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So i went out Tuesday night for the first time by myself. For most of the night i didn't have too much luck, but i was good with trying shotgun opening and re-opening..... which i am now a huge fan of! Before i was all about trying to drag a conversation on, and they would always got older and it is a huge waste of time and brings your confidence down i find. This is important because if i did not try this style of opening i would never have met this girl KC. Without further delay i shall share my field report!
So After striking out a couple times in the club, i noticed a group of girls sitting down on their cell phones, and their was a really cute girl KC.... i never approach groups so this was also a first! I walked up and interrupted their texting.
Me "so, you guys all got together to come out to a club, to sit and text each other all night that is pretty cute!"
KC "haha yeah, we are pretty lame aren't we! Here sit down." (she scoots over)
We bullshit for awhile, i find out she is an MMA fighter, She wants to travel to new Zealand to see the shire, skydiving is on her bucket list, she went to school for criminal justice but doesn't like it, and is only out for the night because of a friends birthday.
Me " wow, so pretty, dorky and Adventurous. You are the most interesting girl i have met all night."
Interrupted by her friend
Friend "hey our ride is here, we have to go"
KC "alright well i have to go my ride is here"
Me "listen we are having a good time, why don't you just stay and hang out with me"
KC "i can't i really have to go, here give me your number"
Me "phone number"
She stands up getting ready to leave and i go in for a kiss, she pushes me away smiling and says "OK Mr. Smooth, but you don't do that the first time you meet a girl!"
Me "oh you didn't get the memo?" (kept my cool)
Texting
Me"hey listen it was really awesome meeting you tonight, get home safe!"
KC "yeah, i will, and it was really awesome meeting you too"
Me"well, while i have you, what is your availability?" (only asked her because she had me sit down, and she asked for my number i felt safe pushing forward faster.)
KC "really any day after 7 i can do"
Me "so i'll see you Thursday at 8"
KC "oh i can't i have plans Thursday night"
Me "oh, well cancel them. I am way more fun anyways!"
KC "hmmm, that probably is true! but how about Monday?"
Me "i don't know about that your already asking for too much, tell you what, meet at my place and i can do Monday night." (figured i would push for compliance and making the demands)
KC "well, i don't really know if i feel safe with that."
Me " ok, tell you what, Coffee shop of my choice.....and a kiss?" (I like using a statement with question mark)
KC "hmmm, ok deal!"
I'd like to hear some feedback, where do you guys think i can improve. I will post up on the details from the date this Monday! Also if you would like to hear my interactions from monday night on my first night out i will post it in the journal section.
Thanks guys.
So After striking out a couple times in the club, i noticed a group of girls sitting down on their cell phones, and their was a really cute girl KC.... i never approach groups so this was also a first! I walked up and interrupted their texting.
Me "so, you guys all got together to come out to a club, to sit and text each other all night that is pretty cute!"
KC "haha yeah, we are pretty lame aren't we! Here sit down." (she scoots over)
We bullshit for awhile, i find out she is an MMA fighter, She wants to travel to new Zealand to see the shire, skydiving is on her bucket list, she went to school for criminal justice but doesn't like it, and is only out for the night because of a friends birthday.
Me " wow, so pretty, dorky and Adventurous. You are the most interesting girl i have met all night."
Interrupted by her friend
Friend "hey our ride is here, we have to go"
KC "alright well i have to go my ride is here"
Me "listen we are having a good time, why don't you just stay and hang out with me"
KC "i can't i really have to go, here give me your number"
Me "phone number"
She stands up getting ready to leave and i go in for a kiss, she pushes me away smiling and says "OK Mr. Smooth, but you don't do that the first time you meet a girl!"
Me "oh you didn't get the memo?" (kept my cool)
Texting
Me"hey listen it was really awesome meeting you tonight, get home safe!"
KC "yeah, i will, and it was really awesome meeting you too"
Me"well, while i have you, what is your availability?" (only asked her because she had me sit down, and she asked for my number i felt safe pushing forward faster.)
KC "really any day after 7 i can do"
Me "so i'll see you Thursday at 8"
KC "oh i can't i have plans Thursday night"
Me "oh, well cancel them. I am way more fun anyways!"
KC "hmmm, that probably is true! but how about Monday?"
Me "i don't know about that your already asking for too much, tell you what, meet at my place and i can do Monday night." (figured i would push for compliance and making the demands)
KC "well, i don't really know if i feel safe with that."
Me " ok, tell you what, Coffee shop of my choice.....and a kiss?" (I like using a statement with question mark)
KC "hmmm, ok deal!"
I'd like to hear some feedback, where do you guys think i can improve. I will post up on the details from the date this Monday! Also if you would like to hear my interactions from monday night on my first night out i will post it in the journal section.
Thanks guys.
