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FWB gets emotional after sex and cries

Chubadoo

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I've been dating this 20 year old girl from Feb/March, she didn't let me fuck her until after 2 months (supposedly she wouldnt let me bang until we got in a relationship, but we were doing everything else from fingering to BJs etc)

I had told her that I wasn't in relationship mood, and I couldn't really get into a relationship with anyone unless I had fucked her first to see if we've got good chemistry in sex

Sex with her is good, her BJs are the best I've had (I wasn't enjoying getting head before her), however I can't move forward with her to commitment because she's kinda immature, silly, and not as hot as I'd want my future GF/wife to be, even though she's a really good girl and seems loyal and has other good traits (she cooks)

Fast forward today: Her texting game is bad, texting her gets pretty boring, conversation dies out. I don't text her much anymore, when I suggest to make plans and meet up and fuck, once a week or every 10 days, she's always available. After sex the last 2 times (last I met her was yesterday) she gets emotional and cries.

"You only want me for sex and I feel like you're degrading me, I can't do this"

"I couldn't really get into a relationship with anyone unless I had fucked her first to see if we've got good chemistry in sex"
She also brought this up, thinking and hoping we'd eventually become a serious couple..

I don't want to be upsetting her, so I suggested breaking it up for her well being, whatever she wants really and makes her happy (obv not a relationship), we can still talk, but if she feels it makes her worn out maybe we should cease all communications. We bid our farewells and it got emotional, like saying goodbye to someone you like that you're never gonna talk to again.

What's the best move here? Do I set her free and let her pursue a serious relationship? I would've wanted to keep her, but.. yeah. She's also not open enough to have threesomes and do kinky shit with me, she has a hard crush on me.
 
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TwoNameGame

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I don't want to be upsetting her, so I suggested breaking it up for her well being bid
It sounds like no one is happy. You feel guilty and didn't get the sex you wanted. She feels degraded and didn't get the relationship she wanted.

Break up with her.

No point in hurting her. You'll probably find someone on your wavelength.
 
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