Hey guys, first time posting, love the site, it has helped me a lot since I first found it. Anyway, I didn't know exactly where to post this so I posted under general topics.
I've known this girl for a while and she's in the periphery of my social circle, we had talked a bit and even flirted while she was still in a relationship. She broke up around a month ago and a few days later I called her up and we went on a date, ended up kissing, but nothing more on the first day. A few days laters we went on a second date and ended up having sex which repeated once more. So in total I've gone on four dates with her, two of which led to sex (she was on her period on the third date, it would have otherwise been 3 times we had had sex).
I really like this girl and am thinking of having a long term relationship with her, but I'm not sure how this will end up. She apparently still really likes her ex-boyfriend and still keeps in touch with him from what I hear from a mutual friend. The last time we had sex I made the idiotic mistake of talking about the possibility of a serious relationship to which she agreed, but then said we should take things slow because it's still too soon.
From what this mutual friend told me it looks as if she still talks to her ex, and I don't know if they are seeing each other. I've asked her flat out if she is still seeing her ex to which she responded that she doesn't even talk to him anymore, but things just don't add up... I've seen her tagged in a picture on facebook with him on Christmas Eve and just yesterday she "liked" a profile picture of his, along with what this mutual friend has told me. Today I mentioned these things to her and told her it makes her look as if she's completely undecided but she still denies all of it saying she likes me and that she wants to give up her past completely. What I'm starting to think is that she likes her ex but doesn't want to give me up entirely to get back with him... what do you guys think I should do given this situation?
I've known this girl for a while and she's in the periphery of my social circle, we had talked a bit and even flirted while she was still in a relationship. She broke up around a month ago and a few days later I called her up and we went on a date, ended up kissing, but nothing more on the first day. A few days laters we went on a second date and ended up having sex which repeated once more. So in total I've gone on four dates with her, two of which led to sex (she was on her period on the third date, it would have otherwise been 3 times we had had sex).
I really like this girl and am thinking of having a long term relationship with her, but I'm not sure how this will end up. She apparently still really likes her ex-boyfriend and still keeps in touch with him from what I hear from a mutual friend. The last time we had sex I made the idiotic mistake of talking about the possibility of a serious relationship to which she agreed, but then said we should take things slow because it's still too soon.
From what this mutual friend told me it looks as if she still talks to her ex, and I don't know if they are seeing each other. I've asked her flat out if she is still seeing her ex to which she responded that she doesn't even talk to him anymore, but things just don't add up... I've seen her tagged in a picture on facebook with him on Christmas Eve and just yesterday she "liked" a profile picture of his, along with what this mutual friend has told me. Today I mentioned these things to her and told her it makes her look as if she's completely undecided but she still denies all of it saying she likes me and that she wants to give up her past completely. What I'm starting to think is that she likes her ex but doesn't want to give me up entirely to get back with him... what do you guys think I should do given this situation?