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Fun Group Opening for Night Game

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey radeng,

I think this is quite brilliant!

I don’t do much night game (well I’m not 21 yet so I kinda can’t yet for the most part), but if done properly and in a calibrated way, can see this working with gym girls too. I’ve had trouble opening groups in a smooth way in the past and have only kind of been able to pull it off playing the shy brooding character and having a girl in the group notice me and talk to me, or me casually and under the radar begin with one girl who’s into me and can talk individually to me taking a break from the group.

-Gem
 

Edd--19

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Cool, it's an inventive opener, like Newton discovering Calculus (or Leibniz, depends on which side your on). I'll give it a whirl later on tonight and see how it goes, I'll type up what happens here. Don't expect too much though, I've not done much night game and lots of people are away as the holidays are on... Nonetheless, I'll give it a shot. It could work in mixed groups as well. Although the next couple of sentences may have to be edited to get a stronger reception. Sounds like a fun, attacking the social game head on.
 

Edd--19

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Gave it a try but not enough to properly verify it... Though from what I saw it did garner good receptions. I only got to try it on 2 groups; one of 4 and one of 2. The one of 4 was sitting down in a bar, the group of two heading to a bar. Both were warm but I fucked up somewhere.

The group of 4 was the first to be approached so I'll start here. I used the opener and paused for a few moments giving eye-contact to each member of the group. All the girls seemed immediately attracted to me (at least 3 of them, one seemed quiet). One of the girls responded in my silenece with "I disagree with you" which I assume was a test and I ignored her and told the group they seemed cool and I wanted to talk. I waited a couple of seconds before I got 2 girls to move up a bit on the bench so I could sit down and the girls on the same bench were pretty attracted to me at this point. Unfortunately this is were I get a bit confused with the dynamic. I neglect the ones that are attracted to me and give more eye-contact to the girl who is auto-rejecting me. I "forget" the other girls are there and they start to turn cold. I notice this and then eject knowing I've fucked up badly. However, as this is about the opener I'll say this. It worked really well. I was very nervous prior to using it, which is understandable. I gave it a shot, not expecting anything, but was pleasantly surprised by the positive reactions. I delivered it well, I assume, with a playful tone. It worked well.

I tried it again on the two group. It was dead quiet tonight, the first bar I went to there were 7 people in, 3-4 guys playing pool and 2 at the bar, a little better at other places but not average. Besides walking out of the third bar I visit, these two stunning girls are coming from the opposite direction so I use the opener to try it out again. They were warm to me, they didn't stop walking however, they smiled and spoke back and as we walked past eachother I heard one of the girls keep talking even though I was about 10-15 yards away. Obviously, it worked well, either I didn't do something right (such as stop walking first) or I wasn't attractive enough (doubtful). I do think however the opener worked rather well.

All in all, from my short sample, I think this works a treat but good fundamentals, as always, are vital. Tone I suggest is playful, a little unsure (as if you were part of a discussion you genuinely didn't agree with). Body language was open both times, nothing on closed body language. Key thing was to have fun and have a IDGAF attitude.

Cool opener, I'll keep it with me.
 
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