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This is an interesting topic, because of the amount of guys that find themselves friend-zoned and ask more experienced players in the game how to save it. The main reason that this is never recommended is because of the attachment that comes with friendship and the platonic barrier placed between you and the girl. I managed to break in past that barrier earlier today, and I'd like to share that experience with the forum so that it can be analyzed thoroughly by my peers. With that said, onward to the good part. 
Location: Coffee-shop, My place (only me and her)
Girl: Savannah, pretty girl with a normal, but nicely curved body, and a stunning fashion sense, flirted with, then was friend-zoned for about a year, lost touch about two months ago, met again by chance the other day, 7/10
Alright, so, once upon a time at about 3 pm this afternoon, an old platonic female friend sent a text my way asking if I wanted to go to a party with her, as was our frequent practice when we were closer. I was open to the idea, hoping to meet some new women to get my mind off of one who was really throwing me off my game lately (see my post "Thespian Thorn In My Side"). I fixed myself up and the like and (of course ;p) read some insights while I waited for her to get to my house (she's usually the DD, because she has too low tolerance to party hard and be active in classes the next day.) She arrived at around 7, so I headed on out and hopped in her car.
I greeted her warmly and we started catching up, joking about old times and all that, however on our way we received word that there were some people we had some 'bad blood' with at the party we were about to go to. It put us in a rough position, but it should be noted that this angle put us in a convenient us vs. them situation. We needed some time to think it over, so I suggested a cup of coffee at our favorite cafe, being that we both have an avid caffeine addiction. We arrived and she payed for my coffee before I could get my wallet out, which I would attribute to the amount of synchronicity involved in our reuniting, she was surely happy to see me. I walked outside and she followed me to a somewhat secluded table with a nice looking garden decorating the area around it.
At this point I had begun thinking of ways to turn this into more than just an old friends meetup. We sat and talked for a bit concerning the party, but got sidetracked when she asked about how I fell off the radar for a while. I told her that I was just being a hermit for a bit, re-evaluating some spiritual aspects of my life, (also, this is my explanation for my inactivity in the forum, sorry about that, Chase) and I got her talking about some spiritual things and how strange it was that we saw each other again the way we did, and she began to talk about her interest in eastern philosophy lately. We never discussed spirituality much before, so I saw it as a chance to deep dive about a new topic, which was a lucky break, so I took it, and got her very interested in my views on the subject, since she was seeking some guidance it seemed. I told her I had some books she could borrow back at my apartment, so we ended up not going to the party. I figured could check out this opportunity to turn the tables on a girl I had previously been chasing, and go out looking for new girls another time soon.
We arrived back at my apartment, and my roommate had left for a family new year's gathering. I was showing her the books in question and I took a little bit to get her talking about tantric principles, which provided some nice sexual frame, for those of you who know a bit about tantra haha. I moved the conversation to a movie about some spiritual stuff, and I put it on so she could watch it, but it happened to be pretty boring documentary about the history of Buddhism, but not the actual teachings, and she began to lose interest in the movie (totally didn't plan this or anything *wink, wink*). I had gotten pretty comfortable, and we made some pretty intense eye contact, while her legs were turned away from the tv, toward me. Without saying anything, I moved closer and kissed her softly, and we looked into each other's eyes for about a half-second, then I gradually escalated to her shaking in anticipation. We lay down on my couch and I softly worked my magic, which lead her to satisfaction three times during our exchange. I finally finished up and she laid with me for some time until we decided we needed a smoke, and another cup of coffee. We sat on my small balcony and sat with my arm around her quietly with a smile on our faces for a while before she realized the time at about 10 pm, so we said our goodbyes and agreed to make plans again soon, which I aim to set up sometime week after next to keep things casual. This was a very interesting one indeed, and it gave me some vital insight.
Location: Coffee-shop, My place (only me and her)
Girl: Savannah, pretty girl with a normal, but nicely curved body, and a stunning fashion sense, flirted with, then was friend-zoned for about a year, lost touch about two months ago, met again by chance the other day, 7/10
Alright, so, once upon a time at about 3 pm this afternoon, an old platonic female friend sent a text my way asking if I wanted to go to a party with her, as was our frequent practice when we were closer. I was open to the idea, hoping to meet some new women to get my mind off of one who was really throwing me off my game lately (see my post "Thespian Thorn In My Side"). I fixed myself up and the like and (of course ;p) read some insights while I waited for her to get to my house (she's usually the DD, because she has too low tolerance to party hard and be active in classes the next day.) She arrived at around 7, so I headed on out and hopped in her car.
I greeted her warmly and we started catching up, joking about old times and all that, however on our way we received word that there were some people we had some 'bad blood' with at the party we were about to go to. It put us in a rough position, but it should be noted that this angle put us in a convenient us vs. them situation. We needed some time to think it over, so I suggested a cup of coffee at our favorite cafe, being that we both have an avid caffeine addiction. We arrived and she payed for my coffee before I could get my wallet out, which I would attribute to the amount of synchronicity involved in our reuniting, she was surely happy to see me. I walked outside and she followed me to a somewhat secluded table with a nice looking garden decorating the area around it.
At this point I had begun thinking of ways to turn this into more than just an old friends meetup. We sat and talked for a bit concerning the party, but got sidetracked when she asked about how I fell off the radar for a while. I told her that I was just being a hermit for a bit, re-evaluating some spiritual aspects of my life, (also, this is my explanation for my inactivity in the forum, sorry about that, Chase) and I got her talking about some spiritual things and how strange it was that we saw each other again the way we did, and she began to talk about her interest in eastern philosophy lately. We never discussed spirituality much before, so I saw it as a chance to deep dive about a new topic, which was a lucky break, so I took it, and got her very interested in my views on the subject, since she was seeking some guidance it seemed. I told her I had some books she could borrow back at my apartment, so we ended up not going to the party. I figured could check out this opportunity to turn the tables on a girl I had previously been chasing, and go out looking for new girls another time soon.
We arrived back at my apartment, and my roommate had left for a family new year's gathering. I was showing her the books in question and I took a little bit to get her talking about tantric principles, which provided some nice sexual frame, for those of you who know a bit about tantra haha. I moved the conversation to a movie about some spiritual stuff, and I put it on so she could watch it, but it happened to be pretty boring documentary about the history of Buddhism, but not the actual teachings, and she began to lose interest in the movie (totally didn't plan this or anything *wink, wink*). I had gotten pretty comfortable, and we made some pretty intense eye contact, while her legs were turned away from the tv, toward me. Without saying anything, I moved closer and kissed her softly, and we looked into each other's eyes for about a half-second, then I gradually escalated to her shaking in anticipation. We lay down on my couch and I softly worked my magic, which lead her to satisfaction three times during our exchange. I finally finished up and she laid with me for some time until we decided we needed a smoke, and another cup of coffee. We sat on my small balcony and sat with my arm around her quietly with a smile on our faces for a while before she realized the time at about 10 pm, so we said our goodbyes and agreed to make plans again soon, which I aim to set up sometime week after next to keep things casual. This was a very interesting one indeed, and it gave me some vital insight.
