gaming girls with low self-esteem

[Whiteheart]

I often run into attainability problems with insecure women i.e. women with low self-esteem. I saw that many guys have the same problem with these women. No matter how we try our attainability (or just relatibility) is never high enough are we get rejected. I have noticed that due to lack of self-respect, these women are characterized with aggressive and selfish behavior and the most relatable men for them are these who can stand them. So, from my experience these girls only date men who are socially below them and in the same time fully committed to them. Often, these women are alone and blame men for not giving them what they want. Usually I would stay away from these women but I simply live in environment where they are dominant and I don’t see that will change. Is there something that guy can do to improve success with these women without transforming himself into fully committed servant of their needs? Currently I don’t know on what to focus.

 

[Derek da man]

Reading your post I wouldn't disagree that there are some women who only get men who will put up with their ways and therefore blame men when they aren't the type of guy they want. I use "reward" for good behavior traits they show and at best ignore bad behaviors or even, on occasions, call them out on it.

No matter how we try our attainability (or just relatibility) is never high enough are we get rejected.

Have you considered that your attainability is too high and they feel they can't reach your level and therefore reject you. I used to dress quite smartly when going out socializing and a lot of ladies were a bit distant. I used to think it was better to overdress than underdress which I still agree with in principle, but since I made my dress style a little bit less formal and a touch more casual I get much warmer responses from ladies.

 

[Whiteheart]

Thanks a lot bro! Good advice for calling out bad or rewarding good behavior. I agree about dressing, I have noticed the same thing. When I was in my best shape smaller number of girls looked at me and were warm, and when I was casually dressed got warmer responses. Also, I done all this stuff and it was short term strategy. This kind of girls would react positive at first but later would still flake, ghosted me or pulled back. Who knows, maybe these girls can't be seduced. In normal situation I would not bother, but there are more and more of insecure women and it is harder for normal men to game them.

Stay safe,

 

[Eternity]

Low self esteem = mental and emotional issues. Short term game is to pump her full of good emotions and paint the bitch a fantasy, making her feel like she's the only bitch in the world to get the bang. Long term game forget it. Too many headaches and drama plus her deep rooted insecurities to deal with. Probably will fall for smooth talking players taking and giving her validation till she opens her legs to get that hit of validation from someone that she didn't get growing up. Choice is yours bruh

 

[Whiteheart]

These strategies you mentioned sound really useful. Thanks for your time!

 

[Zanardi]

Have you considered that your attainability is too high and they feel they can't reach your level and therefore reject you.

Actually, it's too low