FWB, LTR, or LDR visiting you trashes your momentum.

[Swati]

I've noticed if you were consistently fucking the same week, there's no point in really going into the field until you are 3-4 days clear from departing from your girl and retained. Is not the same as fucking another girl you pulled the day/night prior, where you get a testosterone boost, with an old girl it drops your testosterone level, being in the "relationship", regardless of how'd like to categorize the fact. The truth is your hormones work on you when you have consistent sex with the same person.

A bit of a niche acknowledgment, that's the price you trade for consistent sex and cumming depleting your sex drive, especially a detriment if you night fielding.

When I sent off my LDR after 5 days of fucking 2-3x a day my sex drive was dead, tried, cried like a baby when she left, all the hormones fucking my mood, etc, same thing with FWB, girls who spent more time with me, love chemical slowly creeps up on you.

The micro level is problematic, depending on the length of how long you were in the consistent fucky fucky, which could lead to the macro level, affecting your momentum.

My knowledge of gamers, night gamers, I don't make friends with day gamers, JK. Not one is a consistent masturbator, I wouldn't be friends with a weak sex aura person depleting their precious liquid into some napkin.

This topic relates to the article about Chase writing the not dealing with FWB anymore, high-level level night gamers I know usually don't have rotation, or they choose to continue gaming rather than see a girl consistently, compared to me, somewhere in between, as my retention gotten better they hook after sex, inviting me to staying over or coming to stay with me. It'll help with LTR game but not for fielding, less so for day game cause it's not as physically demanding on your body compared to the night game. While my girls' retention percentage saw a spike, I'm extra careful with my sex drives and emotions.

This is where you accidentally fall into the pussy trap, succubus, where girls ropes you into a relationship. Some of the girls are more romantic, they know how to play to the guy's fantasy. Your white knight mentality comes out and gets you investing in them as the dominant male. They'll prey on your ego, I'd screened a bit more before you drop more eggs in the basket.

"One is too close to none"

Habibi says, referring to the number of girlfriends, LDRs, MLTR, and etc

When I went out to the game again after sex marathon week, my "drive" was completely gone and wanted to just go home, and recover from my loss.

 

[Chase]

Good observations, @Swati.

The long-distance relationship girl in particular is going to mess you up. It's obviously a more substantial relationship, but you don't get to see her as much, and when she leaves after a brief, intense reunion, it's going to suck.

On LTRs/mLTRs/FWBs while also picking up regularly, the one thing you can do to keep your edge is refuse to ejaculate for a few days before you'll be going out / going onto dates with new girls.

There was an old ijjjji post back in the day on mASF where he reported having sex but refusing to ejaculate with any of his FWBs for 30 days as an experiment, to get the testosterone boost from sex without the testosterone loss from ejaculation. From what he said after the first two weeks he was wildly horny and by week three girls could sense it and were coming onto him in the club. Girls he was seeing were begging him to cum during sex but he held firm and continued withholding his seed. IIRC he was also telling girls he met in the club that he was on a 30 days no ejaculation challenge and women were trying to go home with him to break his "days without ejaculation" stretch before the 30-day mark... lol. I think one of them succeeded and he ended up not being able to contain himself and came with one of the girls he pulled somewhere in the 20-something day mark.

I haven't tried it for 30 days, but playing around with not ejaculating when you have sex does DEFINITELY heighten your sex drive.

Do it a few times straight and it is like you are constantly on high alert for women, and very tuned in.

Of course, then you've got to deal with the women you're seeing complaining about why you won't cum with them, asking if something is wrong, etc.

When I've said it my response is always just, "No, nothing wrong. I just want to be extra sharp this week and hold onto my potency."

The result though is that then they start trying to be extra special seductive, doing all kinds of sexy things, to try to make you cum.

Women: just can't respect when you want to hold onto your jizz!

Chase

 

[Swati]

Good observations, @Swati.

The long-distance relationship girl in particular is going to mess you up. It's obviously a more substantial relationship, but you don't get to see her as much, and when she leaves after a brief, intense reunion, it's going to suck.

On LTRs/mLTRs/FWBs while also picking up regularly, the one thing you can do to keep your edge is refuse to ejaculate for a few days before you'll be going out / going onto dates with new girls.

