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So I'm still stuck on the fine line between chasing and persisting, I can never figure out what's persistence vs. chasing and I always feel confused.
Like... I read this article again: https://www.girlschase.com/content/keepi ... hase-women
I understand what it's saying, women keeping guys in the wings and all that; them having plenty of other men in their lives. So what if your fundamentals aren't all that great? You don't get tons of looks from girls at school or at bars (I just have the balls to approach a fuck ton of women). Women are still not going to chase you whether you use the law of scarcity or not right?
I just noticed especially after days where I take more than a day to text a girl back, they then may or may not get back in contact; as in they may take 2 days or not reply at all.
I'm very confused... As this is happening with girls that I'm currently sleeping with as well as girls that I've been out with and hooked up with but not had sex with yet.
It just seems that most of the women I'm talking too are rather apathetic about seeing me again, they'll go out with me, sleep with me/hook up with me or w/e; but I can't seem to get them chasing me.... Which is the point of my advancement, I want to start leveling up and start moving things forward in a way so women are chasing me instead of the other way around.
Should I just write off the girls that don't respond? Even if we've been sleeping together or have been on a couple dates and hooked up? I've gotten lays out of persistence before but.... because I still can't tell the difference I'm not sure what the right move is in these situations.
Also I know I need to work on my fundamentals, I'm not ugly or anything (I used to model and have done quite a few shoots and a couple commercials). I have a decent physique (4-5 nights in the gym a week and a solid diet), and my dress sense isn't completely horrid, I noticed I get the best reactions keeping it nice and simple with jeans and a black v-neck shirt that shows my physique.
I don't get many girls coming up and telling me I'm cute/hot or whatever though (not saying this for validations purpose, but simply because it could mean I actually need to work on my fundamentals).
Like... I read this article again: https://www.girlschase.com/content/keepi ... hase-women
I understand what it's saying, women keeping guys in the wings and all that; them having plenty of other men in their lives. So what if your fundamentals aren't all that great? You don't get tons of looks from girls at school or at bars (I just have the balls to approach a fuck ton of women). Women are still not going to chase you whether you use the law of scarcity or not right?
I just noticed especially after days where I take more than a day to text a girl back, they then may or may not get back in contact; as in they may take 2 days or not reply at all.
I'm very confused... As this is happening with girls that I'm currently sleeping with as well as girls that I've been out with and hooked up with but not had sex with yet.
It just seems that most of the women I'm talking too are rather apathetic about seeing me again, they'll go out with me, sleep with me/hook up with me or w/e; but I can't seem to get them chasing me.... Which is the point of my advancement, I want to start leveling up and start moving things forward in a way so women are chasing me instead of the other way around.
Should I just write off the girls that don't respond? Even if we've been sleeping together or have been on a couple dates and hooked up? I've gotten lays out of persistence before but.... because I still can't tell the difference I'm not sure what the right move is in these situations.
Also I know I need to work on my fundamentals, I'm not ugly or anything (I used to model and have done quite a few shoots and a couple commercials). I have a decent physique (4-5 nights in the gym a week and a solid diet), and my dress sense isn't completely horrid, I noticed I get the best reactions keeping it nice and simple with jeans and a black v-neck shirt that shows my physique.
I don't get many girls coming up and telling me I'm cute/hot or whatever though (not saying this for validations purpose, but simply because it could mean I actually need to work on my fundamentals).
