on. We go in and blend in like we live there (so it wasn't all that exciting sneaking in ) and go sit at the end of their shaded pavilion at the end of the dock they have there. We talk and go on for a bit and at this point I know I need to make a move soon, but of course it never seems like the right time and I start deliberating. I start getting a semi lazy vibe going and kind of start half assing the interaction. This was a serious mistake on my part as the conversation got a bit stale and repetitive. I'm sure it was just an escalation window but I should've attacked the escalation window as it came up rather than deliberate it.
As a note this girl had the craziest cool eyes I've ever seen. Her eyes looked like an explosion of fiery orange and blue surrounding her pupil that was really quite mesmerizing, and they weren't contacts but her natural eye color. I've never seen anything like it. I told her to look at me and she did this funny burst of energy where she got super close to my face for 1 second looked me in the eye and then resumed back to where she was and doing what she was doing. This was really cute because it was a dead giveaway that she wanted me to make a move since she put her face so close to mine then took it away so quickly like she was ashamed of doing it. I told her to look at me again except this time for longer. We looked deep into each others eyes and I was examining hers as I inched closer and closer to her face with her submitting completely. I lightly grabbed her face and started kissing her and then pulled back. She then initiated the next kiss and put some tongue down my throat so I reciprocated and we made out for a second. I then put her on my lap and start feeling up her whole body in the middle of this pier thing. At this point I know I need to lead to sex. Of course we both don't live there so we don't have a room to stay at. It's bright daylight so it would be hard to go have sex in the bushes or an alleyway without being easily detected so I'm thinking the best option would be to either rent a room for an hour or bathroom sex (which isn't necessarily something I wish to partake in but will if I'm forced.
So I take her hand and lead her out of the hotel and we start walking halfway down some street and take her in my arms and makeout with her in the middle of the street groping her and she likes it. I say "the way were behaving we need a room" halfway seeing if she agrees and to see if it would be a good idea to go to the next motel at the end of the street. She's pretty inexperienced by the looks/sounds of it and has only had a boyfriend or 2 and I don't believe has ever had a ONS.. or ODS in this case. She sort of freaks here and is like about to leave after I say this and I just stay calm and say "we don't have to but you're leaving in one hour and then we'll never see each other again" she looks at me and is like yeah your right. So she comes and grabs my hand and we continue walking. Smartly I don't question her decision to not want to get a room or pester her about it but just keep walking like nothing happened. At this point I deem it wise not to bring up the fact we both want each other and just imply it. I also deem it wise to just lead her to a bathroom and try and escalate there. So we keep walking.. and walking.... and walking.. and not finding a suitiable bathroom that we can be alone in without a huge turnover of people coming in and out. I'm starting to get a little tired of this and start getting in my head a little and stop conversing.
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I know there is one place in the opposite direction of which we just came that has a bathroom for one that can be locked for complete privacy so I then I lead her in that direction. Here I feel like I should have been a better manager of emotions since the vibe was semi dying out, although she didn't want to let go of my hand for the life of me. I think I should've tried to inject more emotions of desire and arousal to the point it would break through her resistance and let her enjoy her self and the pleasures she desired. So we get to the place with the bathroom and I ask "do you trust me?" as we walk by the place. She says yes and I lead her to the back where the restroom is and notice she looks a little uneasy. I say I just wanted to show her the people working on the house that you can see if you look through the fence there. She looks through the fence and is a excited to see the people working (lol this girl is so cute in the emotions she displays for such boring things, she was so excited to get her picture taken next to the southernmost point tourist thing earlier). I then look at her crazy eyes and hold her and passionately make out with her and push her into the wall with the bathroom door right beside us. She gets turned on and I feel up her whole body while we take turns shoving our tongues down one another's throat (that's kind of a gross way to put it but whateves). I then take her hand and try and lead her into the bathroom, that looks particularly dark, old, and scary even with the dim light turned on (though I think it would've been more hot with that ambiance) and she cries out "No! I can't!". She then tells me how she really wants and likes me but how she's going to regret it afterwards and therefore can't make up her mind. I try and talk with her for a little but soon decide to get back on the street because she was getting all riled up. We walk and talk and I walk her back to where she needs to go and bid her farewell.
Here's where my questions lie.
I wonder if I would have had a more passionate enjoying (fun in the sense of enjoying life and it's moments to the fullest) in the moment vibe if she would've just left aside any thoughts (due to me inspiring youth and freedom along with not being in her head) of me/her judging her and just went along with what she wanted to do?
