Getting consistent success, realizing that I don't like the girls where I live

[Dough]

So I live in central Canada. Every time I went out to practice cold approach, I would force myself to talk to any girls that put effort into their appearance just to gain experience regardless of whether they're my type. At this point I've become pretty decent at it, I can go out and get an instant date more often than not. So now my focus has shifted to finding the girls that are my type, and they just... don't exist where I live.

I know that even if I keep persistently approaching and luck into a girl that I like, I'll be stuck in a scarcity mindset because they quite literally are scarce here, and it'll sabotage the relationship. So I'm pretty sure I need to change something. Importantly, I don't want to pump and dump. I want a girl that I REALLY love and to stay with her and not have to think about cold approach again. This tool is just a means to an end for me.

I'm 23 and I'm a day trader so my work is independent of my location: I can go anywhere. I've put a ton of effort into making myself the kind of man that the woman I want is looking for. What I want is a virgin, with a demure/docile personality, and huge tits (like this NSFW). Those three things are my only requirements, I don't care about age/status/height/hair/ethnicity/language/income/education/etc. Can someone help me know where I should be putting myself so I can meet girls like this?

 

[HoofHearted]

That looks like a fat chick.

Golden Corral?


Edit: ehhhh not to be glib. Maybe try the States? Granted those... er, breasts, are definitely specimens. But i think you could approximate

 

[Dough]

Nah man even if, hypothetically, that particular chick is fat, there are girls that aren't. Pretty easy to find on the internet if you search, and I've seen a couple irl. I'm pretty sure it's a mutation or something. If I wanted to look at a map of the highest BMI then I'd just do that lmao.

 

[ulrich]

I’ve seen girls with asses and big racks like those in Colombia and Hungary.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

So to be clear they HAVE to have those three requirements? Me personally, I have never been picky to the extent that you are picky with women. The huge tits I can understand because everyone has their body preference, but it seems like the other two are very subjective and are based on emotional influences or factors that you have. For instance, it seems you are looking for innocence In a women. A good question to ask yourself is why do you want an innocent women so badly? What does this say about you? We can't play custom women generator and create the women of our dreams. A more open mindset is needed considering there are women of all types and backgrounds. My advice would be to clear yourself of the mental biases you have, because otherwise you have an Impossible task on your hands.

 

[Beck Bass]

We got another virgin hunter here? lol
I never understand these guys, I mean, I get the illusion that a virgin is gonna just stick with you because you're all the dick she knows, but truth is, girls move on. If she gets really curious for dick, she'll find another, and you're just gonna be the sucker that stuck with her for months (years?) of bad sex with her while you taught her how to please some other guy.

About them tiddies, most girls with tits this size are fat. My first ex fits most of your criteria (had huge tits, was quite docile, though she had quite some sexual experience, which I was glad for, work cut out for me) but she was quite chubby. I think it's very hard to find those "mutation" girls that are kinda thin but still have huge knockers (Hitomi Tanaka much?). There's of course the fake boobs, but not everyone's cup of tea. I'm not sure some country has the bigger boobs, might be something interesting to research.

 

[Chase]

You can find girls with natural D-cup breasts and pencil-thin waists. That's my preferred physique, myself... C- or D-breasts, tiny waists. Natural D-cups with tiny waist are not so common, but there are still enough of them that you can find these girls, and have choice among them, some of them with pretty faces and attractive personalities and other things you want.

Once you start getting to E-cup and bigger, those girls get increasingly scarce in every population, and it is harder and harder to be choosy in other qualities because there are so few of them. The picture you shared is about a G-cup.

Cup sizes below: first two are A, then it's roughly B, C, D, E, F, G, etc.

E-cups on small waists are rare in general; F-cups on small waists rarer still; G-cups on small waists are vanishingly rare.

Breast sizes are on a parabola, which you should be familiar with as a day trader. In this case, the parabola is lopsided to the left... it is more common to find tiny breasts than super massive ones.

The girls with the really gigantic natural tits have the mutation where the breasts continue to grow in size throughout life. One I knew in high school had breast reduction surgery because her tits were so huge, and continually getting bigger. It was just killing her back. I had a tall, beautiful thin-framed girlfriend with D-cups who would walk around with somewhat slumped shoulders at the end of the day due to her breasts, so you can imagine what it's like with E-, F-, or G-cups.

There is also the issue that huge-titted girls seem to be a lot less motivated to stay slim in general. If she's an A-cup and she gets fat, she's going to be fat AND tit-less... double-whammy. But if she has F-cups, she can get fat but men will still be all over her. If she's an F-cup fitness nut, she's probably going to get a breast reduction, because there's just no way she's going to be running on treadmills with those knockers. I've had girls with F-cups... but they are always chubbier than you'd like.

All of which is to say... you can probably find giant tits + demure. She is probably going to be at least somewhat chunky. It is very, very rare to find natural huge bosomed girls who are also slim. Fat girls tend to have self-esteem issues and lose their virginities younger. If the goal is "slim, G-cups, virgin", you're basically restricted to teen girls only. Even then some of them are going to have already lost it. You are not going to have much choice in faces or other features either, just because these chicks are so rare.

So you are basically looking at a super tiny pool, where you need to be doing a lot of approaches, to find one girl who is to your liking.

The whole scarcity thing though... how many girls have you bedded? And how many huge-breasted girls?

When I went through my "I need massive tits" phase I had some big-titted girls and big-titty girlfriends, but once I got there the realization was, "You know what, these big tits are nice but they are really floppy, and there are other qualities I think I would prefer more than these giant gazoombas." So I scaled it back down to C-cups and bigger are fine for me, so long as the girl has everything else I definitely want.

My very strong recommendation: while you are on the hunt for your colossally-bosomed demure virgin, take other girls too. Not only will it make you better able to actually secure those rare big-titty girls when you meet them, instead of tripping all over yourself because you value them so much. You will also discover other qualities you like in women aside from pumpkin-sized hangers, which'll make scarcity disappear with a giant-titty girlfriend, since she is certain by then to, even if she has these four things you want now, not have all the other things you've realized you appreciate.

Lower Your Standards (and Date Hotter Girls)

In "How Much Do Looks Matter for Romantic Success?," Balla asks whether to lower your standards in pursuit of getting the best results with women achievable: “Hey Chase, I can agree with everything you wrote to a T. What I want to ask about is this. You say naturals are better to learn from...

www.girlschase.com

Keep in mind: talking to girls and taking girls on instant dates is good but still a far cry from bedding girls.

Until you can close reliably, you do not have the skill -- and the odds you can successfully close that one rare, golden perfect girl when she finally comes along are not high at all.

You need to hone your full skill set with imperfect girls if you want the skills to net those dream girls.

Chase

 

[Teevster]

That girl on the pic, based on that necklace looks like a girl who:
- Loves anal
- Face fucking
- BDSM play
- Probably bi-sexual or swinger-personality

And has prob had more dick than you will ever encounter virgins throughout your life.

Best of luck to you.

-Teevster

 

[Dough]

Chase makes a good statistical argument. I thought I had toned my expectations back a lot, but it's definitely true that even if the number of things you want is very few, it doesn't get you anywhere if they're vanishingly rare. Ah well, sucks to suck.