THIS IS PART TWO OF:Future as a seducer:Getting Prom Date(s) ?!?
intro:so my prom is coming in a like a month or to and I my desire of going is like 25%.i came in the school around October and I have like a few friends but like my social life in the school is like a solid D- or F+ truth be told. Coupled with me being very tall but not playing sports in the school since I came late, going to an all boys boarding school, coupled with my own self-limited beliefs which since the past week I have being steadily scraping off are the reasons for this.
But the main reason is so :there was this girl when I first came into the school I had a spark of attraction staring around October when I first came into the school but I just pushed it into the back of my mind. But I realized that the quote "YOU FAIL 100% OF THE TIME YOU DONT TRY" so I said who know and I asked the story went like this
PLEASE NOTE: apologies for the movie script but i just want to make my experience as accurate and descriptive as possible in order to narrow my responses to be more specfic.i have given a brief summary for those who want to respond but dont fell like reading the whole movie script haha.thanks again.
SUMMARY: I asked a girl out to prom and got stoned. i put a lot of work and had a 10/10 connection and in deep diving with her.she said she will think about it after mentioning ex boyfriend in the picture. i ignore her one day and exatly a week layer asked her and got a no.very hurted i recover i count the postives and acknolege the negatives and move on.i now read a response to Tyme2k and want to mulitiple girls to prom.but i am not that social.so how cani do this and ask these girls out?!? thanks again guys.
( from the best of my memory)
for a very long time I noticed that she started sliding her ass my desk to get across my desk, when she wanted to talk to her friend sitting on my left especially she would sort of but her ass in my face, she even woke me up to get involved in a confession about prom.so as of that time I began planning on sorting out logistics towards getting her as a date.since I want to it to be a "secret lover"realtionship I had to wait for the perfect moment for things to fall in place. fortunately the "perfect moment" came on a Friday. Should would be known as SPD (Supposed prom date)
SCENCE 2
so in the first of the two classes I had there was a sub. And there was a small group I was in that was making me laugh as hard as have since I entered the school. And I made sure I laughed and contributed to the session in a way that at least stealing glances at me with the use of my perphial vison.i am normally the strong silent type in school but I had the most fun in school that day so I was riding on very high emotions. So I took a pass from the second class I had with her to go and get some assignments done in the school library's stayed their for around 10 mminutes.then one of my schoolmates tells me I have to leave and finish up a test.i go and finish around 15 minutes and build more social momentum as I am walking back to the library.
SCENCE 3
Still riding on very intense positive emotions as I enter the library and their she is.i guess it was one those of days you get the Midas touch in what you are doing. Since is easy for me to have a snowballing effect in terms of momentum i had to walk back to control myself and walk to my seat.as I was walking a freshman stopped me and wanted me to sign something about selling stuff in the school.i used this as a chance to show my intelligence.i slowed my movements and grabbed a seat to just to look more powerful.dominate,just like a judge listening to case and took the time to explain myself as to why I don't support the petition. Then the girl I wanted jumped into the consersation and supported me a bit. Eventually petion girl left and the SPD then said if it here she wont have signed it to.we talked about it for a bit then I went to work on a table where we could see each other but where I could use my perhial vison to my advantage.arond ten mins into the assignment I realized I may never get this good of a chance again and there were like 5 people in the whole library. So I took the bull by the horns!But first I had to make it seem like I was blowing my nose then approach.
Scence 4
heart beting like an engine I pull a seat next to her and enquire what shes doing on the compt.turns out she is trying to fake a permission slip to give to her parents so she could go to a party the next Saturday.i was surprised.she told me it was a friends idea.at this point my voice went to full female sexy mode.i know myway somewhat in chaing my accents but I have noticed this sexy voice coming on automatically when talking to very fine girls.
anyways I say that shes a bad girl for that.and she starts lauging and smiling and saying that she not and stuff.then we engane in some light banter and I pull out my speaclied drill and start deep diving haha no cock joke intened
and she starts telling me about herself.i speak to her slowly and find out her dreams,ambions,and goals.turns out she is a staright A student too.i think her value in my own understing shoot up in realtion to her smarts.
scece 5
we are build so much of a connection that I run out of time to ask her bout prom the main reason for me talking to her in the first place.so I really have to rush because I don't want people thinking stuff(secret lover fan)and ask her if she has a date to prom.i think she starts thinikg or sometime then I said do u want 2go with me?she then says I was kinda thinking of going with an ex-boyfriend.i don't know if this biology or anything but I for a sort of anger go up from my spine giving a signal to my brain.immeditaly with her still umming I say just think about it.she says ok and a feeling of joy and hope engulfed me.
sence 6
throughout the rest of the day I am high of endorphins and love NOW I REALLY CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER. The following few days of the weekend I rummage girlschase.com already looking for information on how to build relationships and everything while I haven't even "won her" yet. i don't go to school on monday.and on the Wednesday i completely ignore her like completely.
scene 7
it's a Friday and i think i have given her enough time to "think about it". my feeling for that day sucked like face about to crack with anxiety sucked. in the second class i had with her i received news that one of my famous countrymen has died feel like shit now but still convince myself to get an answer from her.
scene 8
as we walk out the class room i tap her shoulder and ask. She turned me down flat out .saying that she went to a concert with her ex and some friends. And she was kind of stumbling to reject me kind of like a child who wants to answer a question but says um well and related stuff both in this scence and in scene five look at her explaining to me and i but my hand on my chest and try to control and regress my tears. I say no problem twice and she drags out the "sorry" i say ok see you and rush to the bathroom. Wash my face and recover from the heart-break. THAT HURTED.for them on I avoid making eye contact with her and even forgot how her face looked like. It has been like that since now...........
LEARING POINTS/EPILOGUe
• probably should have used more sexual intent
• should have asked about prom in a more subtle and not rushed method.
• should have not show that her responses got to me .
• should have not planted plans to marry her and immediately jump in a relationship in my mind putting all my eggs in her basket was not a good thing. TIME to place more eggs in many/different baskets to increase my confidence and success rate.
• probably shold have persisted.i am a very persuasive man and i let her slip away.
• time to move on no one ius going to stop me from self-actualization one girl relationships will be as of now an extra-weight on me.
• funny i did not feel that sexualy attracted to her i was manily in love and focused on getting a relationship .twice this has happened and twice have i lot such girls.
• MOVING FAST YET GRACEFULLY IS KEY .KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND HOW TO GET ISKEY. MOVE HER TOO.
