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[Anonymous]

I popped my pick up cherry today! I went with a friend and started talking to girls but as I realize, the approach anxiety really screwed me over on talking to some girls but having a wingman kinda eased it. Even though I only talked to 5 girls I got 2 numbers, don't know if they're real or fake but I got them. My biggest fear is just the approach and thinking I'll run out of things to say or even getting flat out rejected it kills me to think if I wasn't so much of a pick I probably could've done more but idk...

 

[Trilogy]

Hey Lambardi, congrats on getting out there and interacting with some girls and breaking through the approach anxiety. That's a key thing and it will diminish over time, eventually it will disappear altogether, rejection however is just something you'll have to get over, it's gonna happen. But like you've shown yourself today, some girls will say yes and others will say no. The things to remember is keep moving forward, good luck and welcome aboard!

 

[AFCnoob]

Great job getting out there and approaching some girls! Soon enough you'll get used to it--rejection or otherwise. Once you have a really good interaction, I think you'll start to feel a lot better about it. There are also tons of great posts on the Girlschase blog that have all kinds of great advice from how to set yourself up for the best reaction when approaching girls (dress, attitude, body language etc.) to easy ways to open an interaction with a girl. If you put some of those things into practice (preferably all of them) you are almost certain to see results, in my opinion.

Also, it's totally up to you, but when people put details about their interactions--the specific way they approach a girl, sometimes even the things they say--a lot of the guys here are happy to troubleshoot your methods, and perhaps offer some helpful advice. Again, glad to see you goin at it. Keep at it, man.