this is a very recent but pre-gc story in my favorite bar/club
2 foreign students on their last day on holiday here, i liked one of them. my friend went to them to have a chat, basically broke the ice then my other friend went there to speak to the other one. later i went there to join the conversation as i was bored and had approach anxiety to go to other girls.
- had a few glances before friend went there - no approach due to anxiety (ahh im having convo with the guys)
... after joining them:
- introduction: check
- state of intention: acted without intention, didnt want to take her home
- small talk: check
- transition to deep dive: didnt know about it then but convo was fine
- moving girl: didnt know about it but i did it a few times (it felt natural)
- physical escalation: was pretty natural, e.g. she put my hands on her hip then almost on her breasts, showed her muscles, touch of legs & stuff
- natural number swap/arranging date: made no sense
*** picard facepalm-prize section:
- i was kind of tired so told "we should go home soon" - i honestly meant it but she replied:
- it wont happen (?!?!??!?!)
that was when i felt something is really going on and i should do something
- bit later told her come home with me, reply:
- well, i dont know... talk to my friend // i think basically she was in and probably a 3/4some would have been even more obvious.
didnt talk to her friend and/or persisted and i think this was the point when she started getting into auto-rejection
- she sat next to me, very close, some cockblocker guys came out of blue trying to snatch the girl while his friend was talking to me but she stayed with me // should have politely sent them to hell and/or move the girl away
- later some guys from their own country came and she left speaking to them. she gave up, i let her down, never came back. thinking back i completely understand her.
some conclusions:
- acted without intent and when i realized i should have made a move still didnt do anything. basically i let a sure situation slip out of my hand
- persistence until she leaves is absolute must along with a full pool of willpower
- cockblockers who try to steal your girl are the saddest people on earth, i feel pity for them
2 foreign students on their last day on holiday here, i liked one of them. my friend went to them to have a chat, basically broke the ice then my other friend went there to speak to the other one. later i went there to join the conversation as i was bored and had approach anxiety to go to other girls.
- had a few glances before friend went there - no approach due to anxiety (ahh im having convo with the guys)
... after joining them:
- introduction: check
- state of intention: acted without intention, didnt want to take her home
- small talk: check
- transition to deep dive: didnt know about it then but convo was fine
- moving girl: didnt know about it but i did it a few times (it felt natural)
- physical escalation: was pretty natural, e.g. she put my hands on her hip then almost on her breasts, showed her muscles, touch of legs & stuff
- natural number swap/arranging date: made no sense
*** picard facepalm-prize section:
- i was kind of tired so told "we should go home soon" - i honestly meant it but she replied:
- it wont happen (?!?!??!?!)
that was when i felt something is really going on and i should do something
- bit later told her come home with me, reply:
- well, i dont know... talk to my friend // i think basically she was in and probably a 3/4some would have been even more obvious.
didnt talk to her friend and/or persisted and i think this was the point when she started getting into auto-rejection
- she sat next to me, very close, some cockblocker guys came out of blue trying to snatch the girl while his friend was talking to me but she stayed with me // should have politely sent them to hell and/or move the girl away
- later some guys from their own country came and she left speaking to them. she gave up, i let her down, never came back. thinking back i completely understand her.
some conclusions:
- acted without intent and when i realized i should have made a move still didnt do anything. basically i let a sure situation slip out of my hand
- persistence until she leaves is absolute must along with a full pool of willpower
- cockblockers who try to steal your girl are the saddest people on earth, i feel pity for them
