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I started applying some of the principles here in Girlschase several months ago so I could get laid, but I got frustrated with all the rejections, useless numbers, and my own anxiety. So I just gave up. Well, maybe it was more of refocusing my priorities but I did step away from the game for a while. I'm currently a freshman in a small tech college and I saw a counselor to talk about my social anxiety and depression. I was having a really hard time making friends and reading social cues so that became my focus and still kind of is. When I was a kid, my mother told me I had borderline Asperger's Syndrome, but several events that I won't get into since then have made me doubt whether or not my awkwardness was due to this. In any case, I struggle a lot socially where others find it easy. Small talk frightens me and I can't even ask some of the guys in my clubs to hang out let alone ask a girl for a date.
So this past week I have been feeling very sexually frustrated and jealous of those who have a sex life while I don't. I came back to Girlschase to get a refresher and I have a few questions. First, it has been made clear on this website that before you can make a girl your girlfriend you must have sex with her in order for it to work out. But in the article about losing your virginity, it is recommended that you lose it to someone you are comfortable with and trust. So I find myself in this catch-22 where I need a girlfriend to have sex but I need to have sex to get a girlfriend. Second, due to me being in a small tech school I don't find cold approach feasible and I believe I would come across as "the creepy guy hitting on everyone". I would very much like to lead a lifestyle where I'm getting laid frequently with multiple women but I truly cannot understand how to apply many of these principles to my own life. So, how can I find someone to lose my virginity to and how do I do I get to that point with her?
So this past week I have been feeling very sexually frustrated and jealous of those who have a sex life while I don't. I came back to Girlschase to get a refresher and I have a few questions. First, it has been made clear on this website that before you can make a girl your girlfriend you must have sex with her in order for it to work out. But in the article about losing your virginity, it is recommended that you lose it to someone you are comfortable with and trust. So I find myself in this catch-22 where I need a girlfriend to have sex but I need to have sex to get a girlfriend. Second, due to me being in a small tech school I don't find cold approach feasible and I believe I would come across as "the creepy guy hitting on everyone". I would very much like to lead a lifestyle where I'm getting laid frequently with multiple women but I truly cannot understand how to apply many of these principles to my own life. So, how can I find someone to lose my virginity to and how do I do I get to that point with her?