There was an old ijjjji post back in the day on mASF where he reported having sex but refusing to ejaculate with any of his FWBs for 30 days as an experiment, to get the testosterone boost from sex without the testosterone loss from ejaculation. From what he said after the first two weeks he was wildly horny and by week three girls could sense it and were coming onto him in the club. Girls he was seeing were begging him to cum during sex but he held firm and continued withholding his seed. IIRC he was also telling girls he met in the club that he was on a 30 days no ejaculation challenge and women were trying to go home with him to break his "days without ejaculation" stretch before the 30-day mark... lol. I think one of them succeeded and he ended up not being able to contain himself and came with one of the girls he pulled somewhere in the 20-something day mark.

I haven't tried it for 30 days, but playing around with not ejaculating when you have sex does DEFINITELY heighten your sex drive.

Do it a few times straight and it is like you are constantly on high alert for women, and very tuned in.

Of course, then you've got to deal with the women you're seeing complaining about why you won't cum with them, asking if something is wrong, etc.

When I've said it my response is always just, "No, nothing wrong. I just want to be extra sharp this week and hold onto my potency."

The result though is that then they start trying to be extra special seductive, doing all kinds of sexy things, to try to make you cum.

Women: just can't respect when you want to hold onto your jizz!

Chase

Hey Chase,

I always wanted to write a bit about semen retention, Now that you have mentioned the details about how a previous seducer holding onto his liquid getting a higher attraction level from girls now paved the way for me

Retention of your jizz is a potent energy source for life. When I'm in low momentum, not fucking at all I would go about my days satisfied just getting a lot of approach invitations, differences were noticeable. I pulled higher caliber/breakthrough girls when I was on retention as well, around the 2-3 weeks of retention, because they approached me and commented on my looks and all. The state of retention also gives you better frame control.

Funny story, this meh girl I saw beginning of summer wasn't my ideal type, fuckable. I fucked her raw without busting and went to a festival and got approached by girls, couldn't pull cause the setting of that environment was logistically hard for me. Very true about the smell of pre-selection. I remember Karea saying that it was special power that after you fuck, leaving a girl's pussy juice on your dick you EASILY pull again! LMAO

 

[Chase]

Nice anecdotes!

Cool to see you've already field tested this, @Swati.

Fascinating the results. You're reporting the same thing as ijjjji here, too... getting approached and complimented around the 2-3 week mark.

 

[HoofHearted]

I remember Karea saying that it was special power that after you fuck, leaving a girl's pussy juice on your dick you EASILY pull again! LMAO

This is real interesting to see written out. I hate showering after sex, don't want to wash the magic off, but I just thought I was being superstitious. Didn't know this was a thing.

I wonder, if you bottled it up, could you sell it? Could you apply... erm... outsourced "pussy juice" (well, I guess it's all outsourced)... like a cologne and yield the same effect?

I don't think vaginal fluids are really magical. But boy do they sure seem that way!

 

[Chase]

It might sound a little nutty, but on occasion I have been known to smear a little pussy juice on my neck like a cologne when leaving a girl I just shagged if I am planning on going out again.

Sadly, from the handful of times I’ve tested it, I did not notice a difference in how women behave with me like that.

Maybe I just need to totally drench myself in juice, so I walk around absolutely stinking of vagina

Tell the girl to just rub her naked pussy all over my jeans and shirt after I put them on.

There's an idea...

 

[Will KZ]

Came here from the GC article on boosting testosterone. I'm curious how do you guys deal with blue balls when you're having sex but not ejaculating?

 

[Conquistador]

Came here from the GC article on boosting testosterone. I'm curious how do you guys deal with blue balls when you're having sex but not ejaculating?

In brief, if blue balls happen it means you’re doing something wrong

Blue balls are when there’s too much blood flow for too long in the testes. Localized hypertension.

The cremaster and other muscles that move your balls and tubes around should be pretty much relaxed the whole time if you’re doing it correctly, thus avoiding the problems.

You aren’t supposed to just press the gas pedal and the brake together.

A lot of it comes down to training. The parasympathetic nervous system is the one that controls erection and baseline pleasure. The activation of the autonomic nervous system is what spurs you to ejaculation.

 

[Will KZ]

Okay, but I'm not convinced this is a mistake, isn't the blood meant to flow down there during sex? I had a sex dream yesterday morning and woke and stopped the ejaculation right at the point of orgasm (a little leaked out admittedly, but mostly stopped). I still had a small sensation of blue balls later in the day, though quite mild. I think there's something to this theory though, I don't know if dream sex would raise testosterone levels, but I suspect it should, and my wife jumped on me at the end of the day.

In brief, if blue balls happen it means you’re doing something wrong

Blue balls are when there’s too much blood flow for too long in the testes. Localized hypertension.

