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So, this is my first real field report.. I met this girl on a Friday I believe, at a table by a Tim Hortons inside the Uni Building. She was sitting around, and I just walked by and stroke up conversation etc. We talked for a lot longer than I really wanted to, but got her number and an expected date. I texted her like 5 days later and we set up a date to meet and go to a park together, on a Friday. I wanted to do it that day or the day after (Thursday) but this worked for her. Unfortunetly, a good friend of mine was coming down (whom I havn't seen in almost a year) that day from where he lives now, around the afternoon. So I asked her to give me a wake up call at 9AM, "extra sexy", and she calls me at 9:20AM, at which point I'd had about 3 hours of sleep because I got really upset about how I failed and got caught up on some test by another broad...so this is how it went down. I'll try to be as detailed, but brief, as possible.
Report:
We exchanged a couple texts about where we would meet, and she said she could take the bus up to where I was, by the main campus. We met while I was having my "breakfast" infront of a Shopper Drug Mart. We talked a bit, it was ight, then we decided to go grab a coffee (she asks if I want to go to a nearby well known club to grab lunch). We went to my car, I was meticulous about her tapping her shoes so my car stays clean, and she showed me some new music I haven't heard before, on the way to Tims.
When we got there we chilled in the car for a bit cuz my hands we cold, talked a bit, then headed in. It's worth mentioning that while we talked in the car, I got a really strong feeling for her, like I wanted to get physical for her right there, but I didn't do anything physically. Once we made it into Tims, I gave her my Tim card which I thought had 8 dollars, but apparently only had like 2 dollars. We got a half dozen donuts, which she seemed excited about haha, and 2 small mocha lattes or something. We chatted and laughed in Tims, then headed back to my car. Chatted a bit, then headed back to where we started from, and walked to a park that was nearby.
I think this is where I fucked up because I wanted to get closer to her, and more physical. We would be sitting on a bench chattin, and I'd tell her to get closer, and she would get closer like half and inch, and be like this is fine, or something chill. She was close enough to wrap my arms around and did, I think at the same time I told her to get closer. I was rubbing her legs a bit and put my hands in between her thighs, close to her knees. My hands WERE cold at that time, but I'm not sure if I mentioned this. I wanted to make sure we get a physical connection happening, and that she would know this.
On the way back to my car, I picked her up and carried her for a bit, while rubbing my cheek against hers. I let her down and we walked back to the car. In the car, I played a bit with her knee as we talked. At that point she knew I had plans with a friend, and she also mentions she has to go meet up with her Mother later. She gives me a hug and leaves, and says "See, I broke one of my rules for you", because she is a Muslim.
She mentioned to me the first time we talked that she never really got into relationships with people in highschool, and when we were in Tims talking I layed some Chase frames when she said we should try out all their different coffees, or something like that. I like her, I don't just want to sleep with her and huck her, but I also don't want to not sleep with her..
As I was hanging out and drinking with my buddy later that day (at night), he suggested I text her something along the lines of "if you enjoyed yourself today, want to do something next week?" and I wish I never said that. He's got a girl he wants to Marry, and don't think he's on the ball anymore.. she never texted back.
I texted her yesterday saying "Hey <name>, wats say we grab a bite sometime tomoro, wats ur schedule like?", and she never texted back.
So I could leave it now and not give a shit, but I really want to learn what I did wrong, and possibly do something again with this girl when I DO have the day to give her the givin... you know what I mean?
edit: Also, the reason this is ++, because we were in my car on 3 separate occasions, and in a park with no one around. I'm still not sure at all on how to physically escalate while in a car, unless we are in the back seat. The center console is in the goddamn way!
Report:
We exchanged a couple texts about where we would meet, and she said she could take the bus up to where I was, by the main campus. We met while I was having my "breakfast" infront of a Shopper Drug Mart. We talked a bit, it was ight, then we decided to go grab a coffee (she asks if I want to go to a nearby well known club to grab lunch). We went to my car, I was meticulous about her tapping her shoes so my car stays clean, and she showed me some new music I haven't heard before, on the way to Tims.
When we got there we chilled in the car for a bit cuz my hands we cold, talked a bit, then headed in. It's worth mentioning that while we talked in the car, I got a really strong feeling for her, like I wanted to get physical for her right there, but I didn't do anything physically. Once we made it into Tims, I gave her my Tim card which I thought had 8 dollars, but apparently only had like 2 dollars. We got a half dozen donuts, which she seemed excited about haha, and 2 small mocha lattes or something. We chatted and laughed in Tims, then headed back to my car. Chatted a bit, then headed back to where we started from, and walked to a park that was nearby.
I think this is where I fucked up because I wanted to get closer to her, and more physical. We would be sitting on a bench chattin, and I'd tell her to get closer, and she would get closer like half and inch, and be like this is fine, or something chill. She was close enough to wrap my arms around and did, I think at the same time I told her to get closer. I was rubbing her legs a bit and put my hands in between her thighs, close to her knees. My hands WERE cold at that time, but I'm not sure if I mentioned this. I wanted to make sure we get a physical connection happening, and that she would know this.
On the way back to my car, I picked her up and carried her for a bit, while rubbing my cheek against hers. I let her down and we walked back to the car. In the car, I played a bit with her knee as we talked. At that point she knew I had plans with a friend, and she also mentions she has to go meet up with her Mother later. She gives me a hug and leaves, and says "See, I broke one of my rules for you", because she is a Muslim.
She mentioned to me the first time we talked that she never really got into relationships with people in highschool, and when we were in Tims talking I layed some Chase frames when she said we should try out all their different coffees, or something like that. I like her, I don't just want to sleep with her and huck her, but I also don't want to not sleep with her..
As I was hanging out and drinking with my buddy later that day (at night), he suggested I text her something along the lines of "if you enjoyed yourself today, want to do something next week?" and I wish I never said that. He's got a girl he wants to Marry, and don't think he's on the ball anymore.. she never texted back.
I texted her yesterday saying "Hey <name>, wats say we grab a bite sometime tomoro, wats ur schedule like?", and she never texted back.
So I could leave it now and not give a shit, but I really want to learn what I did wrong, and possibly do something again with this girl when I DO have the day to give her the givin... you know what I mean?
edit: Also, the reason this is ++, because we were in my car on 3 separate occasions, and in a park with no one around. I'm still not sure at all on how to physically escalate while in a car, unless we are in the back seat. The center console is in the goddamn way!