Could it be possible, since she's from China (being that China is pretty conservative culture) and young she doesn't have the reference points or beliefs to realize that it's okay to have a ONS and still respect yourself. I had a big feeling this was this issue at heart here since she'd never had a ONS (to my knowledge as she seemed pretty inexperienced and naïve but then again I am too) and maybe doing it with someone she only met a couple hours ago in a public bathroom that looked sketchy may not have been a little too much for her. She also admitted she wanted to fuck me but didn't want to regret it afterwards in which I couldn't find a way to convince her otherwise that I wouldn't judge her for giving in to her desires.
Perhaps I came off judgmental?
All in all I wish I would've moved faster altogether and been more alert in my interaction to capitalize better on escalation windows and dive deeper in conversation to form a better connection.
I recorded the first 10 minutes of the interaction on my handy smandy voice recorder that I use to record my openings with and it seemed like I wasn't putting 100% in to this interaction from the start. I also wasn't enjoying myself completely, which is something I would more or less prefer to be doing... at all times. So my vibe was definitely off in the beginning (my fault) but I did try and do this, so I'm proud of myself for initiating and leading to potential sex.
-Rob
The island I'm staying on is really fucking boring so I decided to catch a bus to the more upbeat and happening Key West which is the southernmost island in the Keys and also the southernmost point in the continental U.S. By the way this interaction took place over 3 hours so I'm just going to highlight the key areas for me to look back at.
NOTE: This is a long FR and somewhat boring I'm just writing this for me to look back on for personal reference. All you really need to know is I met a Chinese girl that liked me enough to follow my lead and let me escalate slowly but surely until we were passionately making out and in need of a seduction spot. Unfortunately neither of us had a place so the only options were to escalate in a bathroom or get a room. When I brought up us getting a room, playfully mind you, she wasn't down at all and kinda freaked a little (she was pretty conservative). So I lead her around, unbeknown to her, looking for a bathroom suitable to escalate in.
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So I get off the bus and literally the first girl I see is a pale, somewhat curvy (though not big breasted), Chinese girl in a nice dress who's looking down at a map looking helplessly lost. I go chat her up and find out that she's by herself and has nothing to do for the rest of the day and needs help getting to where she wants to go. We make friends fairly quickly and enjoy one another's company and I take the lead pretty quick and get her semi invested. We just walk and talk where I lead her by the small of her back and take her hand in key points of transition. We decide that it would be nice to go to the beach and relax in the sun so I take her down to where that is (a good 30-45 minute walk).
Half way there we get close to the "Southernmost Point In U.S.", a big tourist stop for everyone down here to take pictures at, and she requests that we go there to take pictures. I don't particularly wish to stand in line for 15 min. to get my picture taken at some tourist location but figure "wtf I'm just building a connection with this girl so why not talk while we're in line. So she's asking to go to this tourist location and I teach her the word "please". And then teach her the best way to ask for something in America "can we go to the tourist trap please Robert!" ... "good girl and yes we can
". We go to the tourist trap and I take her hand on the way and tell her "i'm the romantic type" and ask her what her views on romance are. We chat in line for a bit and give each other messages while we wait in line. She likes holding my hand. We take picture and then go get coconuts to drink from the store. I feel a bit mischievous and decided it would be fun to sneak into a hotel resort and use their facilities to hang out on. We go in and blend in like we live there (so it wasn't all that exciting sneaking in
) and go sit at the end of their shaded pavilion at the end of the dock they have there. We talk and go on for a bit and at this point I know I need to make a move soon, but of course it never seems like the right time and I start deliberating. I start getting a semi lazy vibe going and kind of start half assing the interaction. This was a serious mistake on my part as the conversation got a bit stale and repetitive. I'm sure it was just an escalation window but I should've attacked the escalation window as it came up rather than deliberate it. As a note this girl had the craziest cool eyes I've ever seen. Her eyes looked like an explosion of fiery orange and blue surrounding her pupil that was really quite mesmerizing, and they weren't contacts but her natural eye color. I've never seen anything like it. I told her to look at me and she did this funny burst of energy where she got super close to my face for 1 second looked me in the eye and then resumed back to where she was and doing what she was doing. This was really cute because it was a dead giveaway that she wanted me to make a move since she put her face so close to mine then took it away so quickly like she was ashamed of doing it. I told her to look at me again except this time for longer. We looked deep into each others eyes and I was examining hers as I inched closer and closer to her face with her submitting completely. I lightly grabbed her face and started kissing her and then pulled back. She then initiated the next kiss and put some tongue down my throat so I reciprocated and we made out for a second. I then put her on my lap and start feeling up her whole body in the middle of this pier thing. At this point I know I need to lead to sex. Of course we both don't live there so we don't have a room to stay at. It's bright daylight so it would be hard to go have sex in the bushes or an alleyway without being easily detected so I'm thinking the best option would be to either rent a room for an hour or bathroom sex (which isn't necessarily something I wish to partake in but will if I'm forced.
So I take her hand and lead her out of the hotel and we start walking halfway down some street and take her in my arms and makeout with her in the middle of the street groping her and she likes it. I say "the way were behaving we need a room" halfway seeing if she agrees and to see if it would be a good idea to go to the next motel at the end of the street. She's pretty inexperienced by the looks/sounds of it and has only had a boyfriend or 2 and I don't believe has ever had a ONS.. or ODS in this case. She sort of freaks here and is like about to leave after I say this and I just stay calm and say "we don't have to but you're leaving in one hour and then we'll never see each other again" she looks at me and is like yeah your right. So she comes and grabs my hand and we continue walking. Smartly I don't question her decision to not want to get a room or pester her about it but just keep walking like nothing happened. At this point I deem it wise not to bring up the fact we both want each other and just imply it. I also deem it wise to just lead her to a bathroom and try and escalate there. So we keep walking.. and walking.... and walking.. and not finding a suitiable bathroom that we can be alone in without a huge turnover of people coming in and out. I'm starting to get a little tired of this and start getting in my head a little and stop conversing.
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I know there is one place in the opposite direction of which we just came that has a bathroom for one that can be locked for complete privacy so I then I lead her in that direction. Here I feel like I should have been a better manager of emotions since the vibe was semi dying out, although she didn't want to let go of my hand for the life of me. I think I should've tried to inject more emotions of desire and arousal to the point it would break through her resistance and let her enjoy her self and the pleasures she desired. So we get to the place with the bathroom and I ask "do you trust me?" as we walk by the place. She says yes and I lead her to the back where the restroom is and notice she looks a little uneasy. I say I just wanted to show her the people working on the house that you can see if you look through the fence there. She looks through the fence and is a excited to see the people working (lol this girl is so cute in the emotions she displays for such boring things, she was so excited to get her picture taken next to the southernmost point tourist thing earlier). I then look at her crazy eyes and hold her and passionately make out with her and push her into the wall with the bathroom door right beside us. She gets turned on and I feel up her whole body while we take turns shoving our tongues down one another's throat (that's kind of a gross way to put it but whateves). I then take her hand and try and lead her into the bathroom, that looks particularly dark, old, and scary even with the dim light turned on (though I think it would've been more hot with that ambiance) and she cries out "No! I can't!". She then tells me how she really wants and likes me but how she's going to regret it afterwards and therefore can't make up her mind. I try and talk with her for a little but soon decide to get back on the street because she was getting all riled up. We walk and talk and I walk her back to where she needs to go and bid her farewell.
Here's where my questions lie.
I wonder if I would have had a more passionate enjoying (fun in the sense of enjoying life and it's moments to the fullest) in the moment vibe if she would've just left aside any thoughts (due to me inspiring youth and freedom along with not being in her head) of me/her judging her and just went along with what she wanted to do?
Could it be possible, since she's from China (being that China is pretty conservative culture) and young she doesn't have the reference points or beliefs to realize that it's okay to have a ONS and still respect yourself. I had a big feeling this was this issue at heart here since she'd never had a ONS (to my knowledge as she seemed pretty inexperienced and naïve but then again I am too) and maybe doing it with someone she only met a couple hours ago in a public bathroom that looked sketchy may not have been a little too much for her. She also admitted she wanted to fuck me but didn't want to regret it afterwards in which I couldn't find a way to convince her otherwise that I wouldn't judge her for giving in to her desires.
Perhaps I came off judgmental?
All in all I wish I would've moved faster altogether and been more alert in my interaction to capitalize better on escalation windows and dive deeper in conversation to form a better connection.
I recorded the first 10 minutes of the interaction on my handy smandy voice recorder that I use to record my openings with and it seemed like I wasn't putting 100% in to this interaction from the start. I also wasn't enjoying myself completely, which is something I would more or less prefer to be doing... at all times. So my vibe was definitely off in the beginning (my fault) but I did try and do this, so I'm proud of myself for initiating and leading to potential sex.
-Rob