The cremaster and other muscles that move your balls and tubes around should be pretty much relaxed the whole time if you’re doing it correctly, thus avoiding the problems.

You aren’t supposed to just press the gas pedal and the brake together.

A lot of it comes down to training. The parasympathetic nervous system is the one that controls erection and baseline pleasure. The activation of the autonomic nervous system is what spurs you to ejaculation.

 

[Conquistador]

isn't the blood meant to flow down there during sex?

Yes, and it’s supposed to circulate and not get trapped in your balls.

 

[theReason]

Maybe I just need to totally drench myself in juice, so I walk around absolutely stinking of vagina

Tell the girl to just rub her naked pussy all over my jeans and shirt after I put them on.

I just got back from a bar where I witnessed this ugly guy with a big unkempt shock of hair, facial hair of a hobo, black wool coat, poorly-fitted black jeans and black boots like a hobo/2012 sherlock holmes cosplayer get a 97% hook rate with every woman at the bar; he could just walk from one end to the other and open a set, the girls (and the couple of guys who were strangers to him) would immediately be in on the act, acting like his friend, although I could tell he did not know them because he was exchanging numbers.

Very intense eye contact, somewhere between Russell Brand and Rob Schneider talking Steve Coogan to in 2004’s ‘Around The World in 80 Days.’

Coming off as clearly crazy, and opening confrontational. Frequently moving on (bouncing himself outside), and by the time everyone was drunk, if he wasn’t making out with a girl, he had a girl in line waiting for his attention (even when he was talking with a solo guy or a guy in a mixed group).

Fashion sense non-existent. His coat had the collar up in the back so he looked like a mixed vampire. (Serial killer rizz?)

At one point he got within 6 feet of me, facing my direction, and I smelled something very familiar.

I got up and stood near him—smell was stronger at close range. He had this thick dingy wool coat that smelled as if he was doing what you said to the front of it.

The lover frame is communicated in the “directional smell aura,” everything else about him is just to rule out any other value whatsoever and communicate “yeah, are you smelling this shit? You know what’s up!”

The perfect olfactory business card for the founder of Girlschase, no?

 

[Swati]

There are studies of females being able to smell the androstadienone level, from male's sweating, and bodily secretions.

Pheromones and their effect on women’s mood and sexuality - PMC

Pheromones are substances which are secreted to the outside by an individual and received by a second individual of the same species. Many examples exist in animals but their role in humans remains uncertain since adults have no functioning ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Evidence that androstadienone, a putative human chemosignal, modulates women's attributions of men's attractiveness - PubMed

Considerable research effort has focused on whether specific compounds found within human body odor influence the behavior or physiology of other individuals. The most intensively studied is 4,16-androstadien-3-one, a chemical which is known to modulate mood and have activational effects in the...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Attraction from girls usually is from you having fucked without a condom, that's when they could smell your pre-selection, vagina discharge.

I usually wash my dick these days because some of their pussy stink, don't like that shit on my dick, you could have pimple outbreaks cause of bacteria.

I'd remember when I didn't wash it they had higher attraction levels too, maybe it's the hormonal smell or the discharge of the vagina.

Now, it feels like less of an accomplishment laying a new girl unless they are super beautiful. The winner's effect is lessened. Compared to when I was starting I'd feel super horny afterward, getting this super chill relaxed energy, kinda like a sex high.

Infield, I believe encountered a handful of girls who have sprayed themselves with pheromones, different story...

One of the few I've recently heard about was Dennis Rodman, DUDE, who was stinking after a ball game and went to the club pulling like mad according to Shaq. Do you know why I believe him, because of Dennis's outfits, peacocking to the max, overall attitude, creativity, etc, natural PUA.

Like my Ukrainian, this dude would get off work around midnight, run to the club smelling like shit, get a bunch of hooks, and close. But again he was 6'6 too.

There was a black dude, when I was in college he had this musk smell to him. But I'm not really sure if he was able to pull it or not.

Go infield smelling like shit, try it out

 

[Skills]

There are studies of females being able to smell the androstadienone level, from male's sweating, and bodily secretions.

Pheromones and their effect on women’s mood and sexuality - PMC

Pheromones are substances which are secreted to the outside by an individual and received by a second individual of the same species. Many examples exist in animals but their role in humans remains uncertain since adults have no functioning ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Evidence that androstadienone, a putative human chemosignal, modulates women's attributions of men's attractiveness - PubMed

Considerable research effort has focused on whether specific compounds found within human body odor influence the behavior or physiology of other individuals. The most intensively studied is 4,16-androstadien-3-one, a chemical which is known to modulate mood and have activational effects in the...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Attraction from girls usually is from you having fucked without a condom, that's when they could smell your pre-selection, vagina discharge.

