Hey guys,
Hope you're doing well.
I've been in the field for 3 years now and I've gotten laid a bunch here and there. While there's a lot to work on, my biggest issue is performing well in the bedroom.
Out of all the lays I've had I think I've only made one girl cum from penetration (many of the others using my mouth or fingers or both).
Now, I realize that there's nothing quite like making a girl cum with your dick.
I'm also not one of those guys who doesn't care about the girl. I want to be an excellent lover.
But, I'm starting from a difficult place. Here's some context -
1. My T-Levels have been low for a long time and I had ED for about 2 years. 2020 - 2021 or 2022. In 2020, it was at 400. After a few months, it went up to 535. Recently, it has come down to 350 although I've increased my protein and fat intake, been hitting the gym (albeit recently), and have more libido overall. I've been taking Shilajit. It helps.
I don't know how my libido has gone up from before but my T-Levels have reduced.
2. I used to watch porn until 2021, I haven't jerked off to porn since July 2021. But, I still end up jerking off a few times a week.
3. I would rather go out and pick up chicks, except I've been hitting the field and I'm stuck on the dreaded Playboy Plateau intermediates inevitably find themselves on.
4. Now, I took a look at the Low Testosterone, No girls funk article where @Chase says you should take a break for 30-45 days if your results have fallen off a cliff. So, I decided to take a break and hit the gym and focus on other stuff. But because I have a dry streak going on, I end up jerking off.
It's difficult to go through a dry streak AND not jerk off.
5. Last night, I ended up getting laid from day game after a dry streak of 40-45 days. I was a lot harder and hornier than I'd usually be. However, I felt this way in the beginning and gradually began to lose it towards the end.
6. When I bring it back up and penetrate the girl, I tend to lose sensation especially while doing her from behind, or if she's riding me. Missionary seems to work the best for my sensitivity.
Even then, if I find myself losing sensation, I end up thrusting harder to maintain my hard-on and end up cumming quickly as a result.
In a nutshell, I'm stuck between losing my erection and cumming too quickly. A rock and a HARD place if you will (pun intended).
7. Because of my dry-streak, I end up getting girls only once in a while and I probably won't hear from them because the sex was bad. So it becomes very difficult to practice as well.
So, how would you go about becoming an amazing lover from the ground up?
If you've gone through this yourself, is there a plan you recommend I follow?
~Jeff
Hope you're doing well.
I've been in the field for 3 years now and I've gotten laid a bunch here and there. While there's a lot to work on, my biggest issue is performing well in the bedroom.
Out of all the lays I've had I think I've only made one girl cum from penetration (many of the others using my mouth or fingers or both).
Now, I realize that there's nothing quite like making a girl cum with your dick.
I'm also not one of those guys who doesn't care about the girl. I want to be an excellent lover.
But, I'm starting from a difficult place. Here's some context -
1. My T-Levels have been low for a long time and I had ED for about 2 years. 2020 - 2021 or 2022. In 2020, it was at 400. After a few months, it went up to 535. Recently, it has come down to 350 although I've increased my protein and fat intake, been hitting the gym (albeit recently), and have more libido overall. I've been taking Shilajit. It helps.
I don't know how my libido has gone up from before but my T-Levels have reduced.
2. I used to watch porn until 2021, I haven't jerked off to porn since July 2021. But, I still end up jerking off a few times a week.
3. I would rather go out and pick up chicks, except I've been hitting the field and I'm stuck on the dreaded Playboy Plateau intermediates inevitably find themselves on.
4. Now, I took a look at the Low Testosterone, No girls funk article where @Chase says you should take a break for 30-45 days if your results have fallen off a cliff. So, I decided to take a break and hit the gym and focus on other stuff. But because I have a dry streak going on, I end up jerking off.
It's difficult to go through a dry streak AND not jerk off.
5. Last night, I ended up getting laid from day game after a dry streak of 40-45 days. I was a lot harder and hornier than I'd usually be. However, I felt this way in the beginning and gradually began to lose it towards the end.
6. When I bring it back up and penetrate the girl, I tend to lose sensation especially while doing her from behind, or if she's riding me. Missionary seems to work the best for my sensitivity.
Even then, if I find myself losing sensation, I end up thrusting harder to maintain my hard-on and end up cumming quickly as a result.
In a nutshell, I'm stuck between losing my erection and cumming too quickly. A rock and a HARD place if you will (pun intended).
7. Because of my dry-streak, I end up getting girls only once in a while and I probably won't hear from them because the sex was bad. So it becomes very difficult to practice as well.
So, how would you go about becoming an amazing lover from the ground up?
If you've gone through this yourself, is there a plan you recommend I follow?
~Jeff
