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Hi,
I'll be writing about my latest lay from online dating. I would like to share my experience and a routine which I applied with 4/5 success since I got out of a relationship(with one of them I just got tired and sleepy and decided it was not worth my time).
I met this girl on Bumble, brunette, 174, 21 years old, student, future architect. Let's call her T.
T: Hei
Me: Hello, party
T: Party?
))
Me: You have pictures just from parties *laughing emojis*
T: That's not true *laughing emojis* //she has just a few, not so much
Me: That's not true, but I don't see any bookmark over there *laughing emojis*
Me: Let's talk on insta
T: her_insta
Often, I move the discussion on instagram/whatsapp because I can see more of herself, more topic discussions, more photo to see wheter I like her or not and it's somehow changing the vibe. She already made the first move, so I take the lead and move her in another place.
On instagram, she s actually quite investing into discussion. Nowadays I'm not staying with the phone in my hand all the time and very often I just read the message and left it on read. She saw this and told me "What a beautiful seen you left me". I just laugh at it, making some jokes, and if it happens and she tells me again, I m just saying that I can't always respond, but I will, so she ll not get into autorejection.
I used the horoscop as a topic, we have a compatibility, we talk about "us" straight from beggining. We talk for about a week. I don't usually do this, just for 2 max 3 days + date depending on how s the conversation. She was not in town and I didn't want to ride 80km.
Date night. My approach.
I have a motorcycle. This helps me so much with logistics and a few other. When we first met, I'm waiting her, with the second helmet. She came, I'm instructing how on how to use it, how to stay, what her position should be. I'm already in an authoritive state right now and she follows me. I usually go in a park, about 8-10km far away so we can ride some km.
We re already touching because of the ride, and the semaphores I'm asking how she is, how she feels. Most of the time it's "this is great! I want more" and sometimes "Can you please go slower? I'm scared". I always make sure that she feels safe with me. When we stop in traffic, I'm touching her outer leg when we're talking and her hand when we're going, somehow to assure her that everything's ok (and also to make sure that she's still aready there ngl).
When we arrive, I'm always instructing her to get off just when I said so(safer) and also authoritive state.
Going for a walk. It's 9:45 pm, night, a little cold outside. All I'm feeling when I'm riding is "Man, I love so much this feeling. After a hard work day, riding my moto, with a girl on my back, feeling those horspowers." And it's true. So much fun for me. So when we actually start talking, I already have a good vibe and she can feel me strong and positive.
We talk about school and her passion for architecture, psychology, people, relationship and focus more on her oppinions and also share my theories about different things. Almost for the whole dates, I'm teasing her, laugh + touch + push.
We chill a little bit on a bench, strong eye contact, going for the kiss, she's very open to it. We do it a few times, I'm almost always stopping it first.
I already discussed with her that I'll be hungry so I would want something to eat. She said she has something prepared at home or she can make a meal. Already big compliance. This is one of the most compliant till now. She also offered to help me with my work.
At the end, we went to her place, eat, and she's staying with crossed arms, seeing something's it's a little bit off, but didn't change something for me internally. I was just enjoying a feminine presence and focusing on opening her. Talked about her work, went to a room where it was a bed.
We start making out. After a few seconds:
Her: "No"
Me: "No what?"
Her: "We're not doing that."
Me: "Doing what?"
Her: "We're not fucking. I'm not doing that if we're not in a relationship."
Me: "Wait, do you think I'm for this here?"
Her: "Well, yeah, somehow."
Me: "I'm here because I like spending time with you. It's fun. I don't think about sex." And I was meaning it. Spending time with a woman is fun.
Her: "Are you dissapointed?"
Me: "For what?"
Her: "Because I said we're not fucking?"
Me: "What? Why should I be dissapointed? Be seriouss *her name*"
We talk a little bit more, and then started to escalate again, better with each try.
At this moment, a part of was like "she's just 21. I didn't date somebody this age in a long time", but the other part was "I'm just doing my job here".
We hugged for a few moments, after that I started again, procedding to feel her tits in my hands. Most of the times I just imobilize her hand with one and and with the other I'm al over her body, neck, tits, ass while kissing her. She's stopping me again.