I usually wash my dick these days because some of their pussy stink, don't like that shit on my dick, you could have pimple outbreaks cause of bacteria.

I'd remember when I didn't wash it they had higher attraction levels too, maybe it's the hormonal smell or the discharge of the vagina.

Now, it feels like less of an accomplishment laying a new girl unless they are super beautiful. The winner's effect is lessened. Compared to when I was starting I'd feel super horny afterward, getting this super chill relaxed energy, kinda like a sex high.

Infield, I believe encountered a handful of girls who have sprayed themselves with pheromones, different story...

One of the few I've recently heard about was Dennis Rodman, DUDE, who was stinking after a ball game and went to the club pulling like mad according to Shaq. Do you know why I believe him, because of Dennis's outfits, peacocking to the max, overall attitude, creativity, etc, natural PUA.

Like my Ukrainian, this dude would get off work around midnight, run to the club smelling like shit, get a bunch of hooks, and close. But again he was 6'6 too.

There was a black dude, when I was in college he had this musk smell to him. But I'm not really sure if he was able to pull it or not.

Go infield smelling like shit, try it out

Brah!

 

[HoofHearted]

All of that upset me.

I do not know either way if it is true that smelling like sweaty asshole/pheromones helps with meeting girls.

However, I do know that you do not *need* to do it.

I'm gonna go scrub for a while.

 

[KJ Francis]

preselection is real (mate-choice copying in scientific literature), so in theory, actual pussy smell should be a reliable indicator. I've gotten good approach invitations after getting laid, but I don't know how much of that is sex smell vs. the vibe effect on posture/walking and your facial expression/gaze.

testosterone sweat is for sure a thing though. someone I used to see said she would go nuts over her ex's scent after hockey practice. I had a girl comment recently too about my scent. I think if you have washed off all the marinating sweat from the course of a day, and then had a short intense workout that didn't drench you but got the testosterone boost emanating a little bit out of your pores, it would probably draw her in a bit. maybe it plays a part on the dance floor.

this article goes into it a little - wear cologne etc to mask it if you're in a nervous state generally, but if you're feeling like a winner then it can help to ditch deodorant.

Having a Male Scent That Fills Women with Lust

In the comments on "Your Mental Model is Flawed," M asked the following question about cologne: “Speaking of expensive cologne...is it worth the investment? Right now my only scent is my deodorant, lol.” I gave a quick response, but I've been wanting to do a piece on male scent for a while now...

www.girlschase.com

Study: Women Know You're Attracted to Them by Scent

Women can sense a man’s interest levels from his odor. A girl who smells interest ‘wakes up’ out of autopilot – and must decide if she likes him back too. Approach enough girls and it becomes pretty obvious that women can kind of tell when you genuinely want them versus when you’re just phoning...

www.girlschase.com

https://www.reuters.com/article/business/healthcare-pharmaceuticals/birth-control-affects-sexiness-of-a-mans-scent-idUSCOL566903/

 

[Skills]

The amount of mental gymnastics in the last few post makes me nostalgic of Zach

 

[KJ Francis]

The amount of mental gymnastics in the last few post makes me nostalgic of Zach

it's science - testosterone scent is a turn-on and cortisol is a turn-off.

http://www.cell.com/neuron/retrieve/pii/S0896627301003907

[Scent attractiveness and endocrine status in male students before and during a stress situation] - PubMed

Scent attractiveness of sweat samples collected from male students before and during theoretical exams was assessed by female students. Five-rank scale was used for subjective assessment of the scent samples in term unpleasant/pleasant. Scent attractiveness depended on physiological conditions...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

from the article

• If you're a beginner or intermediate at getting girls - and you find yourself nervous with women sometimes - wear deodorant and wear cologne. These will help you mask the cortisol in your sweat - a turnoff for women - and they'll also cover up the lack of testosterone that comes from uncertainty and not being accustomed to "winning" (see: "How to Be a Dominant Man: What You Didn't Know About the 'Winner Effect'")
• Once you're sufficiently advanced with women that you get consistent results, you're used to getting girls and sleeping with them, and your stress on meeting and seducing women is hovering somewhere close to "zero," drop the deodorant and drop the cologne. At that point, you almost certainly have very potent, attractive body chemistry going on - your body is signaling to women that you are confident, dominant, and stress-free, and if you're covering that up, you're missing a lot of strong initial attraction from girls