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Whizzy

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Tonight I had a small get together planned and I asked a girl I was talking to online if she wanted to come. She agreed if her friend came, I said of course (her friend can hangout with my friends mainly). We ended up playing cards against humanity most of the time, and while they loved my friends (extremely goofy and outgoing) I had very little alone time with the girl I wanted to see. I ended up texting her that we should go for a walk and chat for a bit, which she agreed to. Long story short we ended up walking around my campus chatting (it was freezing which didn't help). When we reached a "shortcut" she didnt want to walk in the snow in heels so I offered to carry her, but when we got about halfway through I joked that I was going to drop her. I even went as far as to bend down a little bit, to which she hugged me closely and I kissed her. It was brief as she said she had never kissed anyone and I faked shock to tease her a little. When we were heading back to my dorm, holding hands now, I tried to kiss her again to which she said that she wasn't ready. I gave her a sexy grin and we kept walking holding hands, during which I found out she had never had a boyfriend either. I then deep dived her a bit and found out that she is extremely religious and joked that if she could convert me it would be an accomplishment (I neither believe or disbelieve). Upon reaching the door of my suite I twirled her around to try kissing her again, but she immediately replied that she wasn't ready. I reacted the same as last time (I should have pulled her in further when she declined, looking back) then re-entered the suite. My friends and her friends where still playing cards against humanity and we ended up playing that for the remainder of the time they stayed. This left little to no personal interaction time between the two of us and after I walked them to their car (why not I enjoy the starry nights) she says that she'll talk to me later. Any input on how I could have improved this interaction? If her friend wasn't with her then the whole scenario would have been significantly easier, but either way I could use some advice for improvement.

P.S. After they left I texted her "It was nice meeting you guys and I'll keep the kiss a secret ;)"
 
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Whizzy

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Update: She sent me the following lengthy text last night
The kiss Saturday night made me very uncomfortable and I felt like I was forced into it. My first kiss was something I wanted to hold off for the perfectly right time and for the right person. The face that you kissed me without warning AND it being our first hangout, not even a date, was inconsiderate of my feelings. I told you I didn't want to date you (this is my first time hearing that), yet you kissed me without warning. I feel disrespected and almost violated. Long story short I dont think we should hangout again and I thought it would be rude to just stop talking to you so I decided to send you this message telling you why.


So needless to say I am highly confused at this point
 
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