We repeat this cycle for about 3-4-5 times.
Her: "I don't know you. I don't know what do you want."
You: "What do you mean?"
Her: "I just don't know"
I don't remember exactly what I said here.
Me: "Hei, I'm not doing anything. I just do what I feel, and you should do the same. It's ok".
We hugged again, take a pause, talking, and then again.
I started again, she was resisting somehow, but very wet, I could feel her even if with her pants.
I m near her, aside, on her left hand, so she can't use it very much. With my right hand, I lock her both hands, imobilize her both legs with mine and start getting into her pants. She somehow resisted, was like "no" but in a little aggresive way, altough not 100% no, but enjoying so much, I backed up a few seconds and then full into untill I reach her very wet pussy and start rubbing her. From that point, she stopped resisting.
Before I went 110% aggresive on her, I stopped for a moment because she said we could go to my place. My place is a total mess right know(I should be more careful with this) and was thinking what solution do I have.
She saw I started thinking and her reply was "What happened? A few moments ago you were so hard and now you're thinking whether your place is clean enough." I took is a challenge. Ain't no chick is telling me this. My response was me locking her body and getting into her pants.
What I did next is use of dirty talking. I'm a big fan of "If you want her to have sex with you, firstly she must have sex with you in her mind."
I started telling her how I would want to fuck her, hard, how should my dick feel in her wet pussy. I started to tell her I would like her to suck my dick, to put it in her mouth and more on. Just feeling the moment. Also getting the feedback like "Would you like that?" And she was "Yes, I want it."
For the almost all part, I was totally dominating her, holding her neck.
She get up, we're making out in a more vertical position. I'm getting her by neck again, feeling my hand so strong, and start giving her commands like "Take down my pants, get it out"
She put in in her mouth and from that point we're just some animalistics scenes, all in silence because her colleague was next to us so we had to move all in the kitchen. The kitchen was her idea.
I slept at her home, 4h, get out with a headache, mostly from dehidratation and went home to prepare for work.
She wants to see me again.
If anybody has some advices, questions or want to add something, I'm open to it.
Have a great day,
Alpha13S
I'll be writing about my latest lay from online dating. I would like to share my experience and a routine which I applied with 4/5 success since I got out of a relationship(with one of them I just got tired and sleepy and decided it was not worth my time).
I met this girl on Bumble, brunette, 174, 21 years old, student, future architect. Let's call her T.
T: Hei
Me: Hello, party
T: Party?
))Me: You have pictures just from parties *laughing emojis*
T: That's not true *laughing emojis* //she has just a few, not so much
Me: That's not true, but I don't see any bookmark over there *laughing emojis*
Me: Let's talk on insta
T: her_insta
Often, I move the discussion on instagram/whatsapp because I can see more of herself, more topic discussions, more photo to see wheter I like her or not and it's somehow changing the vibe. She already made the first move, so I take the lead and move her in another place.
On instagram, she s actually quite investing into discussion. Nowadays I'm not staying with the phone in my hand all the time and very often I just read the message and left it on read. She saw this and told me "What a beautiful seen you left me". I just laugh at it, making some jokes, and if it happens and she tells me again, I m just saying that I can't always respond, but I will, so she ll not get into autorejection.
I used the horoscop as a topic, we have a compatibility, we talk about "us" straight from beggining. We talk for about a week. I don't usually do this, just for 2 max 3 days + date depending on how s the conversation. She was not in town and I didn't want to ride 80km.
Date night. My approach.
I have a motorcycle. This helps me so much with logistics and a few other. When we first met, I'm waiting her, with the second helmet. She came, I'm instructing how on how to use it, how to stay, what her position should be. I'm already in an authoritive state right now and she follows me. I usually go in a park, about 8-10km far away so we can ride some km.
We re already touching because of the ride, and the semaphores I'm asking how she is, how she feels. Most of the time it's "this is great! I want more" and sometimes "Can you please go slower? I'm scared". I always make sure that she feels safe with me. When we stop in traffic, I'm touching her outer leg when we're talking and her hand when we're going, somehow to assure her that everything's ok (and also to make sure that she's still aready there ngl).
When we arrive, I'm always instructing her to get off just when I said so(safer) and also authoritive state.
Going for a walk. It's 9:45 pm, night, a little cold outside. All I'm feeling when I'm riding is "Man, I love so much this feeling. After a hard work day, riding my moto, with a girl on my back, feeling those horspowers." And it's true. So much fun for me. So when we actually start talking, I already have a good vibe and she can feel me strong and positive.
We talk about school and her passion for architecture, psychology, people, relationship and focus more on her oppinions and also share my theories about different things. Almost for the whole dates, I'm teasing her, laugh + touch + push.
We chill a little bit on a bench, strong eye contact, going for the kiss, she's very open to it. We do it a few times, I'm almost always stopping it first.
I already discussed with her that I'll be hungry so I would want something to eat. She said she has something prepared at home or she can make a meal. Already big compliance. This is one of the most compliant till now. She also offered to help me with my work.
At the end, we went to her place, eat, and she's staying with crossed arms, seeing something's it's a little bit off, but didn't change something for me internally. I was just enjoying a feminine presence and focusing on opening her. Talked about her work, went to a room where it was a bed.
We start making out. After a few seconds:
Her: "No"
Me: "No what?"
Her: "We're not doing that."
Me: "Doing what?"
Her: "We're not fucking. I'm not doing that if we're not in a relationship."
Me: "Wait, do you think I'm for this here?"
Her: "Well, yeah, somehow."
Me: "I'm here because I like spending time with you. It's fun. I don't think about sex." And I was meaning it. Spending time with a woman is fun.
Her: "Are you dissapointed?"
Me: "For what?"
Her: "Because I said we're not fucking?"
Me: "What? Why should I be dissapointed? Be seriouss *her name*"
We talk a little bit more, and then started to escalate again, better with each try.
At this moment, a part of was like "she's just 21. I didn't date somebody this age in a long time", but the other part was "I'm just doing my job here".
We hugged for a few moments, after that I started again, procedding to feel her tits in my hands. Most of the times I just imobilize her hand with one and and with the other I'm al over her body, neck, tits, ass while kissing her. She's stopping me again.
We repeat this cycle for about 3-4-5 times.
Her: "I don't know you. I don't know what do you want."
You: "What do you mean?"
Her: "I just don't know"
I don't remember exactly what I said here.
Me: "Hei, I'm not doing anything. I just do what I feel, and you should do the same. It's ok".
We hugged again, take a pause, talking, and then again.
I started again, she was resisting somehow, but very wet, I could feel her even if with her pants.
I m near her, aside, on her left hand, so she can't use it very much. With my right hand, I lock her both hands, imobilize her both legs with mine and start getting into her pants. She somehow resisted, was like "no" but in a little aggresive way, altough not 100% no, but enjoying so much, I backed up a few seconds and then full into untill I reach her very wet pussy and start rubbing her. From that point, she stopped resisting.
Before I went 110% aggresive on her, I stopped for a moment because she said we could go to my place. My place is a total mess right know(I should be more careful with this) and was thinking what solution do I have.
She saw I started thinking and her reply was "What happened? A few moments ago you were so hard and now you're thinking whether your place is clean enough." I took is a challenge. Ain't no chick is telling me this. My response was me locking her body and getting into her pants.
What I did next is use of dirty talking. I'm a big fan of "If you want her to have sex with you, firstly she must have sex with you in her mind."
I started telling her how I would want to fuck her, hard, how should my dick feel in her wet pussy. I started to tell her I would like her to suck my dick, to put it in her mouth and more on. Just feeling the moment. Also getting the feedback like "Would you like that?" And she was "Yes, I want it."
For the almost all part, I was totally dominating her, holding her neck.
She get up, we're making out in a more vertical position. I'm getting her by neck again, feeling my hand so strong, and start giving her commands like "Take down my pants, get it out"
She put in in her mouth and from that point we're just some animalistics scenes, all in silence because her colleague was next to us so we had to move all in the kitchen. The kitchen was her idea.
I slept at her home, 4h, get out with a headache, mostly from dehidratation and went home to prepare for work.
She wants to see me again.
If anybody has some advices, questions or want to add something, I'm open to it.
Have a great day,
Alpha13S